#lmao speaking from exp literally remem my mom constantly saying that she wanted a girl bc she wanted to dress them up all cute and when she
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really cannot stress that if you dont want kids or if you’re not prepared to have them then please don’t
#like.... zude#and when people are like 'i dont need parenting classes or parenting books or a developmental class !!!!1 i'll be fine w/o any resources !!#PLS . do you know what you're saying ?? do you know what youre getting into?????#it's kinda . annoying how people think having a kid is soooooooooooo easy and that they dont need much prior knowledge like . h#i remember hearing people like irl and in media saying they're better than parenting resources and i remem not really thinking much abt it#when i was younger but like ???? let go of your pride !!!!!!!!#parenting classes are there for a reason..... these resources EXIST for a reason!!!!#literally who is taught how to raise a child . if you dont delve into all that info . like#and youre not doing your kids any good by ignoring that.... like#i took One dev psych class and wow..... i learned so much that i did not know#like one thing that'll stick with me esp bc i relate to it is like . when kids are growing up it's important to not intervene every time#when they're trying to learn how to do something . and tell them that they're wrong etc because that will stunt their growth and they can#end up becoming scared/hesitant to learn things and do things on their own and become dependent or wait to be told what to do like#zude . and people will do that maybe bc they care or bc it's easier than waiting to see what your child will do idkbut !! not what youre#suppoed to do . and ppl have probably made so many mistakes through their parenting journey without even knowing and end up hurting their#children and hindering their growth more than they know and it's like UGH . get over yourselves and take it upon yourselves to learn about#children and how to raise them and how they grow and develop if you are going to have them#and don't have kids just for the sake of having kids or bc they're simply cute and you want to fucking play dress up and have a cute kid#lmao speaking from exp literally remem my mom constantly saying that she wanted a girl bc she wanted to dress them up all cute and when she#saw girls at the store dressed up pretty she was so gel like are you kidding me ? im not here to serve that kind of purpose and she was sooo#disappointed to find that i didn't 'turn out the way she wanted' like o how is that a surprise . that i turned out diff than u imagined#and it's just so annoying how ppl are having kids just bc everyone else is and when they have their own issues that are unresolved and they#end up taking them out on their kids like god..... like i was literally thinking last night like do i want kids ??? ive been thinking no for#the past few years and honestly i still dont think so like . there's no reason that i can think of like i literally cannot think of a solid#reason why and its not that i dont like them but i dont have a strong urge or anything to have them plus i really dont think im capable lmao#and just ugh so ughhh that my mom has all these srs issues and that we had to deal with it just bc she wanted kids 'bc they're cute' and my#brother lives knowing this as he was born first like . how sad . how sad to believe that you were born unwanted . he jokes abt it but still#and i was born for the most superficial fucking reason ever lol and for her to be upset that i didnt turn out the way she wanted lol how is#that on me maybe you should have been a better parent ! im not mad abt being alive though im mad @ her for . being like This#anyway waow super long took a diff direction but . dont have kids if you're not prepared or aware of what comes with it please and thank uwu
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