#like i dont even rmbr if i tag my boypussy stuff with feminization but honestly if i did im not gonna in the future

[jedibongrip]

a (semi)minor pet peeve of mine in fic writing/fanart spaces is when people tag anything to do with wearing feminine clothes or having a vagina as 'feminization.' like yeah, you can be feminizing someone while they wear a dress or as they engage in sexual acts with their vagina, but neither of those things NECESSARILY INHERENTLY equal feminization!!!

clothes are always gender-neutral!!!! a man wearing a dress is not necessarily a man who is feminizing themself or being feminized, even if theyre having sex!!! having a vagina does not automatically make a person feminized too!!!! having a vagina is also gender-neutral!!! even if terms like 'pussy' or 'cunt' are used, that does not equal femininity or an alignment with womanhood!!!

like i GET what people are trying to say when they say 'no feminization' or whatever but, its like. all it does is tell ME that THEY are unable to conceptualize clothing and bodies outside of the colonial gender binary. get a more exciting gender then write porn