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There has to be a way to tell People in a casual in real life conversation that you're fine all things considered, Just wondering if you're developing your great uncle's schizophrenia as well as worsening your autism.....
#personal#anteroom be normal challenge#kids will you lighten up#listen my families do a great autism and some amazing adhd#but unfortunately#we also either get bpd or schizophrenia somewhere along the way#i thought i lucked out with bpd#i think im getting all the mental illnesses
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Spawn fans: arguing with Ascended fans.
Ascended fans: arguing with Spawn fans.
Me, a true Astarion Enjoyer:
#i hate all the negativity can't we all just enjoy our favorite versions of him?#he's literally a choose your own adventure vampire boyfriend why are we fighting lol#i get why people get defensive of their personal interpretation of him#but the fact that there's always so much ascended vs spawn arguing after every patch is just...#kids could you lighten up a little#bg3#astarion#astarion ancunin#astarion romance#ascended astarion#spawn astarion#baulders gate 3
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some of yall should like. start watching baseball and hockey instead of talking about politics i think. i think it would sate yall's weird ass bloodlust better and make you all a lot more pleasant to be around.
#kids can u lighten up a bit.jpg#how am i still afflicted by these people during EXAMS oh my god cant you fucking weirdos drop out or something
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Hey! I actually have a pretty random question to ask but after read your fanfiction, ( which is very amazing, thank you so much for reading) Optimus basically adopts Sunset, right?
Would that make her and Bee siblings? and if it does what would be their dynamic?
Aw, thank you! Glad you enjoyed it!
And yes, you are right, the moment Optimus saw Sunset he said: “You are my child now.” and bam! now he has two kids, his tiny bee and lil’ flame. 🐝🔥
Bee *looks at Sunset*: He took you in too, huh? Sunset: Yep. Does that make us siblings? Bee: I think so.
Bumblebee will totally be like a big brother figure to Sunset
And both of them are protective of each other
He is more like the ‘trying to stay calm and patient’ type of sibling, as for Sunset, she is short-tempered and will jump to fight right away, he will have to hold her
Since Sunny is kinda the one who usually leads the girl squad, Bee will help and try to teach her some basic stuff he knows, how to defend herself, to lead a team or stay at ease during pressuring situations
The two of them are very into music, they will definitely share some of their favorite songs or bands
Slight teasings and jokes are their type of bonding as well
They also like to talk about their past adventures and experiences
While rambling about their worst moments they use humor as a coping mechanism
Ha. ✨Trauma Siblings✨
#crossover stuff#robots and magic#ask#sorry for the late reply#thanks for the question!#OP will prob be like 'Kids could you lighten up a little?'
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the mp100 fic i want to read based upon the tone and pacing of the thing: reigen chokes on takoyaki that is too hot and briefly becomes a spirit. mob uses his psychic powers to cheat on an important math test one time and feels so immediately guilty he becomes physically ill. dimple infiltrates the jehovahs witnesses
the mp100 fic that there is: 'whump' 'angst' 'trauma' 'death' 'abuse' 'torture' 'PTSD' 'blood and injury' 'hurt no comfort' 'vomiting' 'childhood trauma' 'character death'
#theres a time and place for all of that#but marge simpson voice kids can you lighten up a little#to be so serious without ever being funny. imagine#theyre flaying that kid with knives in there
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it's a 'really hoping i haven't had the last halloween costume of my life' kind of day
#marge simpson image macro Kids Could You Lighten Up A Little#i would love to have the ability to do anything except rot in my room#well time to take my lamictal :)#Just 25 More Milligrams Bro I Swear It'll Work In Just 25 More Milligrams
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feel kinda bad abt that one time i tried drawing half-dragon zelda but it was just giving her weird hands and eyes really. rest assured i will rectify this mistake in due time.
#i DO think like. post-totk its not that wild though like truly. its probably just way more on the falin side of things if we're being honest#the body horror stuff is fun though. but i just don't think it meshes very well with everything else going on in tht world. sorry#something something kids can you lighten up a little#its not that serious though really LOL#personal.txt
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Karlach and Sera are the "they put us in different universes because they knew we would be unstoppable as best friends" kinda characters, methinks
#listening to Sam talking about Karlach being the working class kid unlike some tories#just brings up some thoughts#listen - helping little people? check#class solidarity - check#would Karlach like pranks and chaos - I bet she would#definitely would agree that people need to lighten the fuck up#Sera can also be on fire via the tempest potions so that battlefield would be crazy#tieflings are not qunari but a big buff woman with horns is a big buff woman with horns you dig#(so they might also kiss about it if both aren't taken)#also they would have damn competitions over who swears more#(we all know Sera would say 'fuck' much more often if DAI allowed her to)#they would 100% come up with the same 'what if I throw you' - 'NO how about I sit on your shoulders instead' strategy#like Sera and Bull do#also Sera hears about Gortash ONE time and that man turns into a fucking hedgehog with arrows for needles#consequently anyone who's nasty towards her gets yeeted into the sun#there's probably something to be said for tieflings also being a looked-down-upon race but I don't think they're#comparable to DA elves in any way enough to draw any parallels there#I'm definitely not qualified either way#ah right they're both kinda convinced they're broken and unloveable so that's. a fun common ground we (they) do not talk about#also tbh I think they could both stand each other's tempers pretty well#anyway idk that's my vision
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writing poetry for the first time in literal years realizing oh hey this girl's kind of. she's kind of got problems
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okay rereading the mahalia x john prompt i did actually go a little crazy my apologizes folks
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Hii, what about some eyes? 👁️ 👁️
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When shipping Orrin/Murtagh, do you ever feel the need to just... give in to their alcohol abuse tendencies? I wanted to do a drabble with them but halfway their communication problem turned into retreating, moping and drinking :(
Oooh that idea has a lot of interesting possibilities within it. Of course, it’s perfect for angst, and I think there’s great potential to develop it into a meaningful resolution.
I definitely encourage you to keep going! I don’t feel like the characters relapsing into alcoholism to some degree has to halt the progress of your story, especially when writing Murtagh and Orrin. After all, the ways that both of them made mistakes with alcohol in the past is one of the many interesting overlaps between them. The way their communication issue led them back to drinking is an interesting concept in itself. It’d be a cool approach to illustrate what emotions they’re most vulnerable to and what makes Murtagh feel the need to drink versus what makes Orrin feel it. What parts of their relationship are most affected by these struggles? Do they try to keep it hidden? Do they ever drink together?
That has a lot of potential to shift the situation and explore their dynamic from an entirely new angle. Would Orrin first suggest it, or would Murtagh? How exactly would they interact in that kind of state and how would they feel about it afterwards? That could lead them to reveal or confess things they were avoiding and kickstart proper communication. Or on the other hand, if their drunken distress feeds into each other and makes their pain and misunderstanding even worse, it could make them realize afterwards that they need to deal with things directly before they break something that can’t be fixed.
Alternatively, maybe one or both of them realize what the other is doing without ever seeing them drink. Since they both had past experiences with alcohol abuse, they could be particularly conscious of the signs. Maybe Orrin notices the glint of a flask tucked surreptitiously in Murtagh’s pocket even though he’d never seen him carry one before, or he sees tiny drops of red staining the sleeve of his shirt. Maybe Murtagh notices the smell of Orrin’s breath through the heavy perfume trying to disguise it, or catches him bringing his goblet away with him when dinner is finished.
Realizing that the other is also struggling can spark deep empathy and concern. Perhaps that earnest care and desire to help can overpower the feelings that caused the communication issue to begin with. Or the worry and urge to help make it clear that their own drinking habits are harmful and need to be addressed. It could provide a lot of motivation to open up and work through hard things together once they see how much they’re both hurt by such miscommunications. And breaking their habits and recovering together could ease so much shame and fear and show Murtagh and Orrin the value of support that they’ve never had quite like this.
So much potential! I really hope that was helpful or inspiring in some way, and I hope it wasn’t overbearing or anything. I just adore chatting about ideas for the two of them. If you do finish the fic, please please PLEASE send me a link, I’d fucking LOVE to read it!!!!!!
(If it’s of interest- I haven’t really felt drawn to show them falling back to their alcoholism during their relationship, but it’s more because I don’t tend to emphasize substance abuse in my own writing. On an individual level, I find it somewhat uncomfortable to write in depth, and I’m not fully confident in my ability to depict it well. It’s a very interesting theme and I’ve enjoyed plenty of stories that deal with it, but writing it myself is a different beast I’m not always up for.
Within my own story, I work through the alcohol abuse they demonstrate during canon in the first part and bring it to a resolution before they meet. Orrin overcomes his brief but brutal descent into alcoholism during the first few months after the end of the war as part of his journey to properly process his grief for the loved ones he lost. In my headcanons, Murtagh’s drunkenness was more isolated and extreme incidents, also very unhealthy, but not consistent in a way that led to dependency. That makes it easier for him to overcome, facilitated by the fact that he simply has no alcohol to drink in his isolation. By the time they meet, they both have a resolve to not drink if they can avoid it.
For the most part, they’re pretty good for each other in that way. They want to support the other’s resolve to stay sober and don’t want to undermine that with any temptation, and that tends to keep them from initiating drinking together. (Though that doesn’t always keep them away from other unhealthy behaviors...) I’ve written a conversation between them where they first talk about that part of their past. In a certain way, it helps alleviate some of their shame and fear of judgment to know that they’ve both made similar mistakes. They empathize with that struggle and would never condemn the other for it.
Although, all this has made me consider some ways having struggles with alcohol come back up might play a meaningful role in the story, so I definitely want to give that more thought!)
#even if you dont finish you can still send a wip if you want 👍 id devour it#eragon#inheritance cycle#murtagh#orrin#murtagh x orrin#mxo#answered ask#good luck writing!!!#these 2 poor boys probably would be the most insufferably depressing drunks to be around lol#thorn would need to get all the booze away and curl up around them to make them sleep it off instead#*simpsons meme* thorn: kids could you lighten up a little?#cw alcohol#ask to tag
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as everyone else finishes their pre-fionna-and-cake rewatches here’s my two cents: you SHOULD watch wizard city LAST because it’s best watched through the together again tears
#yeah yeah yeah together again is the last episode. I know. but you need something stupid to lighten up after that#and what better way than to (squints at writing on hand) watch pepermint butler torment his child self until that kid kills several adults#it hits different after together again. it’s such a whiplash. it’s delightful. that’s how it’s meant to be experienced#while you’re so sad and raw cuz finn and jake are together again🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭 and then it’s like Hullo! I’m Song Wizard;)#meanwhile you’re still hugging your knees like ok song wizard 🥺 I just got my soul ripped out can u help maybe this episode will fix me#it won’t#it will only confuse you but hey it’s pretty#atimers#<- goes there. usually I’m scared to tag things as that. but this can go in that tag hi#adventure time#not art#like when you just watch it separate it’s Different. it’s Not the Same. but in the release/dvd order? after together again ? AUGH#special#this was gonna go on main and everything but I got shy
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haha people who have normal relationships with their fathers where they didn’t grow up being constantly made to feel dumb/unimportant/annoying…. what’s that like babes hahaha
#autism doesn’t make you a bad parent. unmanaged/unaddressed autism combined with a general lack of consideration for everyone around you…#now THAT will fuck your kid up.#autistic people often struggle with eye contact. that’s cool no problem i can still engage in conversation like that.#buuut when you’re four and super exited to tell your dad what you did that day and he literally doesn’t acknowledge your presence??#and it’s that across your entire LIFETIME? your entire childhood and teen years and fuck it even your adult life????? THAT SHIT SUCKS#and THEN the only times you CAN get a conversation out of him it’s an argument where he WILL not stop talking over you#and scoffing at every single word you say#and raising his voice as he tells you how stupid you’re being#ummmmmmmmmm yeeaaahhhh okie dokie. a lifetime of that might ummm… lead to a few issues.#oh wait i forgot the third category of interaction: listening to him complain about something absolutely meaningless. for 20mins.#just killing the mood of any conversation.#you’re watching tv it’s fun everyone’s having fun!! yayyy yippee isn’t this nice#and then someone on tv will say ‘up and down the country’ (goofy but harmless phrase) and suddenly all you can hear is a rant#about the banality of overused idioms and phrases.#LIKE!! can you fucking lighten up for five fucking seconds. please.#idk man. my mum and i spent our whole morning travelling out to some random shop wayyyy out of our way. requires multiple buses to get there#JUST to get him a birthday present. because we thought it was fun and cute and because it’s very personal to him.#like we built our DAY around this. we spent £120 on this. FOR HIM!! because we thought he’d enjoy it!!!!#and we’re spending all day tomorrow wrapping his presents and hand making cards and planning the cake i will be baking for him#and he gets home from work and. IMMEDIATELY starts picking a fight.#like we had a lovely day. we had SUCH a good day. and a lot of it was about doing stuff FOR HIM for HIS BIRTHDAY!!!#which we were HAPPY AND EXITED TO DO!!!!!#and he fucking ruins the whole thing.#now my mum is sleeping on the sofa because she’s so angry at the way he was talking to me and i’m typing this bullshit.#and. he just. he doesn’t care. he doesn’t get it. he literally cannot comprehend why we’re upset at him.#he can’t see anything from anyone else’s perspective. he can’t comprehend the idea that maybe just maybe HE was the one being unkind.
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