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ipoddymouth · 21 days ago

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It’s truly so par for the course my first ever relationship at 19, I use the term relationship loosely, he didn’t want to fully commit to me but didn’t want to let me go either and I knew I was being treated like shit but I was so in love with him that I wouldn’t let him go he’d piss me off and I’d be like im done with him fr and then he’d say soemrbinf sweet and I’d crawl right back to him like it was sooo embarrassing but I made it out of the trenches and I no longer accep that kind of behavior

yeah like unfo i feel like u gotta get at least one (1) fuckass relationship* under your belt to grow as a person......doesn't mean either party is a terrible person it just means its probs the first time either of yall have had such strong conflicting feelings......and also there's a good chance that at least one of you has a questionable haircut

*between the ages of 17-23; if u past that then you bet not even entertain the thought of engaging in such childish behavior

#sometimes i think people forget you can't just streamline emotional development jgralgjrlgjlarg #so they'll call a relationship toxic and problematic and like....fair #but its also like unfo this is two 19-year-olds with a shared 7 brain cells between the two of them #its not bad to make mistakes!!!#sometimes a phoenix will emerge from the fuckboy ashes #and also you will realize being loved by a tiktok eboy isnt really your biggest goal in life gjlargjgragjg #like i see why the kids dont date now bc a lot of online stuff is just #2 youngs in a normal young adult relationship #and people are calling it abusive #bc someone called someone a mean name one time #like people are flawed and obvi you cant be a terrible person to someone #but also to expect perfection in a relationship when youre not even sure what that should look like #especially when youre young #is like........unfo just what you do in college jgrlajhh #anyway all this to say isnt one of the dolans gay

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