#is it better to have positive but distant relationships or risk upheaval by haing any one of a number of genuine unpleasant conversations
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The dichotomy between believing it's a good thing to learn to get along well with others even if it sometimes means compromise vs knowing that if you are always working out how to do so and deciding how much you can get out of every compromise it has measurable consequences on your mental health and your ability to have close relationships at all
#i both think that everyone should be a little more calculating for the greater good and would not wish it on my worst enemy ♥️#the eternal question#is it better to have positive but distant relationships or risk upheaval by haing any one of a number of genuine unpleasant conversations#i think the real answer is you just have to be both pleasant and genuine about it but.#the lord (non existent) did not deign to give us all that personality#so the rest of us simply have to cope#if you noticed my typo no you didn't my phone keyboard is fucked ♥️
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