#it’s giving ‘still obsessed with male approval under the guise of self love’

[financeprincess]

I support a lot of the “feminine energy” narrative, but I think the message is starting to become twisted. You do not need to create a complete new alter ego personality to get a man to treat you right, and if you do, you have bigger problems. You should not put your life on hold in the hopes that a man will come and fix everything for you (this is how you attract predators). You shouldn’t have to manipulate men and use “dark feminine energy” to get them to provide for you, healthy masculine men will naturally want to do that. If you find a healthy man that wants to provide for you, that’s awesome, but if not, just keep it moving and focus on you.