#literally combined the demi prefix with the grayromantic label and now we got demigrayromantic
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i think the reason i love labels so much and love putting a metaphorical holographic glittery sticker on everything i feel is because i love categorising things and stringing on terms that are just shorter ways to abbreviate the wider definitions of how i feel. they're like little shorthands for things i can elaborate on with either more words or more labels. i love microlabels because my brain CRAVES the specificity and accuracy that comes with explaining just how i feel and microlabels really help me do that. i love making up new labels that are highly specific to me as well because of that love for accuracy and specificity. it feels like such a highly customisable experience for me, it's like collecting trading cards and dolls and figurines and never feels like a set of guidelines for me to squeeze myself into just to fit inside them, but instead they are for me to pick and choose and change however i like. i am not being placed in boxes, the boxes are being placed on me and i am wearing them like a kid wears a cardboard robot costume
#the autistic urge to put stickers everywhere and specifically categorise your experience#i love labels i love categorising things i love having specific words for specific feelings i love putting stickers everywhere!!!!#and if a label doesn't fit. make a new one or combine shit#there are no rules do whatever you want forever#literally combined the demi prefix with the grayromantic label and now we got demigrayromantic#demiromantic wasn't accurate and grayromantic wasn't accurate enough it needed a lil spice#doin fuckin. label alchemy#i'm playing minecraft creative mode with commands and mods enabled with my sexuality and gender over here#this is the magic of labels#people think they're a set of strict guidelines you need to follow#and if you don't then you aren't valid#but it's actually the opposite#labels are there to follow YOU and be there for YOU to change and shift around and do alchemy with however you want#you do not have to change yourself to be valid#and like. if someone doesn't like that what are they gonna do? huh?#call the label police? cry about it on shitter? they can't do anything#everybody's valid bitch let's get you some fruit#labels#microlabels#queer#lgbtq+#lgbtq community#lgbtq
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