#it's lingering on my mind b/c gofundme in the group chat for visa-yoink logistics and i would be more sympathetic if i hadn't known what | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

anonymusbosch · 16 days ago

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acquaintance in the very large group chat has reached the unfortunate foreseeable-and-foreseen outcome (loss of visa?) of "multiple levels of shitty life situation" compounded by "a seemingly steadfast resolution to make poor choices in every possible avenue of life". and it's. i wish her the best in dealing with the fallout, and i hope at some point she is able to make choices which improve her situation.

#uncharitable #...?#phrased delicately.#just. logistical financial interpersonal financial over and over a stick through the wheel of the bike #even with lots of people providing housing money and advice #it's lingering on my mind b/c gofundme in the group chat for visa-yoink logistics and i would be more sympathetic if i hadn't known what #she spends money on. girl. if ur in danger of not paying $VISA_REQUIREMENT$ don't freaking go to $EXPENSIVE PLACE$ for a date and tell #everyone about it and then not be able to pay for the important thing and go all shocked pikachu #i get that u want to have a nice thing bc life is hard but like please wait til your important payment goes thru. the one that keeps u in #the country?#and also the other $UNNECESSARY PURCHASE$ and $PLANE TICKET$ and $RECURRING EXPENSE NOT NECESSARY AT ALL$#if u get a plane ticket to a place For Fun?¿ and then don't arrive with enough money 2 call a cab to ur hotel and can't find a place to sta #???#u don't have the money for the trip im sorry just don't do that #not to mention the (things i will actually not mention)#also solid contender for worst roommate several people have ever had

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