#liveinpresent

[zoneofsilence1]

[littlewriterqueen]

Do you think about yourself, about your future, about your family, about responsibilities.

Quite burdensome right?

Buy if you will not who will, if you do not do the right right things, someone else will get the advantage, and you must be standing in the far away from the things that should be yours but you missed it because of the single thing, you can enjoy everything but you missed it because of a single thing, amazing right.

Isn't this typical love people talk about. They can leave everything in that love but if that love betrays you, and then what? Can anybody answer it? No right.

In my data analysis, mostly teens and just became adult people does this the most, especially, women's. It's not only my analysis that is saying. It is my experience that is talking.

When I was in school, girls sorry one of the 3 girl in every class had a feeling that they will marry the one they are with right now, at that moment. But after that one person leave her, she became addicted to it and in 90% case loses their mind, doing the wrong stuff, becoming cool and well that is cool that in all this you get to know your worth. I am also one of those in my 7 years back.

And believe me, it took a toll on me, I was like crashing all the people who are like that, playing with them and then abandoned them. But on top of everything, they never know who I am, because I never let them see my face, can you believe they fall on.

No right, I never do, but from then on, from that moment on, I believed in myself only, I never trusted anyone. Including my parents, best friends and every single person, who told me that they are close to me and they like me and all the things. Especially I never trusted a man.

Because of some people I am like this, then isn't this a crazy decision to trust again and love again. Why can you give yourself to the person that easily. Just because of some provocation.

Let me give you an advice. If people provoke you to do things in the name of trust and love, believe me girl you had chosen the wrong guy. Because the one who loves will never force you, provoke you or do sympathy for their lust.

When you face it, pull yourself, make a cold face and confront him and that you wanna breakup. That you can not live with a person like him, their is no chance of negotiation. Because once you negotiate, your heart will soften to all the sweet nothing and in future you will became nothing, only a house wife, maybe your children in future even not respect for that, because that was your most foolish decision.

If you want to prove something, or prove yourself to someone, for love, for trust, for everything single thing. Show it to your parents. Show your parents that you love them, doing the things they love, like study, like scoring good marks. Like becoming someone they can look upto. Become their stick to depend on, become the person who can be responsible for all the things, become or try to become the head that can give you chance to take your own wise decision.

Because your parents will not force you to marry someone when they know how you had become a sensible person.

Because they know you can choose the right and wrong.

Believe me whatever you are doing only creating a tarnishing reputation for yourself. Everybody is looking down on you, why because whole world knows who you are with, except for you. They are laughing at you because you choose him, when you will know it, it became a past thing for every single person, except for you.

Rumors will take you on a toll, maybe you will waste your life in future, maybe you will go on a depression and then the movies like dear zindagi will become your best friends. Knowing your future has gone already wasted you will end your life, realizing that you had already disappointed your parents. You will feel worse and worse.

This are the negatives of one rope of hope that you are pulling.

There are positives too, you know why, maybe everyone is not like a person they think is your partner is, maybe you will marry that one person someday. Maybe it feel like a fairytale. But it will hit you hard when you realize that you became nothing in this all this, you had swallowed all the intrest, your reputation, your pride everything, let them do whatever they want, everybody will only insult you, disrespect you and do nothing for you and eventually, your the only one will definitely cheat, or treat all this like their duty, there is no ounce of love in between, all will remain is your responsibility, and in frustration what you will get, guess what?

You are again single but the partner is living a very good life.

You are labeled as divorcee and people will spite on you. You had become single but so what, you had already wasted your life with someone but got no skills to live your life without them.

You had failed, take a long journey or short you will eventually become a failure and will live a life with full of regrets, imagine just how great you feel at that time. When you realise that this post can be your chance but you missed it. Just because you believe you are right on your decision.

Let me tell you one last thing. The rope you are pulling is too hard on your hands, it is already giving you the all sorts of wounds.

Try to let go.

Because letting will make you relieve and it is never late when you let go of that rope and just imagine becoming a CEO or something.

That people will look upto.

You had lived your ambition.

You are happy.

[theliteraryquotes]

[writerinsights-blog]

[ischs]

When people ask you to listen to a song, it is a message which actually conveys something that they want you to understand about them at that situation is in that song. People have tendencies to relive in the moments through music with lyrics Some people re-live the pain or pleasures they have gone through or still going through. Other category of people will live in the moments which they could never live in real life Either way they are healing their inner pains and needs Most People listen to sad songs after break up are reducing their emotional temptations by rhythmic musical regeneration of past events in an unconscious mindfulness method. Experience in the present to get rid of it is a natural way of mind to solve the slips of mind. The people listen to happy songs are also using this way as they experience the happiness through shortcuts at such moments in present Obviously musical meditation with lyrics, enchantments, mantras and spells can do similar results in people. What you enchant will impact you Do you find a reason to enchant happiness or peace of mind now ? Be mindful Be in present Live now #mindfulness #musicalmeditation #liveinpresent #krishnagaatha #ischs #indianschoolofcounsellingandhealingstudies (at ISCHS - Indian School of Counselling And Healing Studies) https://www.instagram.com/p/B-3SRZ7hFZS/?igshid=5gqtuq04qra5

[joydebmondalasansol]

Don’t Let Your Past Make A Stop To Your Future... - Joydev Mondal

[apluviophileindeed]

When older people say that ‘times were simpler back then’ they’re really just recalling a period of their lives before they became aware of the complexity of things.

[imyashikaaggarwal]

Journey

The biggest mistake a person can do in life is to think about the success destination in advance which often leads to dissatisfaction, if they didn’t get their desired results... All one have to do is initiate the first step towards your desires... Your desires will lead you towards your success... Don’t chase something which is miles ahead... “Think about now... Live in present...” I m sure success will always await for you in the end... Without your acquaintance...

Just think about it :)

[itsanuj1998-blog]

When you want something with all your heart , that's when you are closet to the soul of the world. It's always a positive force.

[starryamour-blog]

Being Positive = Being Fake

Summing up everything about postivity feels like someone is telling you to forget reality and think about something that is not even there, something more like fantasizing. Fantasizing about things like, we used to do when we were kids. I fail to understand how fantasizing is really going to help. How being positive is really going to help. In one way aren’t we just giving up on reality and thinking how having a better chance at faith to work things out. Doesn’t it mean that we are just going to wait there and hope for the best. It is a clutter of what we want and we have. Being positive is more confused than our lives. It is more of dilemma to live in future which we don’t know if it will ever exist. Can we stop pretending that is all going to be good and instead just worry about it. Eustress is actually helpful in some cases, which we should try. It alteast gets things done. When being positive is just a prolong wait to nowhere.  We are actually supposed to work towards it and not change the direction.  Let’s face the obstacle or anything that’s there in our lives and solve it in reality and not in our imagination . So to rest my case I feel why do we have to be positive ? Can’t we just be real , keep our emotions as they are and not be fake. Being positive that something good will happen does not mean we stop looking at our current problem. Can we just be sad and unhappy about the current situation. Why change our perspective and say BE POSSITIVE. Lets live in the present and accept what it is for and stop giving any more meaning to it.  For how long will our fantasies last and make us feel complete. It is better to find happiness in reality than to find happiness in our imagination. Projecting future and vision is a different story but living in that projection will not make it reality. Live in present to make your sure your future projection can turn into reality one day.

[payal21sblog-blog]

Why Living in the future when you can be awesome today

PayalTheBolgger

As a 21 year old girl I am seeing my life back, the only thing I can think is I always lived in the future, I never tried to live in the present. After coming in the college I got to know myself more and more and I realized this big thing that tommorow will never come until and unless you never change the present. This thing I already read in quotes, heard from great thinkers but my mindset hadn't changed but after going through some incidents I got to know this thing. I think we all learns from our experience we never learn things just by reading, until and unless we use that in practical life. I realized how great I can be today that I don't need to think about tomorrow. I can be funny, I can spend time with my friends, I can share quality time with my family, I can be great speaker, I can be good leader, I can be more participative in classrooms, I can make friends easily, I can learn things very quickly and I can value my time. I can be super awesome today so I don't need to live in the imaginary world where I'm thinking I will be like that in the future.

So, Guys make your present so awesome that you don't need to think about future.

[officialkaransharma]

Traveling is the only way to find your soul #KeepTraveling #GhumakkadSoul #SoulOnWander #GeneticTraveller #LifeIsOne #PresentMoment #LiveInPresent #RealFutureIsDeath (at Varanasi, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/BpJIMO0FgSCwaKZSQPn6PpXuq-H_0hiC7vFsfU0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=11198j110387q

[finilia]

I am drowning as I think about the things I want to do and not about the things that I can do right now, right her. At this very moment.

[ecoplanetstore]

I hardly know anyone who had easy past and glorious present #nothingcomeseasy #glorious #gloriouspresent #past #present #lifecycle #happyness #neverregret #happypresent #liveinpresent (at Ecoplanetfarm) https://www.instagram.com/p/CTyXs4RpjX5/?utm_medium=tumblr

[nikitabudhair-blog]

Everything changes with time but what remains is memories...that might be good or bad or scary or funny or anything else. So enjoy each and every moment of present 😉