#like how often i have seen people write off mens trauma by saying 'oh boohoo you have daddy/mommy issues who doesnt' | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

rigginsstreet · 5 months ago

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theo rossi talking about how his dad abandoning him as a kid shaped this mindset of "well if he thinks im shit then i must be shit so let me prove it to the rest of the world and be horrible and abuse myself too"...

billy hargrove teas i fear

#im actually obsessed listening to the men on this podcast talk about their traumas #which sounds terrible but like idk i enjoy hearing men open up and be vulnerable and unpacking shit about their life #not to get deep but lets get deep for a second #i think women are afforded a lot of space to be able to talk about shit that led them to certain points where men dont get that #like how often i have seen people write off mens trauma by saying 'oh boohoo you have daddy/mommy issues who doesnt'#where as you would never say that to a woman?#like when a woman acts out because of parental trauma everyones very quick to be like 'well yeah of course that makes sense'#but when men say 'hey my parent fucked me up and it caused me to do this' everyone goes 'yeah well it happens to everyone get over it'#and that bothers me sooooooooo much #pick an attitude and stick to it #i hate a double standard! i do!#like idk if a man wants to unpack his shit and work through it we should celebrate that! as we do with everyone!#anyway happy mens mental health awareness month or whatever it is lmao

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