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toxicrevolver · 6 months ago

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do you have a preferred pronoun ratio

https://www.tumblr.com/harpieisthecarpie/750068667415478272/reblog-with-your-pronoun-ratios-and-percentages?source=share ^ referring to this btw

I genuinely prefer my it/its pronouns over my they/them pronouns. As for like a percentage ratio there isn’t one.

If I had it my way I’d only go by it/its (I know I could bcs they’re my pronouns but people suck). I’ve had too many people just flat out refuse to use it/its which is really the only reason they/them is an option. I vehemently hate being referred to as she/her (I’m afab) but he/him is honestly okay if you can’t grasp it/its or they/them in sentence structure (I understand languages are weird. Especially if english isn’t someone’s first language and their og languages don’t have a they/them equivalent).

#hi my bread friend!!!#obsidian rambles #obsidian lore drop #I just woke up from a nap and answered this so I’m sorry if this is confusing #I hope this makes sense my brain is soup #ALSO!#I don’t like feminine like nicknames or compliments either #I’d rather be referred to as dude or whatever than sweetheart or dear #and beautiful/pretty genuinely give me the ick and make me sick to my stomach #like I won’t get mad or anything if people call me more traditionally fem things likes sweetheart/dear bcs I know it’s sometimes a…#culture thing but yeah. I’d prefer not.#I joke irl that I don’t wanna be referred to at all. like don’t talk about me I didn’t do it.#ALSO ALSO #I’m rambling sorry but that’s what I’ve decided tags are for #I realized I genuinely hate my legal name bcs I realized “normal” people to get a tummy ache when people use their name #people dont*#like I honestly get sick to my stomach when people call me my legal name even over text #so yeah there’s that #have that lore about me

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