#long explanation: yayy more yapping yayyy!!!! i love to yap about myself
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also btw i had a discovery recently
#💙 cass#TLDR call me whatever. I'm fag.#long explanation: yayy more yapping yayyy!!!! i love to yap about myself#Technically i'm not putting a real label on it#i sort of felt like i always had to clarify 'i'm gay but Maybe there COULD be a woman'#now it's more 'it is what it is but i definitely like dudes'#i called myself pansexual for years and it's what i'm most familiar with#i've been comfortable with gay for the past year or two because i was trying to put an emphasis on being mlm#i don't really like bisexual as a term also just because of all the infighting and the history to it#but omni feels a bit better than pan because it's 'many/all' and still lets me have preference#And flag pretty :)#I also still call myself gay and aroace. So.#it doesn't matter too much i just have a hoard of labels now#collectively i think we're comfortable with queer and aroace. because i think#the more we try to pick 'one' label to work for us the less it works#queer and aroace are enough to explain that our attraction is Not het. and that's fine with us. we don't need to explain further#it's not important to anyone least of all ourselves#But collectively we tend to use whatever label the fronter uses and the vast majority of us are m-spec#so while we don't OFFICIALLY call ourselves bi/pan/gay/lesbian.. we DO collect merch for those and decorate our individual spaces w/ it#I guess now we just have to include omni in our collection. Because most of us use bi or pan. and i had to be special <3#The one exception is aroace. We all use that.#does that make sense. i feel like no#ok TLDR 2: we are the entire LGBTQ community. with emphasis on T Q and A
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