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tinylittlecubby · 3 months ago

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Romance is often very dehumanizing,personally.

Being hyper dependent on someone (as if you have no autonomy)

The idea that it is what 'makes you human' which is dangerous for all kinds of reasons and is the most literal display of the dehumanization.

I am not someone's purpose as I am 1 person. No more, no less. Sure I cant be replaced, but that kind of pressure literally leads to people losing their lives due to abuse. A purpose can not be a person inherently.

The idea that my whole world exists in my lovers arms sounds like a cage with 2 bars.

#thoughts #why does the new twister movie have one of the best romantic plots #like tyler sees and recognizes kate that she is lart of the world #not something or someone that is inherently reserved for him just cause he likes her #and he actually makes more than hid dick at words useful!!! holy shit!!#also anatomy of a fall #but that is a little different cause that is literally her lawyer and her freedom is literally in his hands #so they could not be as direct with the romance but that is why i like it too #there are subjects to learn #skills to master #people from various positions and walks of life to meet #there is so much in life #and i feel like so many people waste so much time on this 1 thing and they wonder why they are not satisfied despite having everything else #or thwy have nothing and think a romantic relationship will give them everything #like you cant fix your credit score with a romantic relationship sorry #aromantic

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