#like i could probably get away with saying “its easier to pronounce this nickname lol” rather than coming out and saying “oh btw im trans” | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

valentinesparda · 3 months

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I'm really hoping I can train everyone to use my preferred name at my new job. if I have to hear my dead name more often than just reading it occasionally and having the hiring process be full of them trying to pronounce it I might end up spiralling into a big depression again. lol

#val.txt #like i could probably get away with saying “its easier to pronounce this nickname lol” rather than coming out and saying “oh btw im trans”#and i know id probably HAVE to use the word trans depending on how cool the new coworkers are #if they can at least use my preferred name then i dont really care about pronouns but if i can manage BOTH.... OOOOH #im still in the middle of texas so its a big ask but like. idk. i saw the library insta and everyone looks pretty progressive and cool #idk idk. we'll see 😭😭 my dead name is on all the offical schedules and stuff though and i dont want to be told “its confusing”

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