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town-problem · 2 months ago

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some of y'all have grown so comfortable with being emotionally manipulative it hurts.

no, threatening someone with, or god save, attempting to commit suicide over a disagreement is extremely fucking toxic and may cause permanent trauma to the other person.

like just don't do that?

and friends, if someone does this to you, OK , honestly even advised, to leave (Once they're out of harm's way of course). we mustn't put our mental health in jeopardy, this is not your fault.

#TW Suicide Mention #seen a post bout polyamory #and ppl threatening murder suicide #ok i get some ppl are really ungood with their emotions but if like #half of yall #comfortably #state that you'd try murder suicide or murder a man #over a mere suggestion/question/offer #That's definitely not okay?#Like if this happens in a flurry of emotions after a heated argument with seemingly no compromise its different than someone saying #lol if someone suggested polyamory murder suicide #thats not even #no you don't love this person you are OBSESSED #you don't want what's best for them #you are using them #Like i hate to put it this way #But someone else cannot “fix you”#if ur monogamous and ur partner suggest polyamory like a question then u can decline and maybe u can compromise #if ur partner insists - it'd make them complete - and no compromise cannot be reached like u dont feel comf with it #then i'm sorry to say but you're not good for eachother #and it's best to just end that relationship

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