#look at me giving fruits of wisdom abt relationships when I have never nor do I ever wish to be in one | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

kavehater · 25 days ago

Text

A bit ago I recalled this girl who was saying that in her future relationship she really wants to be the type to hold open doors and give gifts and basically spoke on a lot of things that are considered stereotypically like what a guy does for a girl 😭 and she said she felt bad because she doesn’t want to seem like a guy and that she does that I think for random ppl too 😭 gosh it made me so sad bc I do this all the time and it makes me feel absolutely horrible bc it makes me feel like a dude

#I told her that it’s okay and as long as she’s comfortable there is no shame in doing that #in truth it wouldn’t detract from her status as being a girl at the end of the day #kindness is not gendered or exclusive to a particular gender #still it makes me feel quite bad because I hold the door open for everyone regardless of if they’re a boy or girl #actually only recently has a guy held the door open for me and my classmates who were girls too #he was a groupmate fyi #he just did that for the reason I open the door for guys tho so it’s nothing chivalrous?? 😭#aaaaaaaah I hate thissss #but anyways that girl she felt better and stuff so that’s good !#look at me giving fruits of wisdom abt relationships when I have never nor do I ever wish to be in one #LOLLLLL #dora daily

0 notes