#it’s also 10x more challenging wanting to just cut them off forever but losing my brother in the process idk

[the-scarlet-witch-22]

little rant, came to the realization today that when I eventually get married my mom definitely will not go. I don’t know why that hurts as much as it does. I’ve always known, like I’ve known for years and thought that I internalized it, but it’s just becoming more of a reality. I’m not even close to her but wow it sucks :)

[cynthiadshaw]

What’s the Most Important Lesson You’ve Learned Along Your Journey?

Every twist in our story, challenge we face, and obstacle we overcome is an important part of our story.  These difficulties make us stronger and wiser and prepare us for what’s ahead.  As we grow and succeed we may imagine that soon the challenges will fade away, but in our conversations with business owners, artists, creatives, academics, and others we have learned that the most common experience is that challenges never go away – instead they get more complex as we grow and succeed.  Our ability to to thrive therefore depends heavily on our ability to learn from our experiences and so we are asking some of the city’s best and brightest: What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned along your journey?

KayLevenn | R&B/NEOSOUL Musician

The most important journey I’ve learned through out my whole music journey is ; If You Want The Job Done & Done Correctly Do It Yoursef.

@KayLevenn Apple Music & All Other Platforms: KayLevenn

Ramiro Morales | Photographer & Videographer

It doesn’t matter how much you have learn over the years, you never & should never stop learning.

@ramiromorales7

Kevin Nivone | Freelance Graphic Designer

When I first started out designing I always tried to “reinvent the wheel” and never appreciated what other designers have already done which, I think, slowed my progress as a creative. So instead of trying to come up with a unique design that’s never been done before, my advice would be to build upon what others have done, add your own style, and naturally you’ll be able to create something that’s you.

knivone.com behance.net/knivone linkedin.com/in/kevin-nivone

DJ Harvey | Photographer

@Monimaney

The most important lesson I’ve learned since starting photography is to, never stop taking pictures! No matter the trials or tribulations that you face don’t ever stop, because when you get to a milestone that you’ve set, you’ll be like “WOW, I have came such a far way, and was able to achieve it” and you’ll be so proud of yourself and that alone will motivate you to keep pushing and improving!

@DeejHarv 

Fernando Hernandez Jr. | Photographer

Photo by: @nandos.photos Model: @mtwmodel

To me the most important lesson is Patience and Determination, if you can’t be patient and be determined to your passion it will go downhill. I’ve learned this the hard way and I have learned that being able to take your time and not rush for what you desire is going to pay off in the long run. It may take some time but in the end it will pay off and you will be rewarded.

hernandez.photo @nandos.photos

  Dabel | Content Creator

The most important lesson I’ve learned in my journey so far is that self-confidence is freeing. The moment you believe in yourself and your work, it’s a fantastic feeling.

@iam.five

Vaylan

The most important lesson that I have learned on my journey so far is “Believe in yourself before anything or anyone” We are all on our own journey so don’t compare yourself to anyone else.

@illsns

Elvin Rosa | Collegiate athlete | Actor | Model | Small business owner

Photographer: @Monica_nicole_photography nicolespanton.wixsite.com/nics

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned over the years is that failure is not a bad thing. Many people fear failure and see it as a badge of dishonor. As a result of this fear, many people will stay in their comfort zone and never try anything new because they do not want to be viewed as a failure. From my perspective, in order to grow, you have to try new things and push your boundaries and comfort zones. If you haven’t failed at something then that means that you are not pushing yourself enough to grow and try new things. I have been playing baseball since I was three years old and I had a lot of success in the sport through the years but I also wanted to push my personal growth and try something out of my comfort zone, so I started to do acting. I have been on at least a hundred auditions and only received a handful of gigs, but I never let the word “no” get me down or keep me discouraged. That word was actually what drove me to make adjustments, adapt, and overcome. I have learned over the years to take failure as a badge of honor and use it to elevate my personal growth and also to help and encourage others to reach their full potential. None of my accomplishments would be possible without the continuous support from my family and all of the blessings from Jesus.

@Elvrosa firehouse.shop @Firehouse_dtx

Brittany Briggs | Blogger & Founder of Crowned and Cultivated

Meagan Henderson

The most important lesson I’ve learned in this journey is to enjoy life and be in the moment. Stop worrying about the things you can’t control and focus on the blessings in life. Be intentional. Each moment is worth it!

@Wherethebeautifulthingsgrow @crwned_cultivated wherethebeautifulthingsgrow.com

Kyle Quisenberry | Outdoorsman | skateboarder | photographer | Owner of The Culture Provisions

Some people put their faith into another person or higher power, but I believe you should always want to have the most faith in yourself! Keep pushing, Keep thriving, & Always do something that you love and your life will flourish!

@TheCultureProvisions @quiznberry @thecultureprovisions

Justin Mutinta | Photography hobbyist

Everyday is learning day. No matter much you think you know or do, there’s always another lesson waiting to be found.

@k1d_wicked

Brent Winfrey | Photographer

Over the years of making strides into becoming a photographer has been challenging and a rewarding adventure. I have turned a hobby into my passion and art. One thing that I have learned in my journey is your only limit is yourself. Progress can be very slow at times, but I have to remind myself to enjoy the moment and embrace the process.

@Itsbrentw

D. Martin | Visual Strategist

@daonedcee @mr_d_martin

From this understanding, I founded my new company Xpert Visuals, and created the Visual 10X Effect. The Visual 10x Effect is based on three pillars Strategy, the Content Creation Cycle, and the Marketing, Advertising, and Testing Cycle.

My Goal for 2020 is to take #100 brands, businesses, or influencers through the Visual 10X process. Effectively multiplying their reach, sales, and following depending on each Brands specific goals. If you’d like to know more, visit my website at xpertvisuals.com and sign up for a free Strategy Session.

xpertvisuals.com @mr_d_martin

Sergio Gonzalez | entrepreneur & vintage reseller/collector

Staying consistent in your craft is one of the most important things to do to reach your goal.

@obsoletestreetwear @obsoletestreet @obsoletestreetwear depop.com/bigsergg

Taylor Wedding | Photographer and Videographer

Failure can be your best friend and greatest opportunity for improvement. Embracing the times we fall short and using them as a catalyst toward getting where we want to be is what growth is all about.

@artsytaylor artsytaylor.com

Alexandra Taliaferro | Makeup Artist

That would most certainly be truly listening to people and empathizing. The name “goodenough_beauty” came from a conversation I had with one of my first clients. This client wanted to look like a MUA Instagram ad for their event, which is interesting because I had known that client for a long time and that isn’t their style. I was more than happy to do this for them, but I kept digging deeper and asking “why”.

This client revealed that they didn’t feel up to par with the way they currently looked. They didn’t feel beautiful in their own skin, and because of that, they wanted to look completely different.

That client, like every client I have seen after, is beautiful just as they are. Makeup can transform, yes, but truly makeup is here to enhance all of the beautiful things you bring to the table. Because what you are born with truly is good enough. The more I ask and listen to my clients, the easier it is to work towards bringing forward their natural and innate beauty. And that’s what makes it worth it.

@goodenough_beauty

Dustin McCaslin and Garry McCaslin  | Hammbone willys owner

The one big thing we’ve learned in business this year is listening to our customers and staff. It guides us in the right direction.

@hammbonewillys @Hammbonewillys Hammbonewillys.com

  Heather Harrison | Health and Wellness Coach

My journey has been forever changing and if I have learned anything along the way and the most important thing along the way it has been to cut out the negativity in your life and change your mindset on how you should be living. When you learn to replace the negative and dream really freakin big your mindset changes and takes you to places who never thought ty oh would go!

@_heatherharrison_ @MusclesMomma

Dylan M. Rafaty | Author | Entrepreneur | Public Speaker | Executive Board Member | Disability Inclusion Advocate | Connector | Navigator | Influencer

One of the many lessons learned was the ability to build or gain respect and trust within the Community I proudly serve. Another is the ability to prioritize the important things in your life and execute it well. Lastly, cherish every accomplishment and moment along your journey and share it with others.

@DylanRafaty @dylan_rafaty linkedin.com/in/dylanrafaty

Row House Stonebridge | Rowing Studio

The most important lesson I have learned in this journey is fitness isn’t just for “losing weight”. It’s for creating a healthier lifestyle to live longer and stay on top of your health. It’s for people that struggle with mental health, depression, anxiety, etc. it’s for the people who want to train for personal goals. The list goes on and on. Fitness means something different to every person you meet. It is not a one size fits all which is why we love our quote so much. This workout especially is for the every day person!

rowhouseoffers.com/stonebridge/lp/ps-30-off/?gclid=Cj0KCQiAz53vBRCpARIsAPPsz8V5OeQgqLXNT2aPxvHmqI9D-n0_kbU4IJgAr_3ye5bo3qeunGltTm4aAiBOEALw_wcB @therowhousestonebridge RowHouseStonebridge

Anisha’s Salon | full service hair and skin salon

The most important what I have learned so far is always be thankful, show your gratitude towards others. Treat others the way you want to be treated.

Never stop learning and educating yourself because education never ends.

anishashairandskinsalon.com

Discovery at The Realm | Resort-Style Living in a Suburban Setting

Discovery at The Realm has been providing luxury, resort-style living in the quickly growing Grandscape/Castle Hills area since 2016. We offer high-end amenities like our fully staffed onsite clubhouse, a dog park, a yoga room and stunning lake views. But the most important lesson we have learned in our journey thus far is the importance of connection and community for our residents. Scientific evidence over the years has shown time and again that social connection is a core psychological need essential to feeling satisfied with life. We work hard at helping our residents feel connected to the community here, to other residents and to our team members. This isn’t just an apartment complex; it’s a community people look forward to coming home to, a place where they plan to meet in the club for Happy Hour and board games at the end of a long work day, or wind down on the walking trails or dog park. We have a calendar of events that makes it easy for people to connect, in addition to great physical settings that make it easy and fun to get together. Please come visit us for a tour and see what a real community feels like. We are along State Highway 121 and Windhaven Parkway, across the street from Lava Cantina and Top Golf, and just minutes from Legacy West and DFW Airport. Our apartments have gorgeous granite countertops, durable faux wood floors, double vanities in the bathrooms and over-sized closets!

discoveryattherealm.com @discoveryattherealm

Regency Johnson Hair Artists | Colorist, Handtied Extension Special & Licensed to Create

No one can dim the anointed light that shines from within.

@regencyjohnson_hairartist @regencyjohnson_hairartist

I would have to say a big lesson I’ve learned from my journey is to KNOW YOUR WORTH! You know exactly how much time, training, money, heart, and tears you put into your craft to make you the best out there, so don’t allow anyone make you feel you aren’t worth it especially if it’s your passion and you know you are talented… Don’t settle and never change, that also goes towards anything in life.

 Raven Akinleyimu | Design and Craft Connoisseur

Be Consistent, have faith, and believe in yourself. When I first started designing and crafting no one really believed I could, but I had such a joy for it so I never gave up and stayed consistent.

@MadeByRaeA

Ryan Bertolino | President and Creative Director

@martyperlman

I would have to say that being kind to others is one of the most important lessons I’ve learn along my journey to becoming a business owner. I have seen kindness go a long way in my career! It is a trait that is very memorable to a client and will turn any client into repeat business! Kindness will create a buzz around your brand and company that will spread like wildflowers in your community and industry! So be kind to others as it will pay off in the long run!

@eventmechanicsco @ryanbertolino

Dallas Family Owned Roofer – Envision Roofing Frisco Locally Owned Roofer – Envision Roofing Protecting you With Our Experience

My most important lesson learned so far is just how great our customers are! By showing them respect, patience, flexibility and delivering quality on everything we do we gain customers for life and there is no request too big, or too small that we would not take care of for them. It teaches us to keep aiming higher on our customer experience everyday.

@envisionroofingdallas

http://www.envision-roofing.com/

Kristen Gonzalez | Thriver & Mompreneur

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned so far on my journey is, you have to take chances. I’m not saying quitting a job or spending a ton of money, but each chance you take is one step forward to an overall goal. Some may seem like larger risks, but I have found that all risks I have taken, have either been a lesson I learned or a push forward in my success. In my last career, I felt my passion shifting. I worked my tail off until I could financialyl replace that career and step away. That was a huge chance I took on what may not be guaranteed. (but really is?) Thank God I did. I found pure joy! I took chances on sharing about a product I loved; I got made fun of, mocked, blocked on social media, avoided, the list goes on. However, I also helped thousands of people along the way! The messages thanking me for taking a chance on them out weighed the struggles I went through!

@kristenmsather @txthriver

Mobile Cuisine and Catering

Believe in your concept and your food and don’t let anything get in the way of your ambitions. Follow your dreams with a passion!

@Ragin-Casian ragincasian.com @theragincasian

  Josh Schoemaker | Carbon & Cotton

The most important lesson I have learned in my journey so far is to stay focused on creating art that I love, not what I think will sell. This mindset feeds my passion of exploration and discovery as well as keeps my art looking fresh.

CarbonandCotton.com @joshschoemaker

Joey Werkmeister | UX (User Experience) Manager | Travel & Entertainment Photographer

The lesson life continues to remind me is to experience every moment life gives you. Stop, observe, value, enjoy. Travel photography has been in my blood for generations. Growing up, I remember my family sitting down in my grandparents living room at every family reunion and everyone passing around stacks of printed photos (I suppose this was the Instagram of the ‘90s) and catching up. I keep a few of my grandfathers polaroids on my refrigerator because they remind me of those special times. In my adult life I’ve been able to travel all over the world for both work and pleasure, and I’ve always kept my extended family in the loop by photographing and posting the pictures for them to see on Facebook, and now on Instagram where I’ve loved sharing those experience with friends, family and followers to world over. My father was diagnosed with ALS about 2 years ago, and since then taking photographs has taken on an new kind of meaning. He is no longer able to travel, but I’ve enjoyed documenting my adventures and bringing the photos back home so we can gather in the’ living room (just like old times) and scan through the pictures, telling stories and taking my dad along on the adventure.

@r_j_werkmeister werk.space werkspaced@gmail.com

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