#like. hearing a strong opinion from a person u follow w/o having previous knowledge on the topic yk

[fagdykevash]

#REAL REAL REAL#I ALWAYS SAY THERES NO RULES TO BEING QUEER UNLESS YOURE A TOTAL ASSHOLE LMAO#ANYONE CAN BE WHAT THEY LIKE IF IT MAKES THEM HAPPY AND COMFY SLAY#THEY r not doing anything wrong YOU are. for saying they're hurting someone or doing it wrong before knowing what they mean tbh#even if u don't end up understanding them as long as nobody's being hurt by it you can leave that person alone about Their Own Experience#like gosh.. it's easier than you think :[ people r so quick to get mad abt stuff everyones looking for a reason to feel better than someone#-or be upset about something that doesnt affect them and I think thats incredibly unfair.#oufhghfb sorry for tagrambling prev and op but this was important to me

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you get it!! you understand !!

maybe it's just me, but i feel like conflicting and obscure labels are actually pretty understandable if you just think for a second.

if someone's a straight lesbian, they are either multigender/bigender and are attracted to women regardless, or are heteroromamtic homosexual (or vice versa). of course, there can be more options as well, and it's so easy to just... ask! they'd probaby be happy to tell you. if not, just don't worry about it, because it's probably none of your business anyway.

same thing with mspec gay men/lesbians, xenogender folks, neopronouns users, almost anyone. it's not that hard to reach out and offer kindness instead of immediate disgust and rejection. we're a queer community, and the last thing we need is to fall to infighting.