#instead of immediately aging to like 35 with a kid and a divorce on his back like he looks now

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I want to write Amber outside of any angry black girl stereotypes and write her more in depth because she’s much more than a reactionary emotion.

Amber is smart and she's dealing with a lot. Ok work from there, Amber is at a great point in life as a young black woman where “ok everything ive done has cultivated to this much. Playtime is over time to get serious. Wait did even get to play during play time? Focus! They all look like they know something you don’t so you need to know more. You need to know everything! Before it happens! So it doesn’t happen again! Did I eat today?”

I want to see Amber burying herself in her studies and taking the opportunities allowed to her in that big ass white school.

I want to see her parallel Mark (whose she's still with in my au i do not care) where he’s getting beaten down by an enemy and Amber is getting covered in assignments and they both get back up because that's real hot girl shit

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Venice Duel and Jewels

The angry, sozzled security guard reached for his gun.

Oh my god! Is he going to shoot the middle aged guy in his trendy slashed jeans - for a crime of fashion, maybe? They had been arguing in Italian. Slashed jeans guy had started it.

It is nearly midnight and we’re on the ferry from San Marco dock in Venice, heading back to Camping Miramare on the Lido. We stepped onto a very quiet ferry and took two empty seats of a set of six.

But they weren’t completely empty. On one of the hard olive green seats sat a black rucksack with a big white NIKE logo across the front. Being well trained TfL travellers, we were immediately concerned. ‘See it. Say it. Sort it’ ran through our minds and Paul went over to the uniformed security guy, who was talking with the ferry crew, to alert him to the bag.

Security guy followed Paul back to our seat, saw the bag and said, It’s mine, in Italian, before sitting down heavily beside it.

We began gesture talking as he asked us where we were from, in English as splintered as our Italian. We shared life story outlines. Showing each other photos of our adult kids - he has a 23 year old lad and is divorced from his wife. He talked in a low, growly slur. He was admiring, if made a little sad by our 35 years together.

Wearying of the effort to make himself understood he put his earphones in and sat back. By now, the ferry had docked at its first stop and was practically full of weary tourists and locals heading home.

Slashed jeans guy was tall and lean. He had swept back ashy blonde hair and a patrician face. He leant back in his seat, his denim clad thighs peeking through the slashes. He was with a tall young man with a wealth of dark curly hair, sitting opposite. Father and son, I thought.

Without moving, slashed jeans guy said something to security guy. Security guy was immediately annoyed, pulling his headphones from his ears. Split jeans guy stayed cool throughout. Confident, arrogant in his middleclassness. The argument went on. Slashed jeans guy was now on his mobile phone as if trying to report what was happening, his manner still languid.

Security guy leapt up, reached down to the gun that was strapped to his leg. Us eavesdropping passengers held our collective breath.

Instead of drawing it, he unstrapped it and threw it into his rucksack. We breathed out. He was now shouting at slashed jeans guy who ignored him as he continued to hold the phone to his ear. His son had a bemused but not overly concerned look in his face as he kept his eyes firmly on his father. Perhaps thinking, Dad’s at it again, but also, needing not to be drawn in by a careless glance in the wrong place.

We took all this in like a police procedural being watched from our sofa, strangely unperturbed by this aggressive and potentially violent if not lethal exchange. The rest of the passengers did the same - some late night entertainment.

We’d just had a wonderful last night of four in Venice. We had visited the Jewish Museum that day and had taken the guided tour around the tight confines of the Ghetto - a square of tall old buildings, some built to eight low-ceilinged floors to house the up to four thousand Jews kept within its confines in the centuries prior to their emancipation in the 1797.

Our guide pointed out three of the unusually tall buildings that had five windows on the third floor rather than the usual four. These were concealed synagogues for the practice and study of their religion, hidden from hostile eyes. This was before the building of two splendid synagogues, jewels of the city, one Levantine and the other Spanish, right there in that tight square, as some in the community became more prosperous despite the restrictions. Incredibly ornate with marble and wood carved by master craftsmen, the synagogues were beautiful but also spoke of rivalry within the Ghetto, as each new wave of Jews from Germany or Spain or the Middle East, claimed their right to be there and made their livings, rising or falling in social status according to their means or wherewithal to succeed.

The early inhabitants would be locked into the area by 6pm every night, and allowed out at noon the next day, the men to ply one of the three trades they were allowed to follow: money lending (forbidden to Christians); trading second hand goods; and being doctors. What, no teachers, I asked? The synagogue is a school, our guide explained.

The most moving story was of the nursing home for sick elderly within the community who could not be moved when the WWII pograms arrived and others fled, or lived secret lives dispersed about the city.

Nazi’s came into the Ghetto and dragged elderly, sick women and men from their beds and transported them to a concentration camp where they soon died or were assassinated. Really, what threat did these old people pose that they could not be left to peacefully pass out of life?

Outside the old nursing home building, there are small bronze plaques worked into the cobbles of the square, each one a testament that these people lived and were cruelly taken before their time.

Later that evening we had had a joyful reunion with close friends from London who we coincidentally were overlapping with for an evening on our mutual holidays. How privileged we are to be able to move about so freely and enjoy our lives - something denied to so many, past and present, through no fault of their own.

Security guy had sat back down and phones were our combatants weapons of choice. Slashed jeans guys was still on his phone but not getting through, throwing comments across to security guy in his measured tones. Security guy was audibly more angry in his retorts as he stabbed out the numbers on the mobile. He got through and began to complain loudly about what was occurring. His right hand orchestrating his frustration.

The ferry, meanwhile, chugged and bumped into Punto Sabbioni, our temporary home port. Most people got up to leave, including the duelling pair, phones still to ears as if to put them away would signal surrender.

We shuffled off the ferry and the crowd quickly dispersed. We saw no more of security guy or the other.

Once the argument had begun, they had eyes for no one but each other, like new lovers having a first fight.

What had it all been about? We speculated as we walked the ten minutes back to camp. Slashed jeans guy had taken umbrage that security guy had been drinking either on or off duty but in uniform and armed, and had told him to remove his piece.

Security guy had been outraged to have been addressed and directed in this manner and the argument erupted, but yet he complied, knowing he was in the wrong.

If that was the case, then slashed jeans guy had a valid reason for his challenge, but his peremptory manner spoke more of class patrimony than community spirit and we were left feeling a little sorry for security guy and his lonely state, a ‘ghetto’ of his own making.

Madeleine

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Globe, December 28

You can buy a copy of this issue for your very own at my eBay store: https://www.ebay.com/str/bradentonbooks

Cover: Farewell to 93 legends we loved and lost in 2020 

Page 2: Up Front & Personal -- Steve Martin holds a green pepper on the NYC set of Only Murders in the Building, Derek Hough is light on his feet at the MTV Movie & TV Awards 

Page 3: Julia Roberts looks scary skinny during a solo stroll in Hawaii, Chris Pratt hoists a hoverboard during an L.A. workout 

Page 4: Troubled twosome Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi are hoping to put their year from hell behind them by renewing their vows over the holidays in a desperate big to keep their love alive -- Ellen wants to prove her long-suffering wife comes first ahead of Ellen’s daytime talk show and her many celebrity friends and is going all out to show it -- penny-pincher Ellen opened her wallet as wide as her heart telling Portia she could spend whatever she wants on clothes, food, drinks, music and invite whoever she wants at the New Year’s vow ceremony on a Santa Barbara beach

Page 5: Obsessive Blake Shelton is so stressed over his upcoming wedding to Gwen Stefani he’s turning into the Groomzilla from hell -- he is sparing no expense and shelling out millions to redo his Oklahoma ranch to impress the couple’s Tinseltown friends but the mountain of stuff still to be done is driving him around the bend even though no one’s putting pressure on him but he’s obsessed with the wedding details and driving his staff crazy with his constant orders and revisions -- he’s building a chapel on the ranch and a lighted boat for a romantic wedding cruise on the lake and picking the style of the canopy for the banquet floor and re-landscaping the grounds and adding a color-themed garden

* Kenya Moore of Real Housewives of Atlanta reveals she went on a date with Kanye West but bolted when she caught him watching inappropriate flicks -- she described the outing with Kanye as a disaster date and they ended up going to his house where he left her alone, wandering around and when she followed the noises he was watching something on TV that he probably shouldn’t have been and that was her exit 

Page 6: Matthew Perry was such a slave to his addiction his former galpal Kayti Edwards says he’d send her to score drugs while she was pregnant and Matthew insisted she was the perfect drug mule because he believed cops wouldn’t stop a gal in her condition Kayti claims in a shocking tell-all about her 2011 romance with Matthew -- she says his ravenous cravings for cocaine and heroin were so out of control that he once superglued his hands to his legs and he took up to 80 Vicodin pills daily -- Kayti claims she was trying to protect Matthew because she feared he’d end up wandering around the streets and being nabbed by cops or snapped by photogs but she was also getting paid big bucks like $3000 to $4000 a day 

Page 7: Duchess Camilla’s taste for an early morning tipple has rubbed off on husband Prince Charles who is now so hooked on the sauce he starts the day guzzling a powerful gin martini with breakfast and now Charles’ alarmed staffers and pals are talking about an intervention to remind him not to go down the path that put his second wife in rehab -- Charles’ booze consumption has been off the charts for years but drinking first thing in the morning with his breakfast is a new low -- Charles laughs off suggestions he has a booze issue but one look at his bloodshot face tells the story 

* Now that a COVID-19 vaccine’s been approved in Britain Queen Elizabeth says she’s going to get the shot but wait her turn instead of pulling royal rank but she and husband Prince Philip won’t wait long because at their ages they’re in the second group to get the vaccine which is health care workers and people over 80 

Page 8: Helena Bonham Carter has a world-shakin’ suggestion for gals frustrated by the COVID-19 lockdown: get a vibrator -- she says women shouldn’t worry about snaring a beau during the pandemic but that’s easy for her to say because she’s currently cuddling with toyboy writer Rye Dag Holmboe 

* George Clooney confesses wife Amal Clooney had him shaking in his boots when he popped the question and she didn’t answer -- he asked her out of the blue but instead of squealing yes immediately the brainy lawyer just stood there -- George says he was on his knee for like 20 minutes and finally said he was going to throw his hip out -- Amal finally agreed and the couple have three-year-old twins 

* The nip/tuck freak daughter of Olivia Newton-John is being blasted as a hypocrite for coming out against the new COVID-19 vaccines -- Chloe Lattanzi claims she doesn’t trust doctors or the vaccine but critics note she had no problem shelling out an estimated $550,000 to plastic surgeons for nose jobs, super-sized boobs and ballooned lips 

Page 9: Since his life-threatening health scare game show icon Pat Sajak’s been testy and snapping at contestants and crew members leaving insiders fearing he’s heading for a breakdown -- the once-cheery Wheel of Fortune host is a different man since recovering from emergency surgery for a blocked intestine and is having difficulty coping with the workload -- he just can’t keep up with the pace and he’s pushed to the very limit and can’t seem to function doing this job and it’s all spilling over and manifesting into these ugly outbursts which are shocking viewers -- he even glares at long-time help-mate Vanna White when he gets frustrated or forgetful and she is really too nice to complain about it but she’s definitely been taken aback by his behavior 

Page 10: Proof UFOs are real -- new photos taken by Navy jets reveal we are not alone 

Page 12: Celebrity Buzz -- WWE legend Ric Flair (picture), Real Housewives of Orange County’s Braunwyn Windham-Burke maintains she’s not attracted to men despite renewing her wedding vows with her husband of over two decades -- she says she is gay but she loves husband Sean Burke and they plan on staying married although they don’t sleep in the same bedroom and they are raising their kids together but he knows the girl she’s dating and he’s been given the thumbs-up to date too, Liam Payne believes he’s being haunted by spooks -- convinced spooky spirits were inhabiting his West London digs Liam moved but spooks popped up at the new pad and he thinks the new house is even more haunted than the old one, George Clooney handpicked an even better looking doppelganger to play his younger self in his new flick The Midnight Sky who is screen legend Gregory Peck’s grandson Ethan Peck -- George said it was tricky because people know what he looked like when he was 35 years old but he rejected the high-tech gizmos used to weirdly reverse Robert De Niro’s age in The Irishman but he did mix his voice with Ethan’s since his voice is pretty recognizable, Matthew McConaughey’s kids Levi and Vida used their phones to photograph him for his latest magazine covers because of quarantine they couldn’t do normal photoshoots so the kids became the photographers 

Page 13: Tom Arnold dines out in Rome (picture), Aubrey O’Day (picture), Brooke Burke in Mexico (picture), pregnant Meghan Trainor was diagnosed with gestational diabetes and she’s healthy and her baby boy is healthy but she has to really pay attention to everything she eats 

Page 14: Luke Evans denies hiding in the closet to advance his Hollywood career saying it was the last thing he had because everything else he’d given to the world and adding that he left home at 16 because he was gay and went into the world as a kid because he had to, Mindy Kaling managed to keep two pregnancies under cover and kept the kids’ middle names under wraps until now -- a fan wondered why Mindy who is of a Indian heritage gave her kids Caucasian names but their names are Katherine Swati and Spencer Avu 

* Fashion Verdict -- Blanca Suarez 3/10, Olivia Palermo 1/10, Nicky Hilton 9/10, Bella Heathcote 2/10, Catt Sadler 8/10 

Page 16: True Crime 

Page 17: Martha Stewart confesses her painful divorce in 1990 was a terrible thing and she hasn’t talked to ex-husband Andrew Stewart since but she bounced back from the pain and her infamous prison stint because she’s very strong and motivated to get on with life -- still Martha admits being dumped by her husband for another woman after 29 years of marriage nearly did her in -- Martha also reveals serving five months in West Virginia in 2004 on a federal insider stock trading rap was a struggle but she got through it by working on her arts and crafts 

Page 19: 10 Things You Don’t Know About Don Lemon 

* Dolly Parton pulled no punches when discussing her longtime romance with Carl Dean dishing she and her husband have been together for 57 years and married for 54 and she’s sick of him and she’s sure he’s sick of her -- the couple have rarely been seen in public together and she says their marriage succeeds because she stays gone and they’re not in each other’s faces all the time 

* Miley Cyrus says she’s mastered the art of staying safe during lockdown love and it’s by having online sex -- she said the safest sex in these COVID-crazy times is the virtual kind and that’s where Miley has been hooking up

Page 21: Cover Story -- Thanks for the Memories -- tribute to the stars we loved and lost in 2020 

Page 22: Alex Trebek 

Page 23: Kobe Bryant and daughter Gianna, Kelly Preston 

Page 24: Kirk Douglas, Sean Connery 

Page 25: Olivia de Havilland, Chadwick Boseman 

Page 26: Robert Conrad, Naya Rivera 

Page 27: Regis Philbin 

Page 28: Kenny Rogers, Roy Horn 

Page 29: Eddie Van Halen, Little Richard 

Page 36: Health Report -- eating bread can toast your brain 

Page 38: Ghostbusters icon Dan Aykroyd has turned into a ghoulish recluse who rarely leaves his $25 million Martha’s Vineyard estate where he’s now eerily planning his own funeral -- the bizarre 68-year-old appears perfectly healthy yet he spooks around in his bed clothes muttering about who he wants to officiate at his memorial service and the goodies the chef should serve at the wake -- the curious thing is he appears to be in no danger of dropping dead anytime soon and he’s sturdy as a horse which is surprising given the cigars and the vodka and the big meals he enjoys -- Dan’s wife of 37 years Donna Dixon has gotten used to her husband’s ghoulish monologues

* Bob Dylan sold his extensive back catalog of more than 600 songs including Blowin’ in the Wind and Knockin’ on Heaven’s Door to Universal Music in a blockbuster deal topping $300 million 

Page 40: Patrick Stewart confesses he’s been furious all his life and he’s still seeing a shrink to control his rage -- he reveals he’s burned with rage inside since childhood when he witnessed his dad’s violence against his mom and he had to suppress all that anger -- at age 14 he feared he’d explode and kill his headmaster when he caned him and later he worried he’d hurt his two children with first wife Sheila Falconer in a fit of fury and now at age 80 it’s still there so he sees a therapist every week 

Page 44: Straight Talk -- The Weeknd has his nose out of joint because he wasn’t nominated for any Grammys this year and he claims he’s being snubbed because he’ll be starring on the February 7 Super Bowl halftime show a week after the Grammys 

Page 45: Jeffrey Epstein’s accused madam Ghislaine Maxwell is a paranoid mess losing her hair and wasting away in federal prison where she’s terrified shadowy forces have marked her for death -- the shrinking British socialite who denies recruiting and grooming underage girls for Epstein’s twisted lust is charged with sex trafficking minors as she rots in Brooklyn’s Metropolitan Detention Center awaiting trial next year 

Page 47: Bizarre But True 

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All 50 for Faye

Yesssss, thank you!!!!

Personal

1)      Age? Faye is 21 years old!

2)      Gender? Female

3)      Romantic/Sexual Orientation? Straight

4)      Height? 5′6

5)      Race? Caucasian

6)      What do they look like? (i.e, hair color, eye color, etc). She has blonde hair and gold/brown eyes. She’s skinny and has a former dancers body

7)      Any disabilities? Nope

8)      Is there a meaning to their name? It means fairy, and her mom loved fairies so that’s how she got her name

9)      What makes them, them?  Oh goodness. Her strength comes from watching her parents as a child struggle through work issues, family issues, etc. It also comes from surviving the car crash that killed her parents. Her resolve comes from people telling her she couldn’t be a mother because she was too young, and she raised a healthy child anyway. She loves dance and has pursued it her entire life. She’s incredibly loving because she knows life is too short. She’s adventurous because she’s a survivor and not afraid to try new things, even if they’re a bit scary. But she tends to run away from issues a lot. Instead of facing her problems, she runs and pretends they don’t exist until it comes to a head.

10)   What do they want to be when they grow up/what do they want to do with their lives? She just wants to be a good mother to Sophia. She does eventually want to be either a professional dancer or a chef, and is exploring both those options

Family

11)   Do they have parents? What are they like and how do they act with their child(ren)? She did, but they passed away when she was 8 years old. Before they passed, however, they were very loving and supportive and made sure their children were happy and taken care of. They were excellent parents and Faye misses them every day.

12)   Do they have siblings? How do they interact with them? If not, do they wish they had siblings? She has two sisters- Madlaina and Jaymie. She used to speak to Jaymie on a daily basis, but they have cut contact recently because Jaymie does not agree with Faye’s decisions recently. She wasn’t as close to Madlaina, but the two did get along and talked often once Faye was older. As children, Faye was super close with Jaymie but fought often with Madlaina, who was much older and liked to pick on her.

13)   Extended family? Do they see them often? Not really, they lost contact with their extended family after their parents died. She still gets Christmas and Birthday cards and stuff, but that’s about it. She sees her grandfather occasionally, but he’s traveling the world at the moment since his wife died. 

14)   Do they like where they live? (Is it a safe place?) Currently, she hates where she lives.

15)   Where do they live? Are they wealthy? Poor? Middle-Class? Eh...lower middle.

16)   Do they have a lot of expectations/pressure on them from family to do great? Right now, yeah. Everyone wants her to leave.

17)   Do they have pets? Not currently.

18)   Who do they look up to the most/are the closest to in their family? Her sister, Jaymie. She’s always looked up to her.

19)   This there anything special about their family? Every family is special! Lol but nothing that stands out

20)   Do they wish they lived in a different family/household? Yes, currently.

Friends

21)   Best Friend(s)? Braylie (made by @nonsimsical) Is pretty much her only friend at this point. She’s working a lot and has Sophia to look after, but Braylie is Sophia’s Godmother so she sees her a lot.

22)   Who was their first friend? Freeman, also by Dani lol

23)   What is their friend group like? Incredibly small

24)   Do they have a love/hate relationship with any of them? Nope. She loves them all.

25)   Do they consider any of their friends to be like siblings? Braylie and Oona, yes

26)   Have they ever hurt a friend or lost one? Unintentionally, yes.

27)   Do they have a crush on any of their friends? Lol

28)   Do they share classes with good friends? She is no longer in classes

29)   Whom do they go to the most when they need a shoulder to cry on? Braylie for sure right now. Used to be Freeman.

30)   What would this person do without their friends in their lives? Crash and burn.

School

31)   What grade are they in? If they aren’t in school, how come? She’s 21 years old that’s why lol

32)   Do/Did they like their teachers? Was there a good one? Bad one? Generally she liked her teachers and they liked her. She was a good student. Only one teacher didn’t really like her, Faye never really knew why, but she didn’t make her life miserable.

33)   Do/Did they listen to their teachers or are/where they goofing off a lot? She was always quiet and listened.

34)   Are/Where they a good student grade wise? Yep.

35)   Do/Did they need extra help? No

36)   What is/was their school like? Average school system. 

37)   Do/Did they have bullies in school? When she was pregnant, yes. People turned on her almost immediately.

38)   Have they ever gotten into a fight at school? Nope

39)   Have they ever done something stupid/embarrassing at school? All the time lol she’s a clutz when she isn’t dancing or cheerleading

40)   How far do they plan to go with school? If they dropped out, do they want to go back? She wants to go to culinary school soon.

Other

41)   Are they dating anyone? Do they want to date? Are the married? Divorced? She is currently living with Eli Gardner, who is Sophia’s biological father.

42)   What is their favorite hobby? Do they keep it a secret? Dancing. She does not keep it a secret

43)   If they could have one thing in life, what would it be? Happiness.

44)   Do they work? If so, what is it? If not, are they looking for one or even want one? She is a floor manager at Kohl’s and has been working there for quite a while. She knows every department and is pretty essential to her store. She is on the road to being promoted to assistant manager.

45)   Do they use social media? Twitter, rarely

46)   Have they ever been in the hospital? Yep. In a coma after the car accident, when she broke her arm as a kid, and when she had her daughter.

47)   Do they believe in the supernatural, that there is more than the eye can see? Absolutely.

48)   What do they do when they get angry, stressed, or upset? Cry, throw things, leave and cool off herself either on a walk, drive, or in the dance studio.

49)   Would they consider themselves as a good person, bad person, or morally grey? She used to consider herself a good person, but she feels awful about the choices she’s made recently and generally views herself as a bad person, parent, etc.

50)   Does this OC have any part of you in them? (I.e, personality traits, similar background, etc) Yep. Her love of holidays, her ability to get exited easily, the love for her friends and family, and the way she cries SUPER easily are all parts of me.

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What Language Really does South Korea Speak?

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Do Korean language Women Have got Family Ties?

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Friends of a Certain Age

By Alex Williams, NY Times, July 13, 2012

It was like one of those magical blind-date scenes out of a Hollywood rom-com, without the “rom.” I met Brian, a New York screenwriter, a few years ago through work, which led to dinner with our wives and friend chemistry that was instant and obvious.

We liked the same songs off Dylan’s “Blonde on Blonde,” the same lines from “Chinatown.” By the time the green curry shrimp had arrived, we were finishing each other’s sentences. Our wives were forced to cut in: “Hey, guys, want to come up for air?”

As Brian and his wife wandered off toward the No. 2 train afterward, it crossed my mind that he was the kind of guy who might have ended up a groomsman at my wedding if we had met in college.

That was four years ago. We’ve seen each other four times since. We are “friends,” but not quite friends. We keep trying to get over the hump, but life gets in the way.

Our story is not unusual. In your 30s and 40s, plenty of new people enter your life, through work, children’s play dates and, of course, Facebook. But actual close friends--the kind you make in college, the kind you call in a crisis--those are in shorter supply.

As people approach midlife, the days of youthful exploration, when life felt like one big blind date, are fading. Schedules compress, priorities change and people often become pickier in what they want in their friends.

No matter how many friends you make, a sense of fatalism can creep in: the period for making B.F.F.’s, the way you did in your teens or early 20s, is pretty much over. It’s time to resign yourself to situational friends: K.O.F.’s (kind of friends)--for now.

But often, people realize how much they have neglected to restock their pool of friends only when they encounter a big life event, like a move, say, or a divorce.

That thought struck Lisa Degliantoni, an educational fund-raising executive in Chicago, a few months ago when she was planning her 39th birthday party. After a move from New York to Evanston, Ill., she realized that she had 857 Facebook friends and 509 Twitter followers, but still did not know if she could fill her party’s invitation list. “I did an inventory of the phases of my life where I’ve managed to make the most friends, and it was definitely high school and my first job,” she said.

After a divorce in his 40s, Robert Glover, a psychotherapist in Bellevue, Wash., realized that his roster of friends had quietly atrophied for years as he focused on career and family. “All of a sudden, with your wife out of the picture, you realize you’re lonely,” said Dr. Glover, now 56. “I’d go to salsa lessons. Instead of trying to pick up the women, I’d introduce myself to the men: ‘Hey, let’s go get a drink.’ “

In studies of peer groups, Laura L. Carstensen, a psychology professor who is the director of the Stanford Center on Longevity in California, observed that people tended to interact with fewer people as they moved toward midlife, but that they grew closer to the friends they already had.

Basically, she suggests, this is because people have an internal alarm clock that goes off at big life events, like turning 30. It reminds them that time horizons are shrinking, so it is a point to pull back on exploration and concentrate on the here and now. “You tend to focus on what is most emotionally important to you,” she said, “so you’re not interested in going to that cocktail party, you’re interested in spending time with your kids.”

As external conditions change, it becomes tougher to meet the three conditions that sociologists since the 1950s have considered crucial to making close friends: proximity; repeated, unplanned interactions; and a setting that encourages people to let their guard down and confide in each other, said Rebecca G. Adams, a professor of sociology and gerontology at the University of North Carolina at Greensboro. This is why so many people meet their lifelong friends in college, she added.

In the professional world, “proximity” is hard to maintain, as work colleagues are reassigned or move on to new jobs. Last year, Erica Rivinoja, a writer on the NBC series “Up All Night,” became close with a woman, Jen, when they worked together on a pilot. Almost instantly, they knew each other’s exercise schedules and food preferences. Jen could sense when Ms. Rivinoja needed a jolt of caffeine, and without asking would be there with an iced tea.

“But as soon as the pilot was over, it was hard to be as close without that constant day-to-day interaction,” said Ms. Rivinoja, 35. They can occasionally carve out time for a quick gin and tonic, she said, but “there aren’t those long afternoons which bleed into evenings hanging out at the beach and then heading to a bar.”

The workplace can crackle with competition, so people learn to hide vulnerabilities and quirks from colleagues, Dr. Adams said. Work friendships often take on a transactional feel; it is difficult to say where networking ends and real friendship begins.

Differences in professional status and income also complicate matters. “It really does get weird when your friends are making tons more than you, or tons less,” said Adriane Duckworth, a former marketing executive now working as an artist in Hamilton, Ontario.

Once people start coupling up, the challenges only increase. Making friends with other couples ��is like matchmaking for two,” said Kara Baskin, a journalist who works in Boston. “Not only are you worrying about whether the other woman likes you, you’re also worrying if her husband likes you, if your husband likes her, if your husband likes him.”

Not long ago, she invited her husband’s new work buddy over for dinner with his wife. But the wife was visibly unimpressed by Ms. Baskin’s half-furnished home (they had just moved in) and thrown-together spaghetti dinner. “It was basically clear that his wife had been cajoled into attending,” said Ms. Baskin, 33. “She settled on to our rickety Ikea kitchen chairs like she was lowering herself into a coal mine.”

The couple departed quickly after dessert. The next day at work, the husband made an excuse about his wife being tired. “But it was unspoken that we wouldn’t be seeking their company again,” Ms. Baskin said.

ADDING children to the mix muddles things further. Suddenly, you are surrounded by a new circle of parent friends--but the emotional ties can be tenuous at best, as the comedian Louis C. K. related in one stand-up routine: “I spend whole days with people, I’m like, I never would have hung out with you, I didn’t choose you. Our children chose each other. Based on no criteria, by the way. They’re the same size.”

Even when parent friends develop a bond, the resulting friendships can be fleeting--and subject to the whims of the children themselves.

Caryl Lyons, an event planner in Danville, Calif., and her husband found a budding friendship with a parent-friend couple hit a roadblock when their young sons, who had been close friends, drifted apart. When the families planned a barbecue together, her son would say, “Can I have my other friends over?” said Ms. Lyons, 44.

External factors are not the only hurdle. After 30, people often experience internal shifts in how they approach friendship. Self-discovery gives way to self-knowledge, so you become pickier about whom you surround yourself with, said Marla Paul, the author of the 2004 book “The Friendship Crisis: Finding, Making, and Keeping Friends When You’re Not a Kid Anymore.” “The bar is higher than when we were younger and were willing to meet almost anyone for a margarita,” she said.

Manipulators, drama queens, egomaniacs: a lot of them just no longer make the cut.

Thayer Prime, a 32-year-old strategy consultant who lives in London, has even developed a playful 100-point scale (100 being “best friend forever”). In her mind, she starts to dock new friend candidates as they begin to display annoying or disloyal behavior. Nine times out of 10, she said, her new friends end up from 30 to 60, or little more than an acquaintance.

“You meet someone really nice, but if they don’t return a call, drop to 90, if they don’t return two calls, that’s an immediate 50,” she said. “If they’re late to something in the first month, that’s another 10 off.” (But people can move up the scale with nice behavior, too, she added.)

Having been hardened by experience, many people develop a more fatalistic view of friendship.

“When you’re younger, you define what it really means to be friends in a more serious way,” said my screenwriter friend, Brian. (His full name is Brian Koppelman, and he wrote and is a co-director of “Solitary Man,” a 2010 film starring Michael Douglas about a middle-aged man trying to reconnect with friends and family.)

“My ideas of friendship were built by ‘The Godfather’ and ‘Diner,’ “ he said. “Your friends were your brothers, and anything but total loyalty at all costs meant excommunication. As you get older, that model becomes unrealistic.”

By that point, you have been through your share of wearying or failed relationships. You have come to grips with the responsibilities of juggling work, family and existing friends, so you become more wary about making yourself emotionally available to new people. “You’re more keenly aware of the downside,” said Mr. Koppelman, 46. “You’re also more keenly aware of your own capacity to disappoint.”

“I haven’t really changed my standards for what it means to actually be friends,” he concluded. “It’s just that I use the word ‘friends’ more loosely. Making the real kind, the brother kind, is much harder now.”

Some, like Ms. Degliantoni, the fund-raising executive, simply downsize their expectations. “I take an extremely efficient approach and seek out like-minded folks to fill very specific needs,” she said of her current strategy. “I have a cocktail friend and a book friend and a parenting friend and several basketball friends and a neighbor friend and a workout friend.”

“It’s much easier filling in those gaps in my life,” she added, “than doing an exhaustive approach for a new friend.”

Or, they hit rock bottom and turn back the clock to their breathlessly social 20s.

After a move to New York in his 30s, Dave Cervini, a radio station executive, was so lonely that he would walk his cat in Central Park, hoping to stoke conversations. Finding only curious stares, he decided to start the New York Social Network, an activities group for people to find friends by hanging out at Yankees games or wine-tasting mixers. The company now counts 2,000 members, most in their 30s. He considers 200 of them close friends.

“It takes courage for people to take the first step,” he said. “Hopefully, I make it easier, having been there myself.”

In that spirit, I recently called Brian. We joked about our inability to find time to hang out, and made a dinner date at the next available opening.

It is three months from now.