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[bukashki]

@ninadove YOU.

Thank you for making me appreciate the tragic nature of slithering-out-of-grasp design of Aspik. I could not resist :(( I BLAME YOU FOR EVERYTHING <3

rest of you read It brings the world back into tune

Bonus: A familiar voice

[cherrywhite]

One thing I love about Hayward in s1 is ya, sure, he's a cop. But most notably, he's not even a good cop. 

Hear me out. This isn't saying Hayward does not have the intuition one would associate with your typical, glorified cop from tv shows (in chapter 40, Hayward is absolutely right in that he immediately figured Carpenter out the moment he spotted her in Marcel's Crossing) and other instances, like chapter 43, shows that he has good reflexes for moments under fire (is the first to notice Brother Philly and co. at the door and pushes Carpenter out of the way). Not to mention that Hayward was on the force since he was 19, and to survive on the force for that long means he surely had plenty of solved cases under his belt, regardless if pressure has slowly built up by the time we're introduced to him.

No, when I say he's not even a good cop I mean in the sense of: he's not good at what cops actually do. 

One of the very first things Felix reminds him is to not "forget his gun this time." Implying that this has happened before, enough times for Felix to sound audibly tired about it (and he does have to go back for his gun at least two times in season 1). When Mr. Finch points a gun at him, he sits on the ground for a conversation. When asked, Hayward is confused as to why Daggler would need a knife when they find Carpenter and Faulkner's abandoned car, the thought of slashing the tires never even crossing his mind. And instead of immediately taking her into custody with no warrant whatsoever aside for his hunch, he sits down with Carpenter for an amicable conversation and a meal; only later showing his hand long enough to warn her that he's a cop and he's on to her. He's a cop and he has the Stink on him; because s1 Hayward is a bad cop. Because he does not immediately resort to violence. 

(And this isn't to dismiss his role as a cop entirely, something we're never fully privy to; chapter 3 alone shows us how his mere position as a cop was enough to cause a death that could have easily been avoided, because that role prevented Hayward from providing Mr. Finch with the actual help he needed.)

Daggler is such a ridiculous, exaggerated character but he's also the picture perfect cop. The Lieutenant-Colonel sends Daggler of all people, when they think Hayward can't solve the case. And, look, we don't really know what Daggler's position on the force is compared to Hayward, but he's clearly trusted enough to be sent, to be the exception to personal gods and keep a rhetorical god. Clearly trusted enough to close the case efficiently. Yes, Daggler is utterly ridiculous when put next to Hayward but that's because Hayward is a bad cop. Daggler is the ideal: he gets results quickly (by losing patience and immediately assaulting the bookseller), he takes perps to court and wins (with the use of The Coiling Speaks, not a liar's god btw), and he knows how to tell a compelling story (because of course Carpenter tried to attack Hayward. And of course the Good Cop shot and killed the Heretic to Protect His Partner). Good publicity all around.

S1 Hayward shows that there is no "good cop;" because being "good" is antithetical to what's expected of cops. There was no way he could continue being good and being a cop, it's why the Stink was beginning to creep up on him. "You're one of them nice coppers." says Mr. Finch. Nice. Not good. Because so-called good cops are probably the first to get sacrificed; because these institutions are not built with morality in mind.

[july-19th-club]

i have no mouth and i must scream speech but for about insomnia hate hate hate let me tell you how much i have come to hate being awake

[crushedsweets]

Toby not giving a shit when Nina complains about mundane shit but being incredibly serious when it’s actually her safety at risk

Toby being over dramatic and worried when Clocky complains about mundane shit but being relaxed when something serious happens cuz he knows she can handle it

[secretcircuit]

am i having a resurgence in The Eating Disorder because i tried seeing a nutritionist recently or was it already happening prior?? either way ... lol

[teh-nos]

who can solve my plot/character problem in the sylki con artists au so that i can continue writing it

[damistrolls]

behold, captain strisc terlot, aka... the solution

[metaforth]

Can we just fucking cut it with the anti-therapy shit here? Its not only deeply ignorant, but it's dangerous. Discouraging people from trying things to improve their mental health is a great way to prevent their mental health from improving. If you've been considering trying therapy I would greatly encourage you to give it a chance. Whether it's online, in person, or even over text which I've heard is an option now which is great for people who struggle with face to face communication of any kind.

The response to people claiming everybody needs therapy and therapy will cure all of your problems isn't a hard pivot in the other direction. Therapy works for certain people, because everyone is different. Truth is problems like depression are a vague set of commonly associated behaviors, what's actually going on in different people's brains isn't nearly as easy to map. I personally know people who consider their therapist to have saved their life, and I myself tried therapy multiple times and it's had no effect. I don't blame my therapist, I didn't work for me because it just wasn't for me and that isn't anyone's fault.

And fucking especially don't be actively antagonistic toward your therapist. I hate stories like "my therapist told me to draw what I feel and I decided to just start eating the notebook to see how he'd react and he didn't know what to do lol." If you aren't cooperating then therapy won't fucking work. They aren't wizards who cast magical mental health engoodening spells, they're specialists who's job is to help you figure out what's going on in your head and figure out ways to improve your mental state. They aren't psychics. They can't read your mind. You need to be transparent.

If you can't figure out what to draw, or how to put your feelings into words, or whatever they're asking, just fucking tell them that. The entire point of therapy is having someone to communicate with, many people become licensed therapists because they themselves went through these problems and want to help others find a way through them. I'm sick and tired of Tumblr insisting all therapists are bad because they had a bad experience with therapy 10 years ago and think all therapists act like the paid actors in better help commercials.

Also, just to end, did you go to a mental health professional who specializes in the conditions you're suffering from, or did you type therapy into Google and call the first number you saw? I promise you finding the right therapist may actually make a difference. It might not. As I said, therapy just didn't work for me after I went to multiple different therapists, but I didn't write off the practice. Just like I don't write off anti-depressants, or mediation, or aroma therapy, ECT, the human brain is a complicated puzzle and we all must find a solution that works for us.

The last thing we need to be doing is telling someone not to look where they may find a missing piece.

[sparingiscaring]

Good news guys!! I FINALLY found a title for Emery Hyde!!!

Bad news, it is blatantly ripping off @thedandy-detective's The Dandy Detective, Brett.

Good news, it's ENTIRELY IN CHARACTER for Emery to steal the convention and begin styling himself as The Novel Detective!

[spiderbitesandvampirevenom]

so i got a very long and interesting anon and i want to say. i prommy ill respond to it but i just smoked weed and i want to give it the actual like. thought it deserves for a full response.

i will say tho with the patience thing, i work with kids and most of my previous jobs are customer service or handling crowds. so its not necessarily all patience, though im learning that young children and tumblr users have a lot in common in terms of reasoning skills, reading comprehension, and conflict resolution ability (honestly, i think my older kids might have some of y'all beat in that regard). its also the self-control one necessarily develops through years of working with some of the absolute stupidest fucking people on the planet (the USAmerican public).

[creepyastralemanation]

Why taking apart buildings piece by piece is a climate solution

There's a growing movement, in the construction industry, that wants to reuse building materials & keep such 'waste' out of landfills.

Deconstruction has already created a small circular economy that actually shrinks an area's carbon footprint!

Sadly, many communities just don't have the necessary infrastructure - yet...

These places need sorting facilities & resale stores just to keep up with all of the new demands for recycled materials.

Specialist contractors handle both, the deconstruction & the recycling operations.

Basically, disassembling buildings for parts.

Wiring, siding, nails, lumber, joists, pipe fittings & more - everything's sorted & stored in local warehouses.

The reason behind all this is climate change.

Construction & destruction of buildings accounts for 40% of greenhouse gasses & half of that comes from throwing away these materials!

For a long time, experts focused on building operations - the climate impact of heating, cooling & electrifying spaces.

But, in the last few years, they've come to understand the processes involved.

The creation & destruction of buildings create significant amounts of pollution - actually enlarging the carbon footprint involved.

Reusing already manufactured materials helps reduce embodied carbon stores.

Contractors don't have to waste materials.

But, the higher cost of deconstruction is what makes the concept a hard sell.

Homeowners & developers need financial incentives - as the process costs 35 to 40% more than just throwing the material away!!

Yet, in Boulder, Colorado alone - some 140+ million pounds of building materials has been recycled - since 2020!

There, all buildings must be deconstructed & 75% of the material must be reused.

But, Boulder has actually overshot that goal!

For the last 5 years, a full 83% of building materials have been kept out of landfills!!

Next up?

A plan for disassembling a building - before it's even built!

That way, everyone involved knows how to take the building apart, what recyclable materials to use & what is truly waste...

End.

[distractionactivated]

Spent part of my morning voluntarily waist+ deep in mud, feel very tired but also invigorated lmao. (Went to my lovely, very outdoorsy friends' wedding at a farm, which also has a muddy assault course. So of course, we did it the morning after, tired and hungover as we all were haha. Only got mud in my eye a little bit.)

[eggy-tea]

one big problem with anything touted as a cure-all is that something that helps the majority is often the exact opposite of what the minority needs.

[ghostzzy]

mark it: my mom’s first meltdown since i moved in

[fucktheroyals]

you know what’s making me insane? People going “Well, America voted for it so what’s going to happen is their fault.” HE STOLE THE ELECTION. He ADMITTED he stole the election!

Our government of representatives is doing NOTHING about it! Because they’re afraid of reliving January 6th. So many people are going to die because the people who are supposed to protect us can’t protect themselves with their own fucking army. And we aren’t doing anything because we don’t want to be called hypocrites?!

YOU CANT BLAME ALL OF AMERICA FOR VOTING FOR HIM WHEN HE ACTUALLY FUCKING STOLE THE ELECTION.

I really hope other the countries do something because clearly no one here will.

[savage-rhi]

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