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crownbeed · 2 months ago

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ace people: exist

other people within and without the umbrella: >:[

the asexual double edged sword is that a lot of people, particularly queer discoursers(tm) online, are really really rancid about ace people who have sex, I mean like stunningly awful, so naturally sex favorable/indifferent asexuals will be very keen on making sure that they aren't erased within their own community and that people at large know they exist. at the same time, people are also Very Bad about ace people who don't have sex, and sex averse/repulsed asexuals face a lot of pressure both on societal and interpersonal scales to submit to sex that they don't want, and so naturally it'll really rub them the wrong way to constantly have "but don't worry, ace people can still conform to the societal expectation!" appended to their PSAs about their experiences of asexuality. and so everyone's just kinda upset and annoyed all the time when instead it should be peace and love on planet ace.

#i honestly have never felt like i have much of a place in LGBT spaces #im under the ace umbrella but im also under the bisexual umbrella. im demisexual and pansexual.#in short - i dont feel sexual/romantic attraction towards strangers. but when i do feel it the other persons bits and how they presebt is #irrelevant #ig the gender queerness i feel makes me feel the most 2slgbtqia but also i cant be arsed to figure oit the exact terms #my gender is she/her but also he/him. i dress in whata comfy. i dont want to be called they bc it feels too close to “it” and well #conservative little town. thise r my hangups tho.#ive also got giant badonkadonks so passing as non female is pretty impossible

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