#like im sorry to be blunt but as someone who literalyl did deal with internalized homophobia... | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

littlebabycrybtch · 6 years ago

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honestly tho what the fuck is up with blaming the ace community when people realize they identified as ace because of internalized homophobia like,,,, do you seriously think people talk More about asexuality than they do internalized homophobia, even online,,,, and do you seriously believe that aspecs (a community where overlapping lgbt+ orientations are the Highest Majority) just Never discuss internalized homophobia,,,,,, and you believe this when ur exclusie asses are literally obsessed with making sure you never actually interact with or listen to the ace community unless its to talk shit and then leave like,,,,,, godddd we literally do all we can to make sure ppl in our community are being healthy yall are the ones who shoot down literally every single word we fucking say to make sure we’re hardly allowed to Have a community lmao you have no idea what ur talking about just say you ran out of excuses to hate the acey wacies and Go

#ace discourse #ace disk horse #asexual #boost ace voices #asexuality #neg/ ///#like im sorry to be blunt but as someone who literalyl did deal with internalized homophobia...#and was able to completely and fully seperate it from my asexuality (bc im pan and nb as fuck now)#that shit Sucks and Damages people but it was........... a mistake and frankly a mistake literally only i myself could.. make #like was it my Fault? /NO/ society was fuckin homophobic my family was homophobic it was Homophobes fault i didnt wanna be bi #but that still doesnt make ... figuring out my identity... not my own responsibility #like #i also id'd as a trans guy for a while bc nb identities were hated on so much and yet i dont sit here and?? blame trans guys???#i blame cissexism and gender rolls that cis ppl perpetuate.... i blame nbphobes... not... trans guys... lmao #so why is ur ass blaming ace people... who are consistently overlapped with lgbt+ identities poc and disabilities #for talking about their existence in a way that just like any other identity can only be determined by the person themself #and u.... determining that was who you are literally how is that anyone elses ability oh my God #blame homophobes not ace ppl and i swear to fuking god allmighty if yall srsly try to spout 'theyr the same thing' in 2019 #im gonna retch oh my god get your ass outta my gay ace face discustenkg

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