#irreconcilably so means you should be exiled and unpersoned and cut off from your support systems

[sharkface]

There is a certain black and white attitude towards how situations should be handled rn based on identity or personal aspects and it drives people fucking insane that having an understanding of who oppresses who and why and how is meant to contextualize systemic and interpersonal issues and is not a hard set of rules for who is right or wrong in any given situation based on what they are and not what they did and what it was motivated by.

The state of general discourse on here rn is that people are so caught up in discussing specific scenarios (hypothetical more often than not) that people have stopped thinking of the groups they're talking about as groups consisting of an untold number of individuals with an untold number of unique circumstances and experiences and have just entirely lost their grasp on extremely basic concepts of systemic oppression and intersectionality