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non-binharry · 4 years ago

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stangolden is the one who said "real nb people are doing it BETTER" than harry in response to people believing harry could be noncis, basically invalidating those of us nb people who aren't out here like ezra miller. also their obsession with saying trans expression =/= identity is so fucking funny like imagine trying to lecture trans people on that as if we don't have that in mind with harry when we look at harry. can't believe putting a trans flag on your album and saying a woman lives inside you with she/her as the first one yoh see isn't a signal of your identity. not to mention saying we're just projecting top/bottom discourse for only mentioning blouies when as larries, these are the people in our immediate circle harassing us. but anyway, geniuslyrics including the interpretation that she is about gender were just bh stans hacking the system right? like they're just so manipulative with their wording. while some trans people don't believe harry's trans the majority IS cis transphobes and it's a fact because uhhh CIS PEOPLE ARE THE MAJORITY IN FANDOM. i'm tired of these "i'm trans and don't believe!" as if trans harries/larries aren't just a handful, and the complete majority are cis people who are uhhhh generally the majority in society lmao? stangolden is just so full of shit. they were at the forefront of demonizing the trans people who initially said harry could be trans by LYING DELIBERATELY ansbcalling us cis fetishists who thought dresses and nail polish made harry trans, and scaring the fandom into ostracizing us. but they just care sooo much about us right? they're mutuals with a bunch of harry hating ex larries and blouies who look to them for validation after openly expressing their transphobic opinions. but i guess not acknowledging that and insisting we're blindly accusing them all of transphobia for NO reason makes for a better LIE to normalize bullying against us.

#lemme tell y'all that i was ELATED when siarra soft blocked me #because they were the only person i tried so hard not to offend since i knew they felt uncomfortable about harry's gender being discussed #and i was like damn lemme not because like black folks we gotta stick together in fandom spaces #but i already knew that they had said shady shit about harry being cis which is NEVER NOT GONNA BE WEIRD COMING FROM NBS #so when they softblocked i was like 😌😌 i finally know inner peace #it wasn't until i found that one post that was on the same blog with the list of transphobic larries #and i saw their posts from last november and i was infuriated #like imagine being so fucking wrong about everything #imagine as a non-binary person being so ill-informed about your own community that you really say with your whole chest #that harry has referred to himself as a man and uses he/him pronouns so he's cis #try to understand how invalidating that is to trans people who live in a closet and/or feel like they're not enough #because they're not doing it the right way #there's no fucking one way to be non-binary so for someone to really perpetuate this shit is ugly ugly ugly #then as i said yesterday they have changed the criteria on who is allowed to say anything to try to silence people #first it was UPLIFT TRANS VOICES! they said until they realized trans voices were the ones talking about harry's gender #then it hopped to ''only transfemmes should speak on transfemme experience'' even though we're speaking #on the COLLECTIVE experience of transhood regardless of gender assigned at birth #now they've decided to take the fucking blouie stance and say it's about fanfiction #no the fuck it's not and it's never been about that which is why there so many trans harries who feel and believe the same thing we do #blouies are fucking transphobes who believe harry is cis because his body is ''masculine'' and they've consistently harassed #mocked and disrespected trans people in this fandom #if they weren't the loudest ones yelling about harry being cis we wouldn't give a fuck about them #but saying it's about fanfiction is reductive and invalidating to our identities #and i'm genuinely tired of it #so anyways i'm publishing this because i've had enough of siarra's bullshit #but genuinely from the bottom of my heart i ask y'all to just leave them the fuck alone #block or unfollow if you want to (or don't idc) but like don't message them about anything #like i said i didnt even want to say anything and i think they suffer enough with this fandom's daily caucasity #but these are the nbs that cis people in this fandom flock to when they want an opinion that looks like theirs #so they can be transphobic under the guise of support for trans people who are uncomfortable about other trans people

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