#just a month ago the fandom was talking about joongdunk fighting and secretly hating each other but they seem fine to me now

[stormyoceans]

Do you think js really had a fight? Everyone has noticed that they have been acting strangely lately. I wonder if this is Jimmy's shock method, preparing nomnoms for the fact that he will soon leave to study and that everyone will be mentally ready for it when the time comes to part?

ACTUAL DEPICTION OF ME COMPLETELY UNAWARE OF NOMNOMS LOSING THEIR MINDS OVER A JIMMYSEA'S POSSIBLE FIGHT GOING TO CHECK TWITTER AFTER GETTING THIS MESSAGE

OKAY SO. TURNS OUT I MISSED SOME STUFF. i've tried my best to look into it and catch up on what everyone's saying before answering you, but at the same time im not sure if im the best person to talk about this because (and i hope it doesn't come off as patronizing or. assholery or. idk ;;;;;;;;) im not particularly comfortable with analyzing and speculating over real people, even if those people are jimmysea

the thing is. as someone who is familiar with jimmysea's behavior (however filtered that may obviously be), i do understand where the panic comes from: i admit that even to me they did seem weirdly distant throughout the entire fanfest in japan and during the special olympics event before that. however, i also think that the worry is making everyone read way too much into things and way too negatively. like i've seen a tweet mentioning how they haven't interacted on social media or liked each other's posts in a while, but let's be real. they've never been the biggest social media users, especially jimmy, so this is hardly new. and while it's true that sometimes they can be joined at the hip, they're also not the types to be all-over each other constantly and give us thousands of pictures together

what im trying to say is. do i think they had a fight? maybe. no matter how much we love someone, we are all humans, and misunderstandings are bound to happen. believe it or not, conflict is a normal part of a healthy relationship. it's how we deal with that conflict that makes all the difference, and jimmysea have always been very open and vocal about having had issues before but still finding a way to talk it out and coming out of it stronger than ever, so even if they did indeed have a fight, i trust them to be able to reconcile. maybe it will take a bit longer than we'd like, but all we can do is to keep supporting them while they figure it out

so (and again, i hope this isn't going to come off as patronizing or rude or whatever ;;;;;;;) as jimmy himself once said......