#just know that these techniques work regardless of gender

[yanderes-galore]

Yippe! Is it alright, then, if I request Romantic Toji Fushiguro with a Sorceror S/O, please? (And if not, its cool, I know you mentioned you needed to like the idea as well) Thank you very much! ^^

Toji has no content from me yet, so, I have to change that obviously.

Yandere! Toji Fushiguro with Sorcerer! Darling

Pairing: Romantic

Possible Trigger Warnings: Gender-Neutral Darling, Obsession, Enemies to one-sided lovers, Violence, Blood, Threats, Possessive behavior, Stalking, Kidnapping, Isolation, Sadism, Breaking of bones, Attempted mind break, Forced relationship.

This is quite the position for you.

Toji's known as the "Sorcerer Killer" for a reason.

Imagine if you were a target that Toji was paid to hunt down and kill.

At first the assassin is fully prepared to kill you.

He hates the Sorcerer world due to his past, taking down Sorcerers has never been a challenge for him.

He doesn't care what his client's motives are, a job's a job.

Until he "meets" you.

Imagine if Toji met or found his target, only to realize he doesn't want to kill them.

When he watches you from afar... maybe you remind him of someone?

For some reason he hesitates... his normally stoic and cold behavior snapping a bit.

I imagine Toji would take his time with hunting you, pretending to the client that he needs to get more info.

Which is partially true...

Toji wants to know why this Sorcerer isn't one he can kill without hesitation.

You no doubt sense something's wrong.

Perhaps you are aware people may be trying to kill you for one reason or another.

But you have no clue the infamous Sorcerer Killer is hesitating with you.

I imagine you may remind him of his late wife (regardless of gender).

As a result, he feels...regret.

It wounds his pride, yet while he yearns for the thrill of fighting, he doesn't want to make you suffer too much.

Sorcerer or not, he finds preparing to kill you a struggle.

Even when he eventually wills himself to fight you, he struggles to put his all into it.

He enjoys the thrill, though.

Perhaps some sadism does trickle through his resistance.

Once he actually fights you he tries to view you as just another Sorcerer.

It works due to his bloodlust, making him forget his personal feelings just enough to overpower you.

He recalls the blood splattering on his clothes euphoric and familiar.

Yet... he stops when he notices your weak struggling.

He really should finish the job, his blown wide eyes staring down at you.

But even now he can see you determined to save yourself, despite your bloody wounds and weak breaths.

The wide dilated eyes you give him makes him drop his blood stained weapon.

He grimaces, irritated at himself for hesitating.

Even now he isn't entirely sure why he didn't kill you earlier... or why he still won't now.

Did he watch you for so long that he got attached?

He pauses again, watching your chest heave.

Did... Did he fall for you?

He sighs deeply, what a pain.

It's then you're spared by the Sorcerer Killer.

Well... your life is...

To secure his reward he actually hides you away once finding a way to help undo his damage.

The client wouldn't care as long as you were out of the picture, right?

I imagine despite his earlier violence, Toji would allow you to heal.

Except... to keep you out of the Sorcerer world... he'd probably cripple you in some way.

Break a leg... break an arm... anything to prevent you from using your technique.

He'd probably tease and muse about your position, a sadistic glint in his eyes as he tells you you're useless to Jujutsu Society.

But... Hey... He is too, isn't he?

He finds satisfaction in the fact you have to rely on him now.

He won't kill you, never will, he doesn't have to as you're no longer a threat anymore.

He gets his money... and he gets a cute little partner too.

Even if he had you rehabilitated to the point of walking, you'll never be 100%.

Which means... you can't match his strength.

To keep you out of sight he keeps you in a private home. Perhaps a small home and away from society as a whole?

He's so used to just drifting that it takes him a little while to settle in.

He's oddly affectionate... despite him being your captor and attempted killer.

He kisses you softly, yet if you attempt to refuse he gives you time.

You'll give in at some point...

After all, he gets to keep you to himself.

You may refuse him at first, but really, can you even run?

He just took you in as a secondary prize, removing you from the public eye to wrap tightly in his arms.

You may not have died by the Sorcerer Killer...

Yet sparing you was no act of mercy in your eyes.

[youremyheaven]

female (yin)-centric exercises and movement practices

i am personally all for the burgeoning popularity of somatics and i think the rise of pilates is wonderful.

for a long time, "exercise" meant hitting the gym and painfully enduring sessions that felt like physical torture. unless you're a high performance athlete, i dont really see the merit in resistance training tbh. obviously everybody has different tastes and preferences and some people probably find somatics and pilates too boring and slow and want something more high intensity which is 👍🏼

however, for many of us who struggle to keep up with these and repeatedly admonish ourselves for being "lazy" due to our inability to thrive or be consistent or enjoy these workouts, there are manyyyy other forms of practices that are wonderful and fun to do and are perhaps better suited for our bodies, temperaments, lifestyles etc

first of all, the concept of "exercise" has become synonymous with either losing weight or making gains. we are told that we have to "exercise" to stay fit. but exercise can mean manyyy different things, its not just cardio and weights. and this means a lot of people think if you're not trying to gain or lose anything, you dont "need" to "exercise".

but this is not true, i think "movement" is a better word and everybody regardless of their weight, age, gender or whatever else needs to move their bodies. we were not meant to just sit, stand and lay down, we need to move. not to serve some moral purpose of "fitness" (another flawed concept) but because its spiritually, physically and emotionally bad for us to not move. we feel more alive when we move. our culture has become so dopamine fried, sex addicted, toxic eating and drug abusing in large part because our lifestyles are so sedentary and we crave stimulation. we wouldnt depend on external substances to feel "alive" if we felt that aliveness within us every day.

you dont need to "exercise" but you def need to move!!! when we dont, we feel lethargic, stagnant, our joints (from years of inactivity) become more sensitive, our body hurts, our immunity suffers and aging can bring aches of all kinds but this does not have to be anybody's reality. we change this!!

you're not lazy for not exercising, if you liked how doing an activity made you feel, you would do it all the time. dont punish yourself!!!

i personally think strength training works for many people. this can mean, swimming, cycling, hiking, dancing, pilates, yoga, barre etc

now about somatic movement practices,

somatics is all about the mind-body connection and intentional movement. pilates (which was basically developed from yoga) and yoga are examples of somatic practice

but there are other methods as well:

Rolfing

Alexander method

Feldenkrais method

Laban movement analysis

Fascia training (myofascial release)

and somatic practices also include things like progressive muscle relaxation, emotional freedom technique, body scanning etc

i know it can all be a little overwhelming but tbh there is a lot of overlap between all of these practices so dont feel like you're missing out by not trying them all,, stick to what feels right for you and focus on that.

yin yoga and restorative yoga (very similar but also different) are also helpful

the reason i put "female centric" in the title is bc i feel like the world of diet and exercise is dominated by a masculine worldview of doing things the hard way/aggressive way and by acting with resistance/restraint instead of a more open/whole approach and valuing "slow" progress over quick and easy ones. the reason why ppl hit the gym make quick progress and then relapse is bc its genuinely difficult to put up with a gym routine for most people who aren't physically immune to pain. movement does not have to "hurt", be "draining" or a proof of your willpower as a human being. its fun, easy, natural, fulfilling and a part of life<333 you can proceed more slowly and make progress over time but tbh you'll be lost in the flow so you wont bother checking to see if you have and life is long so there's no rush!! what we gain slowly will last us forever!! bc we alter our body's alignment and our own relationship with it + our lifestyle/routine to truly embody it instead of a "crash and burn" style that leads to burnout.

remember, the river wears out the rocks not through force but simply by flowing<3

anybody can do these exercises btw, not just women lol

if you have doubts or questions, feel free to ask me <333

[brisquad-unit-4402]

Hey! I love your headcannons and stuff for njsj! Idk if i will do this request thing right but can i add like some numbers for 1 headcannon/drabble?

If i can i would like 20+23 with maybe a 18+ 12 ;) for shu and alban, idk if you want to add anyone else but i love those 2 sm so anyone with them!

Also congrats on 100 followers!!! Here's to many more to come!! You definitely deserve it !

thank you for the encouragement, i’m flattered. and yes, i’m alright with adding prompts into one entry! i couldn’t tell if 12 ;) was implying you wanted form the mature list or not, so i just went with 12 from the basic list. if you meant that you wanted mature prompt 12 let me know! kind of my fault for making both lists have numbers instead of a better way to specify mature from basic. regardless i hope you enjoy

ah... i feel like i took too long of a break from writing after stars above your skin and now i'm out of it... maybe i'll take some of my own ideas in my notes and write them in 3rd pov instead of 2nd, because i feel like my 3rd pov is getting stunted... you get that feeling after not practicing a skill for a while, right? i need to get better! i always want to get better!!

tags: established relationship, gender-neutral reader, fluff, off-collab, cuddling, sleepy kisses

─── ･ ｡ﾟ☆: *.☽ .* :☆ﾟ. ───

🎭 Alban Knox

20. secret relationship + 23. off-collab

The thief leans over your shoulder as you cut, and the knife drips. Residue sticks to your hands as you draw gashes along the flesh. The smell is pungent, and the chat frenzies at the revolving massacre even though you have yet to notice your witnesses. 

Alban crinkles his nose. “You seriously cut garlic like that?”

You pouted and continue to fumble over the clove of garlic. “You said you wanted to see me cut it!”

“Okay, but I didn’t expect it to be that bad.”

“It’s going to get minced anyways, I’m just, um, preparing it!”

“Mincing is preparing it. Gimme some of that.” You pause so Alban could pick out two pieces and hold them up to the handcam. One chunk was so big that the camera could pick up the details of the center of the clove where it had been cut, and the other was miniscule in comparison. “You see this, chat? Reader’s cutting it like it’s supposed to get diced, but it’s not even in cubes. Just weird shapes.”

“Don’t shame my garlic! They can be whatever they want to be.”

“They look like they want to die. Here, let me try.”

Alban takes the knife away and chops the remaining garlic. He’s no Michelin star chef, sure, but he’s much faster than you, and with much better technique. In just a few blinks, the clove is nothing more than tiny, evenly minced pieces. 

“You’re so cool, Alban.” Your eyes practically sparkled as you focused on his work. For a moment he’s glad there isn’t a good way for your models to track on stream, because with you distracted and the chat unaware, there’s no one to see him turn his head away bashfully at the sudden praise. 

You take the knife and get started on the next clove. You still have a couple more to go. Unsteady hands try to replicate Alban as much as you can. “Is it like this?”

“It’s more like…”

Alban grasps your hand, still over the knife, and guides you along with slow motions. The clove slices apart into coins, then the knife turns and cuts into strips. Afterwards, he places one of your hands along the blunt edge while the dominant remains in the handle, and chops through the pile of garlic until there’s nothing but small, even bits. 

He retracts one of his hands, but his grip is still firm on top of the handle, above yours. You realize that even though the chat is likely freaking out over the hand holding, his arm is still bent out as if it came from beside you, and not from where he stands flush against your body. 

Then he plants his free hand along the side of your hip, drawing you closer, and your face goes hot. Even if there’s no way the camera could pick it up, you can’t help but feel exposed. You lost count of how many live viewers you have, but you can only imagine thousands of people watching your every move, and how if that camera moves even an inch, you and your boyfriend would be in danger of getting caught. 

Alban perches his head on your shoulder, coy as ever. “How’s that?”

“It’s…” You smack your lips and say the first thing on your mind before anyone can get suspicious. “Garlic.”

“Evenly cut garlic that won’t have weird cooking times,” he boasts. “Do you remember how to do it?”

Though you do have to admit, smugness is a good look on Alban, especially when he can embrace you like this. 

“Nope,” you lie. “Show me again?”

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18. wearing their clothes + 12. kissing before leaving for the day

Alban takes his coat off and on so often that there’s no real need for a coat hanger, even when he’s not wearing it. He tends to leave it draped in whichever room he took it off, and leaves it there until he wants it next. 

This morning, it’s placed along the back of a chair in your room. It’s more of a nuisance moving it than leaving it where it is, so you continue about your morning routine as you get ready for the day ahead. You walk past it time and time again as you pace around and get yourself together.

You stare at yourself in the bathroom mirror. It’s an off-day, so you plan on getting some errands done before the afternoon rush. You’ve finished everything in your routine, but you look down at your outfit. Something feels… incomplete.

Your eyes slide over to the coat hanging off the chair.

On Alban, the coat covers almost his entire frame, and on you it’s no different. It works really well with your clothes, though, and you can understand why Alban wears it religiously. The fabric doesn’t impede your movement, but weighs down on your shoulders like a heavy blanket, and feels just as comfortable and soft as one. You bury your nose into the baggy hood. Smells ambery, just like him. 

You step out of your room, still buried in the hood of his coat, and prepare the last of your things before you leave the house. As you grab your keys, you see a figure enter the room, with a fluffy bedhead and oversized sleepwear.

Alban yawns like a housecat. One eye cracks open as he does, a chocolatey brown that droops a little with drowsiness. “Good morning, Reader.”

“Good morning, Alban.” You swipe your keys into one of the coat’s many pockets with one hand, and pat Alban’s head with the other. The sleeve slides down as you reach for his messy hair. “Sleep well?”

“Mhm, really well. I didn’t want to get up at all—” He stops himself. He blinks the sleep away, then focuses on your sleeve as it rolls back down your arm, one chocolate eye and one neon taking in your appearance. “Is that my…?”

“I hope you don’t mind.”

“Of course not, why would I?”

He makes grabby hands at you, and when you get close enough for him to touch, he fiddles with how the coat lays on your body, an affectionate look on his face. He finally decides on zipping it up most of the way and flips the hood over your head. It flops over your eyes. 

You reach up to readjust it, and when you regain your eyesight, you’re greeted by Alban rocking on his feet with a sweet smile. His voice is still sleepy and low, but excited. “Aww, Reader, you look so cute!”

“It’s so comfy.” You hug your sleeves and nestle into the coat, proving both your and Alban’s points. The hood flops over again, so you brush it up with one hand, resembling a cat pawing at its ear. Alban coos. “All set? I’m about to go do some errands.”

“Wait, before you go! Aren’t you forgetting something?”

He cocks his head, waiting for you to answer. Instead, you rest a hand on his shoulder and lean to meet your lips along his own. The taste is crisp and fresh, and even though you can tell he started his morning routine, Alban’s lips are slow, sleepy, and savory. 

When you part, Alban playfully bats at your hood and knocks it back over your eyes. He chuckles. “Be safe, okay? I’ll see you later today.” 

With a huff and clumsy hands, you push it back up while Alban’s sleepy smile turns into a smirk. In his hands is something you didn’t notice before: an old but cared-for leather wallet folded up in his grasp. Alban’s wallet.

“When did you get that?” You ask. You could’ve sworn he was empty-handed when he greeted you. Realization strikes you. You pat down the pockets on the bottom of the coat, where you last remember the wallet, and when those turn out empty, you search all the other small pockets along the coat. “Wait, don’t tell me.” 

“Did you think you could pull a fast one on me?” He teases. 

“No, I just—didn’t realize! Did you grab it while we were kissing? I didn’t even notice!” 

“Heh, you know me! I’m an elusive, badass phantom…” Alban trails off into a massive yawn. ”…Thief. I’m a phantom thief.”

“Sure are.” You ruffle his hair. “Cutest elusive badass out there. I’ll be back before you know it.”

“Come back faster. I’ll miss you.”

“Before you know it,” you repeat. “Besides, I’m wearing your coat. I’ve got a little bit of you with me today.”

He kisses you again, this time on your forehead where the hoodie rests. You can still sense the faded toothpaste smell. “Okay. Now get out, I need to make some coffee.”

“Screw you too.” You have a hand on the doorknob. “I’ll be home soon!”

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👟 Shu Yamino

20. secret relationship + 23. off-collab

“Okay, they should be able to hear you now.”

“Eyyyy, guys. How’s my volume?”

“Chat says you’re good, Shu. What about me?”

Shu’s streaming laptop is gingerly placed in the center of your impromptu studio. This off-collab was rather impulsive, and the only place in the vacation home with enough outlets for all the stream equipment was on the floor, so you dumped a bunch of blankets and pillows over the floor for both sound preservation and comfort.

At first the setup on the floor was scuffed. It took nearly an hour before stream to get things organized with PNGs instead of your models, and the first ten minutes were full of chat mentioning someone was too far away to hear. 

“Too quiet,” Shu says. “I think you need to get closer to the mic.”

You shuffle forward. “How about now?”

Still, the chat can’t quite understand you. Ready to readjust, you get to your feet but Shu tugs on your pant leg before you can fully rise. 

You cock your head, trying to figure out his game, but it falls into place when he lightly pats his leg. He’s sitting on a pillow with his legs folded underneath themselves, the picture of elegance without even trying. His sorcerous nature tends to make him graceful even when he’s casual, including the relaxed position during the stream. 

“I think I have an idea on how to fix it, Reader.” One pointed fingernail beckons you. “Come here.”

Curious, you scooch over inch-by-inch, closing the gap between you and Shu. That is, until Shu reaches out, scoops his hand by your shoulder, and brings you down in one fell swoop. Your body is placed along his lap, with your head resting along his thighs. 

Shu reaches for the mic across your head while you’re too caught off-guard to react, and fiddles with it while you watch his focused face and elongated muscle above you. The mic stand lowers. “Say something now, Reader?”

“Um…” 

Does he seriously expect you to stream like this? You may be dating, but this has to be unprofessional on so many levels, especially since there’s no way chat could know your position with those PNGs on screen. Is the audio okay? What happens if you bump the mic or it picks up a weird sound that clues your audience into the secret streamer relationship scandal of the year?

The paranoia is getting to you, but you can’t deny it; Shu’s lap is really comfortable. His calves fold at just the right place so that it serves as an incline for your body. 

Shu's fingers rest on your hair, and it rustles as he begins to comb through. Your heart soars.

“What was that?” He says out loud in response to nothing. He’s obviously bluffing, but he looks so at peace with his hands in your hair and the stream online. This might be his perfect element. “Reader, can you repeat that again?”

“…Right.” Screw it. If Shu is this calm, then maybe there’s nothing to fear after all. You close your eyes as Shu strokes you, and you launch into your default greeting as your role in the company. 

When Shu smiles, you can hear how his voice lifts. “Chat says it’s all good. Welcome to the stream, everybody.” His nails travel to your jawline. One finger lightly scratches along while the others prop along your face, and the action is so tender it almost feels religious. Shu watches you exhale, appreciating the moment to relax even while the stream is running, and when he continues, only one person listening can recognize how his voice clouds into cotton candy. “I have Reader with me today.”

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18. wearing their clothes + 12. kissing before leaving for the day

Shu’s sleep schedule is, as you know, a mess, but last night was probably one of his… messier moments. He scheduled a late-night membership stream, and only hours before he went live, he made a members-only post for the waiting room. The thumbnail and title both had soju in it.

Long story short, the stream ended in the wee hours of the morning with the Yaminions happily fed and Shu satisfied, but barely able to keep his eyes open until he raided another stream. You were asleep for the majority of the stream but woke up just as his head hit the pillow, still in his daytime clothes and not a single step of his nightly routine done. You gently jostled Shu to get himself ready for bed, but the sun was rising in the sky by the time he fell asleep properly. 

The day doesn’t stop for anyone. A few hours later, you wake up well-rested and in time for your plans for the day. Shu is still sound asleep, however. He stole the covers and nestled up in the warmth while he was asleep, and you could barely see his face through untamed dark hair. Even in deep sleep and all covered up like this, he’s adorable. He doesn’t stir a bit even as you climb out of bed and get ready.

After brushing your teeth, you pass from the bathroom to the bedroom again and think on your outfit, before you see a plume of fur out of the corner of your eye.

The memories of last night—this morning?—Return as you examine the dresser, and the fur on top of it. It’s the loose black sleeves from Shu’s newer outfits, and on top of it is a large bat wing wrapped in a black-and-white fur pelt.

You take the sleeves and pelt in your hands, intending to put them away where they belong, but the fur is so inviting and cozy you don’t want to let go. You bury your face in it. It’s so fluffy! And it smells just like his everyday fragrance, subtly sweet while undeniably human. 

The sleeves are adjustable, and slide in place on your arms easily. You think to yourself. His accessories are pretty wild, but you could tone these down into something a lot more casual streetwear with your outfit today. Besides, it’s your day off and you’ll be meeting up with some friends to hang out. It wouldn’t be inappropriate.

Shu probably wouldn’t mind, either.

You slip the pelt over your shoulder and fasten the sleeves as you finish up your breakfast, just about ready to leave the house. The pelt is surprisingly light, and the bat wing conserves your heat without getting sweaty.

The last thing left to do is to grab your keys. You head over to the bedroom and find them on your nightstand. Shu is exactly where you left him, the hair in front of his face swishing along to his gentle breathing.

It parts out of his face as you reach out. Your hands stroke his hair as you examine his sleeping face. His lips are slightly open, and whenever he exhales, you can see a flash of teeth between his blanket nest. His banana rests between his ear and the pillow.

The closer you get to him, the more your smile grows. He’s… really adorable. Everything about him right now seems soft, almost cherubic. He looks like a stuffed animal. A plush cat! You have to fight the urge to squeeze him like one.

Instead, you brush some of his hair out of the way, and press a kiss to his temple.

Shu doesn’t move. He’s still as plush as ever. Even as the kiss ends, he’s so warm that you want to stay nearby. 

“Sleep well, sweetheart,” you whisper, close to his ear. “I’ll be back.”

A lock of pink hair curls under your fingers as you tuck it behind the ear. Shu’s eyes are closed, but you hear him drowsily grunt. Is he awake? “Mm-mm.”

You stifle a giggle. “You want me to stay?”

“Mm-hm.”

“But I have things to do.”

“Mm-mm.”

“I’ll stay a little longer if you wake up. Are you awake?”

Shu finally opens his mouth. “Noooo.”

“Then I’ll let you rest while I’m out.” You kiss him again. “Goodnight. Bye-bye, Shu.”

“Wait.” Shu blindly feels around with his free hand, and finds yours. He takes it, groggily but gently, guiding you closer to him even though his eyes are shut. The back of your palm goes velvet pink, and you hear a small chu as he parts. 

Then he tucks your hand in his grasp like a stuffed animal. You’re trapped. 

“Shu,” you whine. You try to wriggle out, careful not to disturb him. No avail, however. You’re stuck, and the sleeves drape along his body like even more blankets. “I have somewhere to be!”

He cuddles up to your forearm, and his head meets the fur of his pelt. “Soft.” He nuzzles closer, considering your shoulder as a suitable pillow, before fully resting his head on you.

You call his name again. It’s a really strange position for you, and besides, you have plans!

But then you look down. You don’t remember seeing that light smile on his face when you first kissed him goodbye. 

You can make five minutes for that smile. 

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✧. ┊ event post ✧. ┊ masterpost ✧. ┊ kofi

[augustjustice]

It's What's Inside!!!! is good!!!

It really is!!! I got the chance to watch it Friday, I've just had a crazy hectic weekend so couldn't respond until now. But I really, really liked it, and I'm so happy you did too! So relieved to have a good bodyswap flick that isn't afraid to do some cool things with the premise.

Some spoilery thoughts below the cut:

You mentioned this in your liveblogging of it, but I really liked the editing style here and how it drew attention to itself! The freneticness of it did a great job capturing both the imitation of social media they were at times going for and also some of the chaos of the premise as it went off the rails in the latter half. And I thought they did a great job depicting what anxiety can be like with some of the filmic techniques they used, which I know the director has spoken about wanting to tap into with this movie.

Some of those tricks especially worked well with the bodyswapping concept! I liked the moments when the camera peeled back the layers to reveal "who was inside." At the time when they didn't show Forbes, I thought they were just playing 4D chess with us, keeping who was who somewhat concealed. That worked really well looking back with the eventual Beatrice reveal at the end.

The way the film layered in roleplaying/desire to be someone else was deftly handled, I felt. I think it was smart to kind of anchor the movie in Shelby and Cyrus's relationship troubles with his continued fixation on Nikki being at the center of it. The entire friend group's dynamic being so messy with many of them clearly still romantically and sexually hung up on each other really heightened everything, and it also opened up some interesting questions about physical vs. romantic desire. Like, the fact that Cyrus was obsessed with Nikki regardless of "what was inside" (🥁) is...telling. I also thought it was fantastic to have a film acknowledge race as a complicated component of identity when it comes to bodyswapping! Gender is often played with in this trope, but that was the first time I had seen media try to tackle that element of things.

One thing I liked the most about the movie is that the events had real consequences. I've never seen a piece of media actually engage with the question of what would happen if someone else died while inside your body, so it was exciting to see that tackled and to have an ending without a neat resolution. It leaves you as a viewer to ponder their fates and what happens after this, which I really appreciated.

Also, brief shout out to the acting! Of course that's always pivotal in these movies, but the cast did a stellar job of telegraphing who was who even when those characters were trying to conceal their identities from each other.

Overall, fantastic movie! Definitely going into my rewatch list of bodyswapping films.

[shions-stuff]

Headcannons: Grimmjow

here are a few questions that I found on the Internet a long time ago. I can't sleep right now, so I'm writing this. enjoy, I guess

(neither the character nor the art belong to me. thanks to the author of the art for such a wonderful work)

What does their bedroom look like?

Considering that he doesn't have his own corner, it's hard to judge. Despite the fact that he is called King Hueco Mundo, he does not have a permanent place of residence or he never stays there of his own free will. But if he had his own room, it would be as simple as possible. Everything you need, no small things and special decor

Favorite way to waste time and feelings associated with wasting time.

Categorically does not like to waste time. When he has nothing to do, he gets bored and usually does a lot of stupid things, which of course he never regrets later. He believes that everything he does cannot be regarded as a waste of time. You could say his motto is "Moving means living." His whole life is a movement.

Make-up and come to terms with it.

He doesn't care. He has these stripes under his eyes, but he will be very offended if you tell him that it is makeup. Don't get me wrong, he is very proud of His strength and himself, and the stripes under his eyes are part of that strength, part of himself, and he will be very unhappy with the devaluation of such things. As for the makeup of others, as I said, he doesn't care. He'll still want to kick your ass, no matter what's wrong with your face.

Neuroses? Does he admit it?

"What? Damn it, I don't understand what you're talking about." (the guy doesn't know what that means hahahaa) In any case, he will never admit that he has problems with anger and controlling his emotions. He will accuse everyone around him that they just annoy him. The problem is definitely with them! Grimmjow does not understand all this psychological nonsense, believes that such trivial things do not concern him and will never talk about it with anyone.

Sexual orientation? And, regardless of one's own orientation, thoughts about sexual orientation in general?

He has no sex drive. I'm sorry. The concept of love is alien to him and he does not know such feelings as lust, love passion. He always regards people as potential rivals, because he always likes to prove that he is the strongest. Regardless of gender, he'll want to kick your ass if you show any potential. And that's it. As for sexual orientation, he doesn't know anything about it either. For him, all these stupid formalities do not make sense, because he is a man who is used to taking what he wants and how he wants it. Therefore, he would most likely not understand these limits regarding sexual orientation.

Clothing preferences.

Grimm does not like tight clothes, which constrain his movements, preventing comfortable movement and performing techniques. He doesn't value clothes very much, because they are often destroyed during his transformation or a hard battle. He likes to have his arms completely bare, and is categorically against high-necked hoodies. He also often rolls up the sleeves on long sweatshirts. This way he feels a little more freedom. In terms of color, he likes light Tones. He likes the way blood looks on a white shirt.

Turn on/turn off.

As I said, he either doesn't feel like walking at all, or it's very blunted. There is nothing that turns him on sexually, he does not understand the concept of these things. As for the battles, you can go on indefinitely. The excitement in him lights up when he is challenged. He really likes to show off, so he gets excited without hesitation. But he is also able to quickly lose interest when his victim is very bad on the battlefield. He hates weaklings, but he likes it when they ask him for mercy.

How organized are they? How does this organization/disorganization manifest itself in their daily lives?

Surprisingly, Grimmjow is quite organized. Sometimes he makes lists, plans, mental notes about something. He likes order, likes when any task is backed up by a sequence of actions, but it is possible that he also likes to improvise if he sees fit. It helps him save face in front of anyone. He is capable of analysis and rational thinking, which helps him a lot in much more difficult Battles and in everyday communication. He's as good as the captain of his Fraction.

Reaction to a sudden intrapersonal disaster

After his defeat in the battle with Ichigo, his world was turned upside down. His thoughts were only occupied with how things went Wrong, how it could have been different if he had acted differently at some point. It was a kind of destruction of a part of his personality. the part that was successful and proud of him. It was a very serious change in his life, which also left its mark. Literally lol. He doesn't get depressed, no. Most likely, he will be angry at himself, at someone else. He will rethink, doubt his abilities for a minute, after which his wounded pride (or rather, what is left of it) will pull him back and drive these thoughts away.

What makes them feel guilty?

It would seem that almost nothing can make Grimmjow feel something like guilt. But he is not devoid of emotions, it is quite acceptable. He is an honest man and will most likely feel guilty if he treats someone dishonestly. The result of such an action will not bring him joy at all. But he is unlikely to do anything to fix it.he won't be consumed by these Thoughts for so long, but they will eat him up for a while, yes. He's too proud to admit His guilt or (oh my God!!) apologize. It's never going to happen, nope.

Can we say that they have a superiority complex? An inferiority complex? Not?

Not. He has neither. He has a fairly stable and adequate self-esteem. He values himself and his efforts and successes. He does not need to prove anything to anyone, more often than not he does things for his own entertainment than for some practical benefit or other meaning. He feels great in his own skin and doesn't hide it. He is who he is and always will be. Although sometimes he is prone to vanity. For example, he believes that he is a much more important and powerful member of Espada than everyone else.

Do they express their thoughts in words or deeds?

Deeds. He's not very good at words and he knows it. Words mean nothing to Grimmjoe, he demands action and does it himself Instead of speaking. He never liked the meetings that Aizen organized. He immediately understood what should be done when and how. And the rest of the formalities do not interest him. If you need anything from him, some kind of confirmation of his honesty or strength, wait for action. He won't talk about how great he is, wasting his time on useless chatter. He will make you see, feel and believe. Believe me, he can be convincing without words.

How do they express sympathy, affection?

If there are people to whom Grimmjow is not indifferent, then they immediately understand this. There is always a special attitude towards them. He will be rude, protective, loud, but it will never cross the boundaries. He gets angry when something doesn't work out for someone dear to him. Most likely, he will blame you for this, say what a weakling you are, "don't whine, rookie". But he worries deep down. If you occupy a place in his life, he will let you hang out with him. You can just relax together, wrestle, play games and the like. Grimmjow has a pretty funny sense of humor, so expect a lot of jokes and banter. He will be merciless!

Are they afraid of death?

Always was like " I'm already dead, aren't I?" He is not afraid of Death. He would have proudly welcomed it with open arms if he had lost in battle to a worthy opponent. It would be an honor for him to die as a warrior, because he has lived as a warrior for as long as he can remember.

[prcdo]

have you heard from NICOLAS PRADO yet? back home they’re said to work as a REAL ESTATE COPYWRITER.  before this trip to blackwood pines, i’ve heard that they’re known to be ACTIVE, JOCULAR, AND ADAPTABLE. but on the downside, they’re known to be BRASH, COMPETITIVE AND BLUNT. when you think about them, you’ll probably see JERSEY NUMBERS WORN LIKE MILITARY MEDALS, BURST BOXING BAGS, CRUSHED SODA CANS, TARNISHED TROPHIES, AND KNUCKLES BRUISED TO THE HUE OF BUSINESS SUITS. and because of that, i would say that they’re known to be THE JOCK.

STATS. 

full name.  nicolas meza prado. 

nicknames.  nick is, in fact, his preferred name. nods at variations thereof with the notable exception of nicky.

date of birth.  13 october. 

place of birth.  odessa, texas, usa.  

current residence.  detroit, michigan, usa. 

languages.  fluent in english and spanish.

education.  has an mba from michigan state. paid for by a sports scholarship, of course.

occupation.  real estate copywriter. 

gender.  cisgender male. he/him. 

orientation.  bisexual. 

marital status.  dating, more often than not.

family.  a father, a mother, and two siblings sandwiching him into a suffocating space stuffed with birth order stereotypes.

PERSONALITY. 

the brief.  in one word, nick is winning. not a moment in his life has been spent without incredible drive, nor with any consideration as to local speed limits. he holds his head high and, in the process, can lose track of the bigger picture as easily as he can paint a new landscape of goals with loaded words and laborious action. whether this is concerning or endearing depends on a lot of factors, but he’s not dead yet, so he can’t be too insufferable. or maybe the team just needs some muscle. that’s probably it.

the good.  nick wants to help people. although he’s a primary proponent of self-love, he leads by example and is eager to learn whatever he can from whoever he can – the dumb jock stereotype didn’t pop up without any strict basis in reality, after all – and he’d sooner exile himself to an athlete’s foot locker than force someone to take a risk he wouldn’t seize first. 

the bad.  nick wants to help people with the absolute outlier of himself. he builds his plans around others, if he has any plans at all, yet has shoved his expectations for everyone above the stratosphere to the point where he feels personally degraded should anyone reject his get-pushed-in-the-pool-to-learn-how-to-swim teaching techniques. he does not deal well with having his opinions ignored in any capacity and nurses grudges as well as anyone with a doctorate in self-centredness would.

the ugly.  nick needs to be needed. being disliked macerates his mind into this mush of desperate people-pleasing, even if he knows the only path to justice is the one paved with potholes. if a friend asked him to jump off a cliff, he’d only ask if they wanted to film him doing a flip on the way down.

APPEARANCE. 

height.   5’9. good posture and a gleaming smile had most intramural coaches thinking otherwise.

build.  athletic, with a mean leanness that puts both his obsessive gym-going in adolescence and overwhelmingly green diet in adulthood on full blast. you know, as if he’s not enthusiastic enough about divulging all the sordid, sweaty

style.  comfort over couture. everything in his closet but his collection of immaculate basketball sneakers is best described as devil-may-care. colours stay neutral and t-shirt graphics stay slightly crude. sleeves must be rolled up regardless of weather and whether he’s even wearing something with long sleeves.

notable features.  jet black hair styled with water and confidence. the uncertain beginnings of a bristly moustache. a tattoo of the number one in a compact collegiate font on his right shoulder blade.

BIOGRAPHY.  content warnings for brief mentions of hazing and injury.

tl;dr.  annoyingly smirky middle child stomps his way into acquiring eldest child syndrome + a humiliating defeat to cap off his last collegiate basketball season, and proceeds to do everything in his power to not become the guy who peaked in school. which actually amounts to just throwing himself into work with little regard for sleep schedule or personal relationships, but a quick winter getaway could help him unwind a little, right? right.

first quarter.  nick’s a good kid, but good isn’t always good enough. his parents drill that lesson into his skull as soon as he’s out the hospital and in the prado household’s singular bedroom. they do it unintentionally, which is how they do a lot of things, but however much he wants to play hercules by hurling his weight around the run-down playground, every time he slices one head off the hydra of approval by joining this club or scoring that letter, another two pop up in its place, born of his brothers’ very existence. the one who came before him is their meal ticket making his way through med school, the one who came after him is already on track to become an accountant, and he’s… good at throwing things in hoops. things being homework, hoops being over trash bins. but he’s always been a good-natured kid, so when he secures a spot on the jv basketball team after trying out as a total joke, he soaks up the sugared electrolytes, the electric sound of applause, and the endless opportunities to sink his energy into something until the end of time. or until 6pm. you know, whenever practice ends.

second quarter.  nick’s a good guy. his parents call him the fun one, which might not be a compliment, but warping any and all descriptors into compliments is how nick’s become something of a casanova and kept his name relatively clear of any scandals. that is, until he semi-consciously continues a secret hazing ritual that results in the severe incapacitation of his fraternity brothers and a wicked hangover that, gasp, results in him ruining the next week’s championship game. then he blows his birthday money on veneers of all kinds to coast through police interviews and changes his course from sports officiating to business administration. then he realises that being impressive is way more important to the status of being good than making a squeaky-clean good impression.

third quarter.  nick’s living the good life. sure, he’s got little to no time for recreation, but he’s strongarmed his way up the corporate ladder and isn’t coming down at any cost. also, he can still toss his assignments in the trash can. he’s got a photocopier now. his friends tell him there’s no place better than blackwood pines, and if only to prove them wrong (and maybe prevent himself from getting hypertension at thirty) nick brings himself and a basketball along for the ride to the rockies.

fourth quarter.  nick’s story may or may not have a good ending. aka this is the part where i’ll put summaries of all super important life-changing in-character events so i don’t lose track of them <3

MISCELLANEOUS. 

radio.  beastie boys. no doubt. oasis. rage against the machine. red hot chili peppers.

potential relationships.

childhood friends.  people who witnessed his evolution from tryhard to hard-ass and has, by some miracle, decided to stick around. nick’s definitely drafted up at least one microsoft word nda regarding his tragic past and its secrecy for these folks. whether or not they unblocked him long enough to read the final document is trivial.

college classmates.  nick may or may not be the reason the general public does not desire a 5’9 brown-eyed man in finance. while not as egoistic as he was in his younger years, his enthusiasm for extra credit was well recorded.

former teammates.  while he never went pro, nick’s played basketball for as long as he’s been alive and was a volunteer coach at a couple of summer camps in his must-join-every-extracurricular-ever-or-perish days. whether you knew him as the point guard of your dreams or the gatorade purist of your nightmares, nick was sure to make games interesting.

gym sibs.  they stay hungry, they devour, put in the work, put in the hours, et cetera.

former coworkers/clients/employers.  nick’s had a host of less-than-dignified jobs with less-than-humane pay, including but not limited to arcade janitor, junior assistant dishwasher at a fast food joint, and human directional.

current coworkers/clients/employers.  being a real estate agent isn’t much more dignified when you get to the cold calling, door-slamming phase, but at least nick gets to do it in a fancy suit! and maybe you want to do things in a fancy suit too. or own a beautiful home in the suburbs with so much fluorescent lighting you’ll never think of going to the hospital again.

flings.  nick commits to everything except for relationships. go figure. he’s never lied about what he wants out of a night or two, but he has driven off way more than two dates by insulting their interior decorating skills during pillow talk.

assorted headcanons.  has a southern twang to his voice that gets exponentially stronger on the rare occasion he experiences an emotion aside from pride. says that he bikes everywhere for health reasons but has actually been banned from several buses for playing his super hype playlists without headphones. also hates cars because the smell and sight of exhaust pipe smoke reminds him of his older brother lolol. doesn’t curse much in general but absolutely refuses to do so in the presence of a lady thanks to mami, even if she has a sailor’s mouth of her own. very physically, if not emotionally, protective; will not hesitate to be someone’s meat shield in any given situation.

[kaigarax]

Take 452

Or This is How to Over Come

Zeke Jaeger x Reader

Quote: "Fall in love by overcoming boundaries with another."

It is of the utmost importance, regardless of someone’s age, gender or race, to be excellent in at least one thing. One must not merely excel at this single task but be fundamentally better than anyone else within similar circumstances attempting to accomplish that very same task and in a location relative to yours.

Of course, this entire theory can be ultimately tossed out and entirely forsaken if one does not wish to become important (in any way whatsoever) and hopes to maintain an ordinary life. It should be noted that by choosing to ignore this most radical and sensible piece of advice you are outright denying oneself of all human pleasures that fall into either category of dreams or desires.

This piece is, of course, only one of seven different instructionals to help guide you into a world of excellence. One should hope to not just entertain themselves with these pieces of work but look to apply them into their everyday life. Once again, it should be noted that all pieces should be read and thought on for a maximum absorption of the materials.

Now, without further ado, this is how to over come.

---

Love, to Zeke Jaeger, has always felt like a foreign concept. Something that couldn’t be explained but simply understood by those it's shared between in that moment. And if love is something kept deep within the heart of those it is shared between then falling in love is the words whispered in the silence of night.

---

“Hands up,” you shouted, “get into your ready stances, everyone.”

Zeke was surprised at how quickly you had taken to training the Cadets. It seemed almost like second nature to you when you began. As if falling back into an old habit. You seemed to know everything, from which technique each Cadet would be best in to little quirks each one had while training.

It was good.

Most of the training, at least when they were cadets, had been taught by your father (the former Crystal Titan Shifter). It seemed more than fitting that you would be the one to take his place.

It also meant that Zeke wouldn’t have to train them himself. Not that he couldn’t, of course, but one less thing on his plate was one more minute of being relaxed.

You walk around the Cadets, correcting their forms every once and awhile before allowing them to begin again. The length of the fights, depending on the skill difference between the Cadets, range from just a moment to a good few minutes. The most interesting fight happens between a red haired girl and a blonde boy.

Your own gaze lingers on that specific fight longer than any of the others.

But not for long.

Your eyes never stay on a single thing for very long. At least not without you getting that dazed look. That strange expression that most children (though you’re eighteen) don’t get. It’s an expression that reminds Zeke of your father. As if you’re looking off into the distance. In another world that he can only seek to be a part of. Not that he wants to be in that weird dream world of yours but sometimes one can’t help but wonder.

Does that look have something to do with your family line? The way you were raised? Or perhaps Titan Shifting abilities? Zeke would bet on the latter of the three options.

“War Chief,” you smile when you spot him, though your eyes don’t meet with his own, “here to help the Cadets with training?”

Zeke shakes his head, “just here to… inspect the future prospects.”

“Oh? And has anyone caught your interest?” You ask, a sparkle in your eyes.

“No.”

“Really,” you sigh, though you don’t seem all that dejected, “that’s a shame. I guess we can’t find a genius every generation.”

Zeke smirks, “perhaps it’s the fault of the teacher.”

If you’re insulted you don’t show it. Unphased. As if you were expecting an insult of the sort. But Zeke expects such a reaction from you. It’s rare that something phases you, though not for lack of trying on his part. You’re just that kinda person, he presumes.

Well, he can’t exactly claim that’s who you were but it certainly is who you are now. It’s a shame he didn’t know you very well before the initial transformation. Not that he would have cared to have known an eight year old. But it would have been interesting to have compared who you were then to who you are now.

“Gather up, Cadets.” You call.

The class scrambles to stand in an orderly formation.

You grin, “Our War Chief here has just agreed to help us with some training.”

“Really?” Asked the Cadets.

“Really?” Zeke asked.

“Of course~” You smile, “so you’ve all gotten the chance to fight someone around your size but on a real battlefield most of the people you face will be larger, faster and stronger than you.”

“Are we going to fight the War Chief?” Asked the red haired girl.

“No Emanon,” you laugh, “you’re all going to fight me. But first, I will be showing you how to take out a larger opponent. The War Chief is here to help me demonstrate.”

Zeke swallowed.

He isn’t usually one to play around with your shenanigans, Pieck does enough of that for all the Warriors, but the large doe-like eyes of the kids staring up at him seem to move his cold dead heart. Sure, he doesn't even like kids all that much but something about showing them how to fight lights a fire in his soul.

That or he’s too scared to actually move.

He’s seen what you can do with crystal outside of your titan he definitely doesn't want to be on the receiving end.

Zeke turns to you, trying his best to muster up whatever baseless confidence he’ll need, “and how do you plan to show that to the Cadets, (L/n)?”

“Don’t worry, War Chief,” you smile, your eyes meeting with his own, “I’ll surprise you.” You lower yourself to the ground and hold your arms in a fighting position of some sort.

Huh.

Zeke isn’t familiar with this one. Being a Warrior, he obviously sparred with you before and seen you spar with others but this particular form surprises him. Puts him on guard so he isn’t charging in immediately.

“Why have I chosen this starting formation?” You ask.

“To make use of the ground?” Asks one Cadet.

Another shake raises their hand, “to better gauge your opponent?”

“Both wrong.” You exclaimed. Zeke takes this moment to make the first attack, aiming to grapple you to the ground. You seemed to have predicted that as you swiftly take a step to the side, use Zeke’s momentum to push him further aside. “Emanon!”

“Yes?” Chirps the red haired girl.

Zeke manages to keep himself from falling over into the dirt. You don’t seem very keen to give him a moment of rest as you’re immediately running towards him, closing the distance and aiming a kick towards his upper body.

He brings an arm up to protect his torso.

“Why do you think this is the best form we should take?” You ask, suddenly dropping lower and kicking Zeke’s legs rather than his upper torso.

“To make it harder for him to hit you?” Asks the blonde girl.

“Partial points.” You say, having forced Zeke to the ground, “Grice.”

“There’s less surface area.” The blonde boy from earlier answers, “because you’re smaller there’s less area for him to target, especially when you make yourself smaller.”

Dazed from trying to keep up with the conversation and from your constant barrage of attacks Zeke suddenly finds himself laying on the ground, you standing above him dusting the dirt off your pants.

You flashed Zeke a smirk, “good explanation, Grice.”

The blonde boy smiles brightly, “thank you Miss. (L/n).”

You hold out a hand for Zeke to take, an offer of peace and an attempt to help him up, but he declines. Not while a large majority of the Cadets are snickering about it. Damn him and his pride.

“Now, who wants to try first?” You ask.

---

Defeat becomes him, or at least that was what Commander Magath said when he entered the dining hall that evening. Zeke had mentally prepared for some ridicule (the entire Cadet class was there and they definitely couldn’t keep a secret if their life depended on it) but Commander Magath teasing him was a level of low even he hadn’t prepared for.

Commander Magath rarely ever told jokes and when he did it was even rarer for the mess hall to burst out into laughter along with him. Sure, it was common for Pieck or Porco to crack a joke or two at his expense. Even you joined in on the fun every once awhile. But everyone? It truly was an all time low.

And Zeke was in no mood to deal with such… nonsense.

So, he escaped to the only place he thought best.

The swings in the middle of nowhere.

Well, they weren’t exactly in the middle of nowhere but it was he and the other Cadets had called it when they were younger. A playground made in the middle of the training center for the Cadets. It was just an old wooden swing set surrounded by a small pile of sand but it had meant everything to the Cadets when they were young.

It’s long forgotten by now. Nothing but a memory. So Zeke finds himself surprised when he spots you swinging there alone seemingly lost in another memory.

You look pretty under the moonlight. Huh, he doesn't ever think he’s ever realised how pretty you were. He supposes it was never something that crossed his mind when he was young.

“Oh, Jaeger,” you don’t bother looking up at him, instead continuing to swing your feet back and forth, “what’re you doing here?”

Zeke takes the swing beside you, “needed somewhere to hide. It seems word of today’s training sessions has made its way through the barracks.”

You smile, “it could be worse.”

“How so?”

“You could’ve lost to Galliard.”

“Hah!” Zeke chuckles, “as if I’d ever lose to Galliard.”

“Oh, you definitely would lose.” You pause briefly, “no Titans abilities, of course.”

“What?” Zeke frowns. He hadn’t lost a hand to hand fight since he was a Cadet… until today.

“Galliards better at hand to hand combat than I am - and we all saw how easily I beat you today.”

“Last time Galliard and I spared I was the clear victor.”

“That was two years ago, Jaeger. Back when Galliard and I were still scrawny little teens. We’ve both grown since then. You don’t have the same advantages of being fully developed over us now.”

“Two years ago already…” Zeke trails off.

He can barely believe it’s been so long. It feels like just days ago he was just a Cadet getting chased around by the others for any bit of information they might be able to get to string themselves higher in the considerations of being a Warrior. He, of course, knew that you’d obviously get in. Nepotism was always a guaranteed way of making it in. Then Pieck and Annie, the smartest of the bunch. The Galliard brothers, both witty and strong hearted. The Hoover boy. The only one he hadn’t guessed making it was Braun, though his determination was something that did catch his attention.

“23.”

“Hm?” Zeke perks his head up.

“You’re 23, right?” You asked.

At first Zeke thinks he should mock you. Tease you about forgetting his age but he thinks twice about that. Age is a difficult thing to talk about with women and sure you’re still young but he certainly doesn't want to get a lecture about something stupid like that. So, Zeke simply nods.

“23 years old, huh? Time really does fly by now doesn't it? My dad was 24 years old when he had me.” You smile teasingly, “are you planning on having kids any time soon?”

Zeke reels back, scrunching his nose in disgust, “oh God no.”

You laugh, “didn’t think so.”

“Children are loud, needy, and uncontrollable. Conniving schemers.”

“And you aren’t~”

“Touche.”

“I was just teasing,” you begin swinging your feet back and forth, “though only because I’m envious.”

Why - Zeke doesn't ask, but you answer anyways.

“I’ll never reach the age of 23.” You say, your voice suddenly more present than Zeke can ever recall, “forced into this endless cycle of death and inheriting. Inheriting contracts, Titans and wills.”

“Wills?”

“Everything you are, everything you would be and everything you will be is the cumulation of all the previous shifters before and will pass onto the one that inherits your Titan next.” You flush, “sorry if that doesn't make any sense. It’s always been a little hard for me to gather my thoughts together after so many years of being a Crystal Shifter.”

Zeke shrugs, “sounds kinda sad if you ask me.”

“Inherited wills or gathering thoughts?”

“Both, though mostly inherited wills.”

“How so?”

“Everything we are is simply who we were before us?”

“Not every shifter. Some with strong wills are able to hold onto themselves. Others-”

“Like you?”

“Yeah. Others, like me, tend to have our own feelings drowned out by the feelings of our predecessors.”

Zeke’s own swinging comes to a halt, “how come you’ve never told me this before?”

“Oh, I haven’t?”

“No.”

You shrug, “guess you just never gave me the chance to open up.”

“Well,” Zeke begins, “I don’t think you’re like your father.”

“Really?” You smile, “thank you.”

Zeke shrugs, looking away, his face tinged red, “it’s whatever.”

Your swinging comes to a halt, “say, Zeke?”

“Hm?”

“Have you ever been in love?”

“No.” He lied.

Love. Such a strange thing, especially now as Zeke Jaeger stares down at you. The girl he could never quite understand. Even now, he still isn’t sure exactly what you are. What he is certain of thought is you. How he feels about you beneath the stars in the middle of the night with bright and clear eyes. At least now, no matter how brief this moment was, she was here.

“Here.” You hold out a gold band.

“What’s this?”

“A bracelet I made. It reminded me of your eyes.”

“My eyes are blue.”

“I know.”

“Then why would you give this to me?”

“Because your eyes are like gold.”

Fall in love by overcoming boundaries with another.

[tweedlebean]

Deleted the reblog where I ranted in the tags but I'm still kinda miffed so I'm just gonna list out some things so we all know

Obstacle courses are different than parkour, especially the Ninja Warrior style courses that are popular right now

Parkour does not??? Rely mainly on upper body strength?????

Men and women are actually not that physically different, and good coaches in any sport will work with your individual strengths regardless of gender

Ninja Warrior has a ton of women in both the training and professional circuits, and the main disadvantage women seem to have in the sport is their average height/wingspan, not any difference is strength or technique

Ninja Warrior obstacles are designed to push different areas of the body, with most focusing on body control and core strength over pure upper body strength

Pulling yourself over the bar and and jerking it and your body to the top would definitely take more upper body strength than the normal salmon ladder technique, which focuses on core and grip strength

People can be good at things without you needing to turn it into a weird battle of the sexes

[ragingstillness]

While I’m musing, I think everyone should be required to take a gap year between high school and college. For a whole bunch of purposes: to buy all the stuff you need for independent living, to do the research required to get used to your school including something like a sleepover where you could live in the dorms for like a day then a week then two weeks so you can anticipate some of the challenges you’ll face, but more importantly to take a class on basic life skills.

This class would be sort of like home ec but full of skills that modern people all need to have to be successful living independently, to be equal partners in relationships, etc, regardless of gender or upbringing.

Things like, how to do laundry: not just how to run a machine but the differences between lights and darks and delicates.

How to get stains out of clothing: all your common stains, blood, sweat, food, sauce, chocolate, coffee, spices, soda.

How to sew: fixing small rips, putting buttons on, hemming pants, adding elastic, taking clothing in, how to use a stitch ripper, the difference between fabric scissors and regular scissors, how to thread a needle, how to pin something.

How to cook: the difference between stick and non-stick pans, adjusting heat in an oven or on a stovetop, using a whisk, a spatula, measuring cups, knives, how to crack an egg, how to handle raw meat, how to clean fruits and vegetables, how to clean pots and pans, a few basic dishes that’ll allow you to survive.

How to clean a bathroom: proper chemicals, proper tools, proper safety precautions, proper technique.

How to have your own money: stocks, investing, taxes, insurance, avoiding scams, keeping a budget, balancing a checkbook.

How to find a trustworthy source: for internet browsing, for work research, for school research.

How to change a tire

How to replace a light socket

How to fix a sink

How to unclog a drain

How to build something small out of wood

How to use power tools

How to paint something that isn’t a picture

How to work machinery like lawnmowers, leaf blowers, string trimmers, and snowblowers

How to change a lightbulb

How to sort garbage and recycling

How to do basic first aid on yourself and others

How to treat burns

How to keep a calendar

How to use an iron

How to pack a suitcase

How to grocery shop efficiently

How to optimize a google search

I could make this list even longer but I’ll stop here. All of these are things I had to know in order to live in a college dorm properly and I’ll admit I did not enter college knowing all of them and I regretted not knowing.

If we give our kids who are on the cusp of being adults better life skills going into college, they are more likely to succeed later in life and also to transition more effectively. I know not knowing how to do something has always given me major anxiety and having to navigate a college transition with that was very difficult. I struggled. If I had something like this I would have struggled much less.

[batbeato]

I was also thinking alongside the lines of an Umineko AU, where magic is actually real. The era of sorcerers and witches and alchemy and beasts are still generally assigned to being myths. It's still in regards to everything Ushiromiya and Rokkenjima and Beatrice.

I was thinking that magic would still be prevalent in ways similar to the anime Iroduku: A World In Color, or maybe something like Encanto where it runs in family lines and individuals have gifts. Or maybe Kinzo did something, who knows.

But Witches and Sorcerers magic, alchemy, is something long-forgotten and even rumored to have not actually existed - not like they do in stories. Which would further obscure Beatrice's heart in the Meta from Battler - because magic does exist, even if there's no one left that knows if Beatrice's magic is the real deal and killed everyone-

(Speaking of which, I wonder where exactly Meta-Battler's memory cuts off? At the airplane, in the cousins' room in the guesthouse? We never see him question in the vn where they are, I don't think. Does he assume Beatrice just ripped him through space and time to torment him with her games? Not to mention we know Rosa appears and is getting forcefed her family at the end of one of the episodes? Where does she go, after? Where does everyone else go? Are they just lurking in corners, out of sight?)

At the same time though, so much of Umineko is trying to pierce through the veil of magic - not to tear out the guts of the story, but to see the heart hiding underneath. In utilizing literal magic in the plot, even if things like occult black magic and sorcerers and witches and demons are deemed myth or legend, if writing with canon-context, wouldn't it clog the narrative?

Also, it's a rule in mysteries, isn't it? To not actually use supernatural creatures/abilities - including magic? At least, not to hand wave how the crime occurred and pull a solution out of thin air. Though, in a world where traces of magic exist, regardless, Sayo probably wouldn't use it? She wants someone to stop her, Battler to solve the mystery. Her murders - though not anyone else's, arguably - following the rules of a who-dunnit, how-dunnit, why-dunnit mystery.

Rambling here, sorry.

Putting this on anon, because I'm slightly afraid of offending anyone.

Honestly I think it all would really depend on the specifics of the AU and how magic would interact with the existing story to enhance or change it. If it ended up not really changing much, that wouldn't be interesting, but maybe it could. For example, maybe different types of magic are gendered, so 'witches' are generally supposed to have 'feminine' magic (healing, connecting with nature, emotions) and witches that have 'masculine' magic (controlling the elements, summoning powerful demons, etc.) is considered to be heretical or evil. Maybe Rosa encouraged or tolerated Maria's interest in magic at first, but as the abuse continued and Maria grew to be interested in 'unsuitable' magic that intensified the abuse and lead to a cycle. Just an example I'm throwing out - I'm not the best with magic worldbuilding.

Magic being 'real' would probably impact a lot of the metaphors about magic as love, understanding, illusion, etc. though. You'd have to work with that a lot to try to figure out what to do to replace it with in such an AU. In Umineko proper, magic is sort of real but also sort of not, existing in a gray area where you can interpret it either way.

As for using magic in a mystery, Knox doesn't explicitly forbid it. The rules relating to the supernatural are "It is forbidden for supernatural agencies to be employed as a detective technique." and "It is forbidden for unknown drugs or hard to understand scientific devices to be used."

The first relates to the detective, so as long as Battler himself (or Erika) doesn't use magic to suddenly just know things, all is well. As for the second, it doesn't explicitly mention magic, but it mentions similar deus ex machinas. So long as the magic is explained, it should be able to be used as part of a mystery. Van Dine, however, does explicitly forbid supernatural methods of murder/crime. So take that as you will. (Van Dine's rules are very strict compared to Knox.)

It's really about, if you want to make an AU and you think you'll have fun with it, go ahead. I feel like people feel the need to put so much thought into AUs but people can just have AUs, whether they're really meaningful and significant or just fun, which is meaningful and significant in its own way. I have tons of AUs that are just... fun. And that's nice.

[washipink]

The Rain Review (Finale)

If you’ve been with my blog for the past week or so, You’ll know I’ve been reading a childhood favorite webcomic of mine, Rain by Jocelyn Samara. And you’d probably be wondering what happened to my review of the comic Year-by-Year. The answer? I went on a road trip for a few days and couldn’t help but read the whole rest of the comic. So today I’m here to talk about my overall thoughts.

For the uninitiated, Rain is a slice-of-life webcomic that started in 2010. It’s about a transgender teenage girl of the same name navigating her senior year at a Catholic high school. There’s a LOT of romantic and gender-related drama. Friends are made and lost. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you’ll see yourself in the characters somewhere along the line.

My experience with Rain prior to this project only goes up to about 2014. I started reading it in middle school on Smackjeeves.com. Y’all remember Smackjeeves? I miss it every day. Apparently it redirects to a shitty webtoon clone now. IDK where I’m gonna find peoples’ sprite comics produced in 2013 now.

Anyway, I bring this up to say that I had stopped keeping up with Rain even though she was a major part of me accepting who I was. When I found out that her story had come to a close, I had a real need to find out how.

This time, there won’t be a plot summary because this comic ran for 11 years and it takes me long enough to do just 1. That and, if I may spoil my final opinion, I really want you to give it a read for yourself.

ART

I want to get this one out of the way because it’s a very common critique that even I hold to some extent. The art in Rain is a clear indicator of the era its artist hails from. In 2010, anime and manga had just hit the American mainstream. Everyone was reading those “How to Draw Anime” books and took a lot of notes from them. To showcase, here’s a page from Chapter 1, the first color page in fact.

This page is actually one of the busier pages in terms of art. Jocelyn doesn’t usually do background details much, if at all. Usually, backgrounds are depicted as solid colors that are associated with specific locations. Grey for the apartment, sky blue for outside, light green for school, etc. But the way Rain is drawn here bears a striking resemblance to the styles a LOT of people were using at the time.

While Jocelyn’s style stays rooted in, shall we say, American who got really into anime, her techniques evolve over time. Especially in terms of displaying what’s going on with limited background detail.

As an example, I really enjoy this scene. Rain and Emily are, in universe, speaking over the phone right now. But neither of them are holding their phones to their ears. They’re looking at each other as if they’re in the same room. Jocelyn uses a gradient background to signify that the two of them are NOT in the same room, but as they get closer during their conversation, they get physically closer in the panel as well.

This page is taken from 2014, about 4 years into the comic’s run. You can see that Jocelyn’s brush choices have changed. Everything is far smoother than it was toward the start. While the overall style is as simplistic as year 1, her technique has changed a lot.

That comfort with her work only continues to grow. Below is a panel from a bonus page that released after the comic’s conclusion. The line work is the cleanest its ever been.

STORY AND CHARACTERS

Now this right here is the REAL meat of the comic. Regardless of any feelings I had on the art, the characters really endeared me. And this being a slice-of-life teen drama, they had plenty of time to learn, grow, and clash against one another.

The majority of the conflict in Rain comes from people being set in their ways. Rain’s whole gaggle of queer friends is hiding from the school’s principal, who refuses to acknowledge that maybe there’s nothing wrong with being a little gay. One of the most compelling ongoing threads in the comic centers around Rain’s brother and sister trying to understand and accept her. These personal stakes were a really enjoyable break from the kind of thing I usually read. In Rain, there is no world to be saved or villain to defeat, but there IS a prom to go to. Sometimes, that’s all you need to tell a good story.

The comic has this small-town vibe I care for a lot. Sometimes, a character will exit another’s life and you’ll never expect to see them again. Then they’ll end up dating Rain’s aunt or something. Word spreads fast in Centerville. People are gossipy. Sometimes, you tell someone something and it reaches ears you didn’t want to hear it. That gossip is what makes things so dangerous for Rain. If the wrong person finds her out, then EVERYONE finds her out. The same goes for all her friends.

There’s all kinds of flavor of queer in this comic in a way that mirrors real life friend groups. We have a tendency to find each other like that.

With all kinds of queers being hormonal teens, things get messy FAST. There’s a lot of things that happen in this comic that I feel like baby gays need to see. There’s a point where a gay boy and a trans girl start going out because... this just happens sometimes. Nobody is “the villain” in this scenario. They both just tried to explore themselves and found mixed results.

That’s one of the big themes of Rain. Self-exploration. Every chapter, we’re learning more about these characters as they learn more about themselves. Nobody stays in the same headspace for too long. They’re constantly evolving.

FINAL THOUGHTS

Rain is ABSOLUTELY worth the read. It’s actually a really easy read. I was able to finish it in about 2 weeks, so I’m sure it won’t take up too much of your time. But, it’s a really heartwarming story that I’m sure a lot of us can relate to. Thanks for going on this journey with me. And be safe, Rain Beaus.

[yanderes-galore]

Fandom: Demon Slayer

Character: Genya Shinazugawa

Pairing: Romantic

Type: Concept

Darling could be a demon slayer or a civilian (cause that'd make him like 10 times more overprotective 💀) but whichever is fine ofc. Also fem! Darling, please 🙏

-🥝 anon

Sure! I kept it gender neutral as no pronouns are used in this, my bad :( It's easier to do general concepts to cover behavior without mentions of the reader's gender. But I hope you enjoy it regardless ���.

Yandere! Genya Shinazugawa Concept

Pairing: Romantic

Possible Trigger Warnings: Gender-Neutral Darling, Obsession, Manipulation, Stalking, Overprotective behavior, Jealousy, Threats, Isolation, Biting, Blood, Kidnapping, Delusional behavior, Possessive behavior, Forced relationship.

Genya is originally a lone wolf character, not usually wanting to work with anyone.

When you first meet him, he's no doubt brash, impatient, and rude.

So I imagine he isn't very nice to his obsession at first if they're a Demon Slayer.

You may originally try to be nice... Only to just resort to ignoring Genya due to his abrasive nature.

Where I can see his obsession truly starting is when he begins to learn teamwork with others.

Which, I believe, is after the Sword Village Arc?

After this he's more open to cooperation and sociable.

This is where I can also mention a civilian obsession.

Genya is said to be less ill-mannered towards those he likes.

He's protective in general and is especially caring towards those he views as family.

Tanjiro definitely made this man a better person.

Under that gruff exterior, Genya is super caring.

Once he admits the feelings he has for you to himself... He's a protective yandere with the one he adores.

Even more if you're a crush.

I feel once you get past the rough exterior he has... Genya can be really sweet.

If you're a Demon Slayer, he wants to train with you.

If you're a civilian, he wants to protect you.

Yet one way or another... He'd do anything to ensure your safety.

I definitely agree with you that either way he'd be protective... but if you can't defend yourself, he's worse.

If you're a Demon Slayer, then he often trains with you and looks out for you.

During missions he no doubt wants to come along, strong demon or not.

Genya also seems like he'd be ruthless when it comes to protecting the one he loves.

After all, he has the ability to consume demon flesh...

So I can also see him being a bit of a feral yandere at times due to that ability.

When I think of a civilian obsession, I feel it means anything that’s not a Demon Slayer.

You could work as a medic at one of the bases... or really just be a civilian Genya helped save.

He'd definitely feel like he needs to protect you more.

You know no breathing techniques... which makes you a sitting duck without wisteria or sunlight.

Which means Genya needs to work extra hard to ensure no demon gets you.

He's extra paranoid about it due to what happened with his family.

He doesn't want to witness another loved one turned into a demon or mauled.

You mean too much to him.

I like to imagine Genya tries to keep up the stoic and gruff persona around you at first.

But your voice and concern for him make him falter... His cheeks warm when you're near.

Even when he's nicer and more social... He acts shy around you at times.

Let's be honest, he probably struggles processing romantic love.

He's closed himself off from so many people he has trouble facing his feelings for you.

Most of the time his obsession with you manifests with a powerful need to protect.

He may have desires to isolate you... He may even distrust others around you.

Such distrust acts like jealousy... but he can barely tell the difference at times.

He tells himself he doesn't like others around you because he doesn't trust them to protect you like he can...

Yet even then, it may just be him trying to rationalize a primal jealous feeling he has.

One thing unique to Genya is his technique.

His demon technique makes me wonder if that would alter his views of his obsession.

Demons can be animalistic creatures driven by desire.

So, imagine if Genya was more possessive than protective when his demon ability is used.

He'd be a bit animalistic at times, maybe even losing control briefly.

Which means, if you're a slayer and working with him, he may get more brutal with the demon you're fighting...

Or perhaps even corner you when the fighting ends?

Similar thing could happen if you weren't a Slayer, where he'll dispatch the demon attacking you with his ability before stalking closer.

He's scary when using his demon ability.

The eyes, teeth, claws....

You're shaking when he stares down at you with a dark hunger in his gaze.

Usually Genya will get himself under control, quickly apologizing when back to normal when he sees your fear.

He doesn't want to scare you... He just wants to protect you!

Although... The idea of what would happen if he lost control...?

He'd probably not intentionally harm you...

Yet he would be animalistic, not letting anyone else near you.

Demon, Slayer, doesn't matter who comes close...

Genya's demon ability reflects his innermost desires.

Even if he's holding off on confessing, in his demonic actions... with how possessive he is...

You can probably get an idea.

He may even nip you instinctively, which terrifies you when you feel blood trickle down your skin.

He's capable of possessive feelings, yet it's usually when his state of mind is corrupted like during his technique.

But he's, ironically, often fighting his inner demons when it comes to you.

He hates the idea of you being in danger... and he hates it when you ignore him.

By this point you'd probably only ignore him out of fear, as he'd stop being rude with you.

You'd avoid him due to fear of his ability and how he acts during said ability.

Which makes Genya feel guilty.

When it comes to yanderes protecting their beloved, they'd do nearly anything.

Such as isolation, violence, kidnapping....

Imagine if Genya, regardless of if you're a Slayer or civilian, ends up isolating you.

At first it's just socially... He wants you to be beside him.

To the point, as he can still be rather gruff, he threatens others around you.

That is until, maybe he snaps....

Imagine Genya kidnapping you just to keep you safe in some house surrounded by wisteria.

He claims your disappearance is a tragedy...

That you died in some demon attack.

Due to this, not many may question Genya's absence.

They knew you two were close, that he's probably mourning.

In reality he's keeping you in a secluded location and making sure no demon or Slayer finds you.

Genya fears losing those he loves, his brother won't even talk to him and the rest of his family is dead.

Genya's deepest desire is to keep you safe... To keep you in general....

At some point he won't care if he kidnapped you or not.

He doesn't care if he has to consume the flesh of countless demons or spill their blood in front of you.

He loves you... and he wants to prove he does by doing what he's doing.

What may make this worse if he probably didn't even confess properly before this.

It would probably come up when he's trying to explain why he did this.

Which, again, makes you cry instead of smile.

Yes, him admitting he loved you before all of this might've been cute.

Especially when he stutters or blushes.

But when he looks desperate and delusional, trying so hard to prevent your tears?

He looks deranged.

Even more so when he leans in to kiss you, only to show irritation when you pull away.

You can squirm all you want... but he's stronger.

Stronger and more determined.

Genya may be a demon slayer who just wants to protect those he loves...

But in reality, he's about as close to a selfish demon as you can get compared to other Slayers...

Is it really protecting and loving you if he cages and hides you like an animal?

[ctom3835-blog]

Understanding Depression in Lexington, KY

Depression is a common mental health condition that affects millions of people every year. In Lexington, KY, many individuals struggle with depression and its associated challenges. This article explores the nature of depression, its symptoms, and the effective therapy in Lexington, KY available for those seeking help.

What is Depression?

Depression is more than just feeling sad. It is a serious mental health disorder that can impact daily life. Symptoms may include persistent sadness, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, and changes in sleep or appetite. Depression can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background.

For many in Lexington, KY, depression is a heavy burden. It can lead to significant emotional pain and physical health issues. Recognizing the signs of depression is crucial for seeking help. Understanding the condition can help individuals and their loved ones identify the need for support and treatment.

The Impact of Depression on Daily Life

Living with depression can significantly hinder an individual’s quality of life. Many people find it challenging to complete daily tasks, maintain relationships, or even enjoy activities they once loved. This impact extends beyond the individual to families, friends, and communities.

In Lexington, KY, it is vital to address these challenges. Awareness and education about depression can reduce stigma and encourage individuals to seek help. Accessing effective treatment options can lead to improved mental health and overall well-being.

Recognizing the Symptoms of Depression

Recognizing the symptoms of depression is the first step towards recovery. Common symptoms include:

Persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness

Loss of interest in previously enjoyed activities

Changes in appetite or weight

Sleep disturbances, such as insomnia or excessive sleeping

Difficulty concentrating or making decisions

Fatigue or lack of energy

If you or someone you know is experiencing these symptoms, it’s essential to seek help. Many effective therapy options in Lexington, KY can help individuals manage and overcome depression.

Therapy Options for Depression in Lexington, KY

When it comes to treating depression, therapy is one of the most effective options available. Various therapeutic approaches cater to individual needs and circumstances. Here are some common therapy types offered in Lexington, KY:

1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is one of the most widely used therapeutic approaches for treating depression. It focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. By addressing these issues, individuals can develop healthier coping strategies and improve their emotional well-being.

CBT typically involves working with a trained therapist in individual or group sessions. This structured approach has proven effective in helping individuals manage their depression and reduce symptoms.

2. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is another effective treatment for depression, especially for those who struggle with intense emotions. DBT combines cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness practices. This therapy helps individuals understand and accept their emotions while developing coping strategies.

DBT is particularly beneficial for those with self-destructive behaviors or thoughts. This therapeutic approach can empower individuals to lead more fulfilling lives despite their depression.

3. Supportive Therapy

Supportive therapy focuses on providing emotional support and guidance. This type of therapy helps individuals express their feelings and experiences in a safe environment. Through supportive therapy, individuals can feel heard and validated, which is crucial for their healing process.

In Lexington, KY, many therapists offer supportive therapy as part of their mental health services. This approach is often beneficial for those who may not need intensive treatment but still require support.

Finding Help for Depression in Lexington, KY

If you or someone you know is struggling with depression, help is available in Lexington, KY. Various mental health resources offer effective treatment options tailored to individual needs.

Finding the right therapist or treatment program can make a significant difference in recovery. Many professionals specialize in treating depression, offering various therapeutic approaches, including therapy in Lexington, KY.

The Importance of Seeking Help Early

Early intervention is crucial when dealing with depression. The sooner individuals seek help, the better their chances of recovery. Recognizing the signs of depression and reaching out for support can lead to more effective treatment outcomes.

If you suspect you or a loved one is experiencing depression, don’t hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional. Seeking help is a sign of strength and a critical step toward recovery.

Conclusion

Depression is a serious condition that affects many individuals in Lexington, KY. However, effective treatment options are available to help individuals overcome this challenge. Through various therapeutic approaches, including CBT, DBT, and supportive therapy, individuals can find the support they need.

If you or someone you know is struggling with depression, take the first step by seeking help. Accessing the right therapy in Lexington, KY can make a significant difference in your journey toward recovery. Remember, you are not alone, and support is available.

[sunnytanj]

Muse Info

(NOTE: While the default timeline will be approximately a year after KnY's main story, this character will also be canon-divergent.)

Age: 16 Birthdate: July 14 Weight: 134 lbs Height: 5’5" Gender: Male Species: Demon, formerly human

Canon details here.

Personality

Despite being turned into a demon, Tanjiro retained his kindhearted, human self albeit with the aid of the seal that bound his demonic alter ego. Generally, he'd show empathy to anyone, regardless of their past and species.

Skills and Abilities

As once a demon slayer, he uses breathing techniques while fighting using a sword. He can use Sun Breathing to its full potential, almost replicating the same movements the first Sun Breather had.

He can also manipulate crimson flames as his Blood Demon Art, often infusing it on his sword to enhance his offense and give burning effects on targets. He can also control the flames' effects to heal the wounds of others and remove poison from their body.

As a demon, he also has enhanced regeneration wherein losing a limb will grow him a new one in seconds. In addition, he is also capable of biokinesis which allows him to protrude bone-like tendrils and even shift into certain forms if desired.

Background

While it hasn't been known by many, demons emerged more than a millennium ago and have been consuming humans since then. Thus, the demon slayer corps was established to plunge down their numbers. The battle between these two factions has been going on endlessly.

Anyway, that part is surely a long story to tell so let's just skip to their last war... or so they believed so.

Among the demon slayers who became part of the last war, the benevolent young man named Kamado Tanjiro was able to kill the ruler of all demons with the help of other slayers. With his life at risk, he almost died.

By the way, did you know that the demon king Muzan can turn humans into demons? Well...

Before the demon king died, he injected his blood into that young slayer. As a result, Tanjiro became the vessel of the fallen demon king's remains. Not only did it turn him into a demon. He was even declared as the new demon king. However, it was only for a short time when he was injected with a cure to revert him back to human.

But did it work? Well, sort of.

Due to the high amount of blood already injected into him, he is still a demon. Yet it may be some kind of miracle when he regained his human self instead. Even so, he struggled to fight back the demonic instinct trying to take over him.

Ever since, he had been taking heavy medications to at least sustain his human self as there hasn't been a cure yet to completely revert him back to human. As to how long before his demonic alter ego takes over? He had to prepare for it, if that time ever comes.

Additional Information

While cooked food would taste slightly bitter to Tanjiro, his enhanced sense of smell somehow compensates for it.

He can hide most of the marks he had as a demon to look more human.

While he can also use other forms, such as child and adult forms, he rarely does so as he sees it as unnecessary.

[unisexmassagespa]

Cross Gender Massage: Everything You Need to Know Before Booking

Cross Gender Massage: Everything You Need to Know Before Booking

Cross Gender Massage: A Comprehensive Guide

Massages have always been known for their therapeutic benefits, providing relaxation, relief from stress, and overall well-being. Among the different types of massages available today, cross-gender massage is gaining popularity. This concept is becoming more prevalent in cities, including Gurgaon, as people are more open to exploring new wellness experiences. In this blog, we will discuss what cross-gender massage is, its benefits, why it is becoming popular, and what to expect when opting for a cross-gender massage in Gurgaon.

What is Cross-Gender Massage?

A cross-gender massage is one in which the client and the therapist are of different genders. For example, a male therapist provides massage therapy to a female client, or a female therapist provides therapy to a male client. This practice is common in many parts of the world and offers a unique approach to massage therapy, catering to clients who prefer the energy, technique, or style of a therapist of the opposite sex.

Benefits of Cross-Gender Massage

Enhanced Comfort and Relaxation: Many people feel more comfortable receiving a massage from a therapist of the opposite gender. This preference can stem from cultural norms, personal comfort levels, or simply a desire to experience a different approach to massage techniques. The choice of a male or female therapist can help enhance the feeling of relaxation and comfort during the session.

Diverse Techniques and Strength: Different genders may bring unique styles and strengths to their massage techniques. For instance, male therapists may use stronger pressure that benefits clients who prefer deep tissue massage or need relief from muscle tension. On the other hand, female therapists may offer a gentler touch, which is ideal for those who prefer a soothing and calming massage experience.

Holistic Healing Experience: Cross-gender massage can provide a holistic healing experience that transcends physical relaxation. Many clients feel that an opposite-gender therapist brings a different kind of energy to the session, helping them achieve a more profound sense of balance and well-being.

Breaking Social Norms and Personal Growth: Opting for a cross-gender massage allows individuals to challenge their preconceived notions about gender roles and norms. This experience can be empowering, providing a sense of personal growth and confidence.

Improved Communication and Understanding: Communicating your preferences, comfort levels, and specific needs to a therapist of the opposite gender can improve your ability to articulate personal boundaries and expectations, leading to a better understanding of what works best for your body and mind.

Why is Cross-Gender Massage Becoming Popular?

Open-mindedness and Cultural Shifts: In recent years, people have become more open-minded and willing to try new experiences. The acceptance of cross-gender massage has grown significantly as more people understand that massage therapy is a professional service focused on health and wellness, regardless of the therapist's gender.

Increase in Professional Standards: The rise in popularity of cross-gender massages can be attributed to the increasing professionalism and standards maintained by massage parlors and spas. 

Growing Awareness of Benefits: As more people experience the benefits of cross-gender massage, they are more likely to share their positive experiences with friends and family. This word-of-mouth promotion has helped normalize the concept and remove any stigma that might have existed.

Personal Preferences: Just like choosing a hairstylist or a fitness trainer, people have personal preferences for their massage therapists.

Your Destination for Cross-Gender Massage in Gurgaon: Unisex Massage Spa

In the bustling city of Gurgaon, where life moves at a fast pace, finding a tranquil space to relax and rejuvenate is essential. Aura Unisex Spa offers exactly that—a haven for those seeking relaxation, peace, and holistic well-being. One of the most sought-after services at Aura Unisex Massage is its cross-gender massage in Gurgaon, designed to provide an exceptional experience that transcends traditional massage therapy.

Why Choose Unisex Massage Spa for Cross-Gender Massage in Gurgaon?

Professional and Experienced Therapists: At Unisex Massage Spa, you will be treated by highly skilled and trained therapists who specialize in various massage techniques. Whether you prefer a male or female therapist, each professional is certified and experienced, ensuring a high-quality massage tailored to your needs. The therapists at Aura understand the nuances of cross-gender massage and are committed to providing a comfortable and respectful environment for all clients.

Personalized Approach to Relaxation: Unisex Massage Spa believes in offering a personalized experience. When you opt for a cross-gender massage in Gurgaon at Aura, you will have the opportunity to discuss your preferences, specific needs, and any concerns with your therapist before the session begins. This customization ensures that your massage is tailored to address your unique requirements, whether you are looking to relieve stress, alleviate pain, or simply relax.

Wide Range of Massage Services: Unisex Massage Spa offers an extensive menu of massage services that cater to diverse preferences. You can choose from a variety of massage styles, such as Swedish massage, deep tissue massage, Thai massage, hot stone massage, and aromatherapy massage. The option of a cross-gender therapist allows you to select the professional who best suits your comfort level and desired massage technique.

Tranquil and Inviting Ambiance: The environment at Unisex Massage Spa is designed to promote relaxation and tranquility. The spa is meticulously maintained, with soothing music, calming aromas, and comfortable massage rooms that provide the perfect setting for a rejuvenating experience. Privacy is a top priority at Aura, and all clients can feel secure knowing that they are in a safe and serene environment.

Focus on Client Comfort and Safety: At Unisex Massage Spa, the comfort and safety of clients are paramount. From clean and sanitized massage rooms to the use of high-quality massage oils and lotions, Aura ensures that every client feels comfortable and cared for during their visit.

What to Expect During a Cross-Gender Massage at Unisex Massage Spa

Consultation and Customization: Before your massage begins, you will have a brief consultation with your therapist to discuss your preferences, any specific areas of discomfort, and the desired intensity of the massage. This step ensures that your experience is customized to meet your needs.

Respect for Privacy and Professionalism: At Unisex Massage Spa, privacy and professionalism are taken seriously. All therapists are trained to maintain the highest standards of conduct, ensuring that every client feels safe and respected throughout their session. The massage rooms are private, and you can trust that your comfort and confidentiality are always a priority.

A Relaxing and Rejuvenating Experience: Once the massage begins, you can expect a soothing experience that melts away stress and tension. The therapist will use techniques tailored to your preferences, whether you prefer a light, calming massage or a more intense, deep tissue treatment. The goal is to leave you feeling refreshed, revitalized, and completely relaxed.

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Hey man, do you indulge in self-care? Here’s why you must

American writer and teacher Jack Kornfield once imparted some beautiful wisdom. He said, “If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” He insisted that we extend the same love and affection to ourselves as we offer others. The men in our world often forget this. They perceive themselves as providers and guardians, a conditioning of a thousand years. They prioritise the wellbeing of others while often neglecting their own. Kornfield’s words remind us that everyone, regardless of gender, need to prioritise self-care to maintain physical, mental and emotional health. Men especially need to know that by nurturing themselves, they can enhance their wellbeing and lead a more balanced and fulfilling life.

Men’s Health Month is celebrated every June to raise awareness about health issues that impact men and urges them to pay attention to their wellbeing. It encourages men to prioritise their health for individual wellbeing as well as for the wellbeing of their families. So, this Men’s Health Month, let’s ask ourselves some important questions and explore if we, as men, understand and indulge in self-care or not.

How high would you rate your mental wellbeing?

Mental wellbeing comes from a state of calm. And that calm is hard to achieve. After all, men face immense pressure to perform well at work, achieve success, provide for their families and ensure financial security. These pressures weigh heavily on them, making their mental health care extremely important.

You can start by acknowledging the fact that you need to cope with everyday challenges just like any other human being. Then, you can learn to manage your daily stresses through relaxation techniques like mindfulness and meditation. Further, seek professional help from yoga or Tai Chi experts to learn the right way to achieve a balance between your mental and physical self.

As American actor and professional wrestler Dwayne Johnson once reflected on his own experience with depression, “I found that with depression, one of the most important things you could realise is that you’re not alone. You’re not the first to go through it; you’re not going to be the last to go through it.” Johnson’s journey highlights the importance of seeking support and further, urges you to stay positive, no matter what. His story stresses on the importance of mental health care and the strength that comes from seeking help and understanding that recovery is possible.

Do you take care of your emotional needs?

A lot of movies and television shows portray men to be extremely macho, as humans who don’t indulge in self care and are strong anyway. But reality is often contrary to that reel image. Men, like everyone else, have emotional needs and deserve care and support. Emotional wellbeing is important for everyone, including men.

Cultivating emotional wellbeing involves nurturing healthy relationships, being able to express feelings openly and finding activities that bring joy. So, learn to build a support network of friends and family and go to them whenever you need support. They are the ones who have your back and advise you right during challenging times. As an actual strong man, it’s important to know you have them and that leaning on them is not a sign of weakness but of strength.

Do you ignore your physical health?

There are several studies that have shown how important physical health is for men’s overall wellbeing. A study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association stated that staying active could lower the chances of getting heart disease, diabetes and certain types of cancer. It also pointed out how simple activities like brisk walking could improve heart health, lift your mood and even add years to your life. This means, staying physically active could not only help you live longer but also lower your risk of preventable diseases.

So, remember to exercise, take a balanced diet and sleep or rest adequately to take care of your physical health. And understand the fact that exercising is not just a flex or a fad, it actually keeps the body fit, boosts your mood, reduces stress and keeps your mind sharp and happy.

Do you have a work-life balance?

For many men, work is extremely important, and it often blends with the idea of success and identity. But this belief can force them to overwork. The drive to succeed can take over the need for a healthy work-life balance. And this imbalance can result in stress, burnout and strained personal relationships.

Achieving a healthy work-life balance is essential for men to sustain their wellbeing and overall life satisfaction. This happy balance requires you to first set clear boundaries between work and personal life, creating ample time for rest. Taking breaks, pursuing hobbies and spending quality time with loved ones are all essential parts of maintaining this balance.

Do you self-reflect?

Taking time for self-reflection and personal growth isn’t just about achieving goals or learning new skills—it’s about finding fulfillment in everyday life. For many men, making time for self-reflection and growth can be challenging with various duties lined up. However, taking a chunk out for self-reflection daily is crucial for your mental and emotional wellbeing. By calibrating where you stand each day, you learn to grow—whether it’s trying a new hobby, speaking to an old friend or simply taking a walk while reflecting or offering gratitude, can help you recharge. By prioritising self-care and growth, you can find satisfaction and joy in all that you do, personally and professionally.

Do you plan regular trips or breaks to relax?

People who spend time amidst nature while shutting out chaos or distraction, vouch for the happiness they feel for months after. Indeed, taking a trip away is a powerful way to rejuvenate and recharge. Whether it’s a weekend getaway with friends or a family vacation, the key is to prioritise relaxation. By unplugging from daily responsibilities and immersing yourself in a change of scenery, you can reset your mind and body and reduce stress. Taking time to unwind also helps you return to work and daily life feeling refreshed.

So, ask yourselves these important questions and incorporate these aspects of self-care into your daily lives to enjoy health, savour relationships and lead more fulfilling lives. Taking proactive steps towards self-care not only benefits you but also contributes to healthier communities. So, make yourself a priority with these self-care tips and watch your life transform.