#its prolly a lot of overlapping stuff but i needed this out of my system

[saturfied]

Oh man, i actually have so much shit to talk about this.

I've known about this issue for months, not in detail, but overall, I came across their stupid ass "allegations" on jeffs makeup artists' posts??? that were not even about him???

Seriously, tf, no sense of limits or boundaries at all, uhuh obviously with their stupidity *cue eyerolls* but yeah, I found it, no, i still find it, very very stupid.

I admit even i did a light stalking, purely out of curiosity oop- they might've been together before, who knows, but they were friends and still are, there would be no other reason with Jeffs "no bullshit will breathe around me" attitude, that he would have someone around him who he hates.

Plus he has also spoken about her before, found a Twitter post with translation from his birthday of him talking about Stu's staff, and how he greatly appreciates all of them. (Really they might be understaffed but they're absolutely doing a great job, hopefully they sue those stupid people too-)

Plus, whatever it doesn't matter if they are together or not, they both seem good friends who mutually appreciate each other.

As for Jeff saying he's not with anyone, and even if he was, it doesn't, shouldn't make any difference, his life is his life. I wouldn't even care if he "lied" as he has permission to have a private relationship because it's his life. He is not obligated to share any of his personal life details with us.

But he absolutely does sometimes with his cats or his family, and we should be grateful about that much. That's it.

Jeff dating or not, should not be any of our concerns, as long as he's happy, which we know with the kind of person he is, would only prefer to be surrounded by people who uplift him and are unconditionally there for him, as he is for his loved ones.

Basically, it's not Satss but his haters who are spewing nonsense bullshit because they feel they have full control on their "idols" life. No Sats or even simply a fan would do this, as they know that, in fact, Jeff is simply a human just like us and he is allowed to live his life the way he wants. That's it.

(ps. The irony that I came here directly from instagram after reporting their posts again, at least the accounts im aware of, prolly for the third or fourth time, hah. I don't interact and reply to them, I absolutely do not wish to waste my energy on them. But know that I will keep reporting all that nonsense.)

There I said it. Thank you for this post. I've been wanting too as I've never seen it on tumblr before, but I wasn't sure If I should bring it up. Now that you did i get to put my thoughts on here, do really tysm.

For anyone out of the loop, recently a “fan” took photos of Jeff holding hands in public with a woman, Vivi, who is allegedly his girlfriend. Some claim she is his ex, some claim that they’ve been dating five years. Jeff has not said anything but (allegedly) Studio on Saturn DM’d the person who posted the photos, asking them to take the photos down. The OP said they would not take down the photos. Depending on which fan you believe, they’ve been together 5 years, 7 years, 10 years, or have been broken up for ages.

In a tweet that has got a lot of traction, someone claimed that Jeff and Vivi have been together for 5 years, and that they started dating when she was 15 and he was 24.

Presumably, they got this info by skimming her public instagram and finding this post from Jan 29, 2024, saying she was celebrating her 20th birthday.

I don’t care if Jeff has a girlfriend but I was a little concerned if the age gap was accurate. So I did some light stalking (scrolling further down in her insta feed) and found a photo of her as a child in 1992

And several photos of her working as a flight attendant from about 2018-2020 (could be from earlier than that but I felt I had enough info and stopped searching).

So imo it’s far more likely she just celebrated her 30th birthday and put down 20 as a joke/poking fun at her age.

TLDR; Jeff is allegedly dating a very beautiful woman. Bitter or misinformed fans are claiming that she was underage at the start of their relationship, but this is provably false. People are attacking Jeff for daring to date someone who isn’t Barcode, invading the privacy of Jeff and Vivi, and spreading unsavory rumors about them.

[ddonggeun]

Hey! So I’m suspecting if I got adhd/add but is there any symptom idk. It’s really exp here to get it diagnosed

sorry it took me a while to get back to you because honestly i dont know whats a good alternative for you can be so i guess i can share my own experience? 

first of all i think googling symptoms and types of adhd and reading peoples account on how adhd/add manifest is a good start? my doctor and the reddit /r/adhd REALLY help me to accept myself (which is the first step i think) but the way i get diagnosis (i am adhd with predominately inattentiveness - but at the same time i have depressions and dyslexia which is like a killer combo 10/10 would never rec) is that i came across with an article a couple months about how girls with adhd are more likely to be (mis)diagnosed with depression and it basically fucks up multiple generations because they cant get the help they need and i was like wait whats describe in it sounds kind of like me but at the same time i have always been very lethargic and rather well behaved in class growing up i am nothing like what you would typically associate with adhd (you know the hyper-activeness) so during my next visit to the doctor (im getting treatment for my depression) i mention to the article to her and she said wait you know what describe how you feel in a classroom setting growing up and is there anything you do that teachers complain about repeatedly and tell me how studying and doing homework is like to you and so i did (i can go further into details of my life since a lot contributes to why i only get diagnosis when im 21… let me know if you would like to know i guess?)

my doctor (who just so happens to be an adhd specialist and is quite active in the research area i didnt know before then we stan forever i love her really she is so encouraging and so good at her job) took some notes as i was talking and after im done she said you know what i think you might be onto something but i cant be sure yet (since i have depression and dyslexia which both overlaps quite a lot with adhd/add) why dont i first explain to you what adhd is and i’ll give you the set of official diagnosis questions you dont have to do it just take a look at it first do some research organize your thought talk to your parents about it and if you think getting a test on it is something you want we can set up another appointment and we can go from there - which is really really nice because adhd has always been a taboo at least with my upbringing it makes you a loser socially academically and you know just in general its not something you will want to have…. 

in hind sight there are SO MANY SIGNS even in early childhood how come no one notice i dont know prolly because i grew up in the 00s if you are different you need to kys lmao rip: 

trouble paying attention in school or work,

the appearance of not listening - although im an audio learner funny enough

avoidance of activities that require sustained focus,

being easily distracted 

restlessness

fidgeting and cant sit properly - i shake my legs or click my pen so much especially when im thinking or anxious lmao, i got into trouble a lot when i was younger because i only sit in my seat facnig the teacher 5 mins max at at ime then i move around or i move the chair around i think better when i cross my legs but i went to a uniform school and i always make my skirt too short so you know

interrupting - if i dont say what comes to mind when it comes to mind, the thought is gone forever

frequent talking and talking way too fast - i get the exact same comment every single report day class from when i was 4 till i graduated high school im not even kidding “she has excellent comprehension skill and reading speed. it would be great if parents can help her out a bit in maths or chemistry.  she has a lot of potential if she applies herself, she seems distracted although when we ask her questions she can answer. very helpful and bubbly and yet she talks too much in class. she is not disruptive and her seatmate never complains but she just doesnt stop talking. we have been pairing her up with quiet students in class in the hopes that she will talk less in class but she just turn the quiet student talkative”

trying to do multiple things at once - i cant do one thing at a time, even when im say writing a paper i need to be listening to music or talking to someone if not switching between tabs or word files

mood swings

hyperfocus - oh boy oh boy oh boy

impulsiveness - i dont know if i get better as i age or is it getting worse i just know how to clean up my mess lmaooooo

poor time management - although i would say ever since i start listening to stuff 24/7 it really helps build a sense of the passage of time or whatever? its like now i know ok by the time i get to the third song in the shower i need to be washing out my conditioner; or say i need to go somewhere in 40 mins which is really abstract to me i set timers and put on a show thats 35ish mins even tho im not watching it just so im aware of time is actually happening if it makes sense

fail to follow through - i start things and once i have it figure out in my head i struggle to put it down in words or explain it to others i work well with other adhd peps tho

doesnt follow instruction and only do stuff their way

burnout - this is the worst especially if you are a perfectionist or a control freak and guess who is both 

trouble coping with stress - 

i luck out because im canadian and my doctor (in my schools clinic) just so happens to be a specialist who is very passionate about helping undergrads and grad school students to achieve as much as they can - so doctor and diagnosis for me is free. i do have to pay for my medications out of my pocket for a bit since im on vyvanse (to treat both my adhd and depression-lead anxiety its complicated but it makes sense when my doctor explained it to me lol) and this drug isnt covered by Pharmacare (CAD $130ish for 3 weeks worth of 30mg, im mostly on 30mg but on days when i dont have work on stuff or go to school i take 20mg just so my anxiety dont cause me to explode lmao) and very expensive but recently my doctor and i have agreed that vyvanse really work for me and it is something that i should be on daily for the foreseeable future we applied for special authorization which means i only gotta pay the tax… of course medicating isnt a must but it is what works for me and we figure out a way to make it affordable so i cant be more happy about that

at the same time i work with my psychiatrist to you know configure the whole adhd thing cause you know 21 years of repressing and forcing your feet into a shoes that not even your size frick you up thats something people dont tell you 🤷🏻‍♀️

what my doctor said to me then stuck with me - she told me adhd or add really is no monster or flaw in fact it is a very valuable set of traits we inherit from our ancestor - we hate it now because modern society render these skills useless well you see adhd isnt all about the hyperactiveness you see in the media people with adhd are extra sensitive to their surrounding and prefer hands on experiences (today we call them distracted) they are always aware of the change around them and is capable to attend to a couple things at a time and act fast because their brains are always making sense of things even when they arent consciously doing it. in todays society we dont want these kind of people why? because they ask questions they are curious people who notice trivial stuff that dont contribute to productivity they cant sit still which makes them not the ideal factor workers or pupils BUT! you have to remember that industrialization started like a century ish ago before that our ancestors live in predominately tribal society - adhd people then are the perfect caretakers and protectors, why? because they are always noticing things they adapt and react fast… so yeah it kinda suck for us growing up in a system thats designed to be everything we are and it is something that need to be changed but for those of us who “made it out alive” especially people who only get diagnosed in adulthood more often than not they look back and realize they have developed so many incredible ways to cope to make things work - are they always the perfect way? are they always health? no definitely no but at the same time it shows you how incredible these people are they make things work yes things are really hard sometimes but you got to give yourself a pet in the shoulder for not giving up… with the help of science and research we now know a little more about how adhd affect people we now have medication and programs developed to help people with adhd - they arent to dumb you down or numb you but instead it helps you to focus better so you can actually hear your entire thought and not just phrases or sentence fragments