At camp, we talked about different kinds of needs as a stool: the seat is survival needs, and each of the legs are freedom, fun, control, and love needs. I still tend to think about my day to day using this lens, and asking myself if my stool is even and comfy, and doing what i can to fix it if it's not.
This is all to say the control leg of my stool rn is a little nubbin, whittled away by the big things in my life that are all outside my control, and i am GRASPING for the need to control literally anything i can 😅😭😅
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