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susansontag · 3 months ago

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I won’t lie to you all… I’m on a holiday with a friend and it has mostly been lovely but today she was stressed about stuff and likely took it out on me at one point in a way that was really unfair and we did part for a while and I cried. she later said sorry and that I hadn’t done anything wrong so clearly felt bad about it (only after I apologised though, mostly to see if she’d let me get away with taking the blame but she took responsibility herself, which was at least positive) but like it is true that about 5% of the time this friend can be difficult and it’s just hard to manage when it happens

#also I’m sorry but sometimes she is inconsiderate and a bit rude #and at one point today it was especially staggering #bc I’d walked 30 minutes through the 37c heat to get to her #and when I arrived to the street I sat down somewhere a moment and said I needed a minute to recharge bc I felt overheated and dehydrated #she then is like ‘well I’ve been here for a while and kind of want to go right away. you don’t have to come’#like…….. excuse me? can you consider my real needs for a moment?#obviously I don’t want to be left here. I’m sorry but my mother would have kicked me if I’d said that to a friend #anyway she has apologised and it’s fine I just needed to get it out of my system #and quite frankly that wasn’t the main event that was about an hour later when we reunited #but I’ve made my peace she got hot and bothered. I know she cares about me it’s just hard sometimes #it’s also lowkey only child behaviour I’ve known other only children like this lol #moth.txt

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