#its actually because of the allosexual norms of teens and yound adults pressured to have sex | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

nico-moist-moses · 6 months ago

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Ignoring the stupid concept of virginity-

Why do people get suprised I'm a virgin? People be asking me this question when I'm in the most nerdiest get-up: flannel, Camp Half-Blood shirt, carrying MTG cards and D&D dice at all times, watching anime, etc. Like look at me. I dont "get bitches." Im actually actively trying to not get bitches! I'm gray aroace over here!

#its actually because of the allosexual norms of teens and yound adults pressured to have sex #i understand that part #its also because im an adult and trans so theres just like a lot of stereotypes going in depending if the asker is ignorant or a friend #bit like also my vibes and personality dont scream f boy lmaoo #maybe its because they think im nice and that i deserve to get smooches? some allos are obssessed with romance/sex it and at times feel pity #but then im like “no its literally okay im actually happy im not doing the tango im content being grey-aroace”#sure sex sounds cool like maybe but like i can wait #just random thoughts about how im percieved in a allonormative society nothing much :]

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