#its none of ur business

[garmaballs]

hey guys can we please be a little more accepting in genderfluid spaces ‼️ i am still genderfluid despite "appearing TOO feminine" in your perspective‼️ not any less genderfluid than you‼️

[mommyclaws]

Mspec lesbians and lesboys and transfemme gays, all that cool faggot stuff is my favorite, if you dont like it leaveeee idcccc lmao

[chronicowboy]

buck and eddie's conversation on the fountain in merry ex-mas gets infinitely funnier to me every time it's like: your estranged wife who you're sleeping with on the DL comes to your place of work and announces to your nosiest co-worker and best friend that you can't talk without fucking, your platonic male bestie ✨ is absurdly quiet about the whole situation which is very uncharacteristic of him so you invite him to bring your son to a mall santa whilst wondering if you can ever trust your wife with your son again, once said child is out of hearing distance you bring up your bestie's silence, bestie replies that it's none of his business and you agree in a way that sounds like you're begging him to question every life decision you've ever made before immediately launching into a full explanation of the situation despite no homo bro sitting there awkwardly listening after doing the absolute Most to avoid this conversation because he's been talking about the situation with his future brother-in-law whilst christmas tree shopping, then he commiserates with you about the never-ending complications of sex with women, both of you are exactly three seconds away from wondering aloud whether sex with men is simpler, but then your son returns from santa's village with an elf who will tell your work husband that the two of you have an adorable son and he will skip away without denying this. just normal best friend things <3

[fournets]

i dont even really go to marble hornets anymore but if yall put shipping discourse on my dash im blocking you without a second thought thog dont caare

[dunmeshiminimumwage]

[superbellsubways]

i think the people on twitter care a lil too much about other people's identities

[mihai-florescu]

"no binaries" but you still believe there are only the options of being cis or trans...?

[boatemlag]

[kittykatrattie]

honestly i really admire captainsparklez' commitment to not talking about relationships or dating. he is fully living with a woman and hes still like nope im not dating anyone and if i am u dont need to know. thats a real separation of work and personal life. good for u man

[fyodior]

Normal people don’t make a post about how people are gross and possibly criminals over some fictional fantasies they have

Treating fantasies the same as criminal behavior is going to water down and normalize actual abuse

this topic is a slippery slope so i want to be careful about it skdsjjds but yes i agree. thoughts and fantasies aren’t crimes, and fictional characters are objects that can’t be hurt. fiction never equals reality and you can have fantasies in fiction that you’d never act on irl, so to treat it as genuine abuse and something to be feared, shunned, and condemned is outrageous. at the end of the day just leave people be. block if you feel uncomfortable with their content. you’re more than entitled to feelings of disgust truly but it’s not appropriate to act on them. fiction can never hurt or cause real genuine harm.

and for the love of god don’t doxx or call people out for the content they create or consume bc truly its none of your damn business bc they are not hurting anyone real. fiction isn’t real. thoughts aren’t crimes. simple as that

[taintedcigs]

“shes announcing the engagement soon”

“they are already secretly married”

“shes pregnant”

[gordie-kisser]

How to tell if a Relationship is Abusive or Not! Simple guide by gordie kisser himself because you guys are stupid

A relationship is not abusive if :

- it is between two (or more) adults

- they simply have unordinary/frowned upon, consensual kinks/fetishes that harm none of the people in the relationship or others

-All parties involved are consenting and comfortable in their relationship

-they publicly post about their lives together

A relationship is abusive if you KNOW, SURELY, WITHOUT ASSUMING

-it is between an adult and a minor

- their sex life is deliberately, outside of kink, nonconsensual and forced

- one party is nonconsensually posting sexual/other content about their partner

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"What should I do if I see kinks that I don't like/find disgusting/morally incorrect/gross?"

A) is it hurting anybody, nonconsensually- physically? If your answer is no, then

- BLOCK AND MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE

- DO NOT ENGAGE WITH OR HARASS ANYBODY

-IT IS PROBABLY SIMPLY AN ICK OR A TRIGGER FOR YOU. TRIGGERING CONTENT DOES NOT MEAN ABUSIVE CONTENT.

"What should I do if I have concerns a relationship is abusive?"

A) do you know the parties involved personally? If your answer is yes, then

- Speak about it with a trusted person

-if it is safe to do so, confront the supposed victim and offer assistance and help

- IF THE RELATIONSHIP ENDS UP BEING NONABUSIVE, LEAVE IT ALONE

B) if you don't know the parties involved

-DO NOT ENGAGE WITH THE PARTIES INVOLVED

-REPORT THE POST(S) IF THEY EXPLICTILY STATE ABUSE (ex "I am grooming __ and I do not care.) (Kinks, such as calligng somebody daddy or master, are NOT inheretly abusive.)

-IF THEY DO NOT, BLOCK THE PARTIES INVOLVED AND LEAVE EVERYBODY ALONE

Hope this helps! This fandom sucks

Stop assuming things are abusive based on what you see from the outside

[yurigirldick]

Anti ddlb/lg people who follow me are in for a treat

[kenobihater]

man. who gives a shit about label discourse. legit it's not hurting anyone if someone else ids as pan, or as a microlabel, or as something you literally cannot comprehend. just move on with your life. touch grass. do some community outreach or go to pride or a gay bar, i PROMISE you nobody decent irl who is in the community cares about insular label discourse when there are bigger threats to the community than idk, an earnest and happy 14 year old who found a label that clicks with them, and that there's so much joy to be found and had in a community as diverse as ours

[odysseys-blood]

i need to go back to my lesbian situationship ocs (gabriel/mayhem/bone dog)