#just saw one of those classic ''i crushed on someone & they broke my heart 🤡 🤡 🤡'' posts and i'm just | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

catmiration · 2 years

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no you know what. having feelings for someone who seemed like they'd be good for you who end up being bad for you is not "clown behavior." i'm so tired of self-deprecating humor being the mainstream, as someone whose humor was formerly self-deprecating. that shit harms you so fucking much, and believing you're a fuck-up because you loved someone? that's stays with you.

#just saw one of those classic ''i crushed on someone & they broke my heart 🤡 🤡 🤡'' posts and i'm just #dude. love is the point of it all. love and loss are two sides of the same coin. you're not fucking stupid for opening up your heart to #somebody. even if they did fucked up shit to you. you are not stupid. you didnt deserve it. youre not a ''clown'' for letting someone in #like come the fuck on. we are all multifaceted human beings with fascinating lives (yes even those who wake up have no social lives and #barely make it through work and are extremely isolated and believe they're boring)#give yourself some goddamned slack.#.txt

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