#like girl you REEK of privilege if thats your worst and only demon

[butch-bakugo]

You wanna know why people specifically bring up that baddels/trans radfems/transandrophobes are not just a danger to perisex trans men/mascs but specifically towards amab enbies who don't fit their narrative/arnt fem enough to be "truly victims of transmysogny" and ESPECIALLY intersex people? Why we keep saying they are inherently transmysognistic and interphobic?

They question your existence as an Intersex person, every experience you've ever had and if, in their opinion, you're a ~True Victim~ if you went through all the same shit they did and didn't come to their transphobic bad faith position. They litterally can't accept that someone could not basically go to their mysognistic position and still be as victimized as them. Sis didn't even read the whole thing, garentee.

Transfems are not punished by society for failing male socialization. Period. Ur claim makes no sense because male socialization is not a test. It's not a quiz. You can't fail it, it's something ur taught literally as you learn to walk and talk and interact with other children. Male socialization is a curriculum, it's the outlines and the plan. Transfems inherently fail the social test society puts on amabs to test if they are manly enough to be respected by society to earn the title of man. It has nothing to do with how successful said curriculum is, just what it is.

I think what you meant is society punishes transfems for not being it's definition of a "true", or acceptable by their terms, man. You can fail to fit societies standards and expectations of you but male socialization is about the way you were raised, the things you were taught, the biases you were implemented with and the punishments and rewards you got for specific behavior, all with the expectations you would grow up to be a mysognistic man. The test fails transfems cause A. It's a bad moral code and will fundamentally hurt a healthy child regardless of their eventually gender and B. Ur not a man. None of those stop you becoming mysognistic but both stop you from becoming what society wants from someone it deems amab.

I didn't state in the post in question but male socialization is not a good thing and it's harmful to everyone. I did state it hurt everyone but it also especially hurts trans women, transfems and cis men alike. It's not a privilege they just waltz in and out of, it has real bad effects on the kid. However..

Ur take is nonsense and in bad faith and you ended it trying to claim I'm not a transfem because I don't specifically agree with you. Imagine trying to literally claim someone's lived experiences, identity and existence in a space they have every right to socially and biologically because they don't completely agree with everything that aligns with your personal experiences. You know what? That checks out completely for y'all. You fight with amab enbies day and night on if they fit your acceptable percentage of femininity and transmysognistic violence, of course you'd fight with an intersex person. You can't verify my experiences and you think the only valid experience is that of perisex binary trans women, of course you'd question literally everyone else, your a fucking transfem binary supremacist who views everyone some how as lesser than you and weak little theyfabs but somehow more powerful than everyone else exclusively to tear down and hurt you. You've got to be either aware of how stupid you sound and not care cause no one will check you or litterally out of your fucking mind deluded into conspiracy levels of egoism that you genuinely believe the world and all forms of oppression either fuel or pale in comparison to the binary perisex white trans woman's experiences with transmysogny.

Honey... I can walk circles around you in the native field, people are much more concerned when I say land back than when I mention I have ambiguous genitalia. Please get some perspective 💀💀💀