#instead of idk. doing something meaningful. it'd literally be a better use of your time to TP some republican whos trying to take away your
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sometimes y gotta sit someone down. look them in the eye and go “does attacking me really solve your shitty life problems?”
#whatever amount you blame me for your problems i promise its an over estimation lmao.#im literally just here. chillin. on my own. not doing jack shit.#how in tf is attacking me gonna help you at all besides satisfy some primal lust for power and assertion of hierarchies?#cool bro you made me feel lesser than... did it get rid of the capitalism? did it make your mom love you? did you win?#so happy for you#im glad you feel satisfied in making this. fake temporary hierarchy out of our interactions. did it fix the bigger hierarchy you live under#? did it change things for the better? are you more free now?#and when you're done being a bully to someone whos largely on your side- you're just gonna go back to being hateful and full of rage#and keep misdirecting it at people in arms length rather than the people on top? maybe... because theyre easier to reach?#anyways enjoy being a sour bitter sad sap who demonizes people who are on your same level in almost every way in a paranoid way#instead of idk. doing something meaningful. it'd literally be a better use of your time to TP some republican whos trying to take away your#right's house.
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Immediate Burnout Tips
We are reaching midterm season and while it'd be amazing to just "take some time off to rest", sometimes we're not in a position to do that so here's what's worked for me so far to pilot the mental plane to safety while it's crashing and burning:
1. Don't Think About It
The second you think about the stuff you have to do your brain gets the opportunity to go "but like. i don't wanna". If it's not an immediate concern do your best to think about literally anything else.
2. Just Start It
This is a popular one but even if it's just (in the context of school) opening the document and putting your name on it and getting a singular line under each heading, it'll be easier to either keep going, or start next time if that drains you (which it did for me at one point). The only thing you have to concern yourself with is starting, not finishing.
One line per day is better than planning to write it all in one day and hating yourself for not having enough gas in the tank to do it.
3. Break Things Down
This seems like such an obvious one, but overachiever pride didn't let me even acknowledge this until way later. Do you have a test in two weeks? Instead of reviewing all of your notes every single day, review like. one section per day. Paper due in a month? Write three sentences per day. Start with the easiest section. To all my overachievers, there is no award for always doing things the hard way.
4. Structure Yourself
In uni especially, there's very little structure, and I find that taking my to-do list apart and cherry-picking just a few of them gives me clear instructions on what to expect.
5. Punch Overachiever's Pride Right In The Face
Idk if it's like this for other people, but one thing that always plagued me was the thought that I "should be better than this". I wasn't. And I didn't lose any Smart Points for that. The only badge I got from that mentality was a red ribbon that says "congratulations, you are resentful, anxious, and depressed, and you smiled through it so no one knew anything was wrong"
6. There's Nothing Wrong With Starting On The Easy Stuff
There's nothing wrong with starting on the easy stuff. There's nothing wrong with starting on the easy stuff. T H E R E ' S N O T H I N G W R O N G W I T H S T A R T I N G O N T H E E A S Y S T U F F.
7. A glass of water, try a hobby that doesn't use a screen, get a singular fruit into your system, and/or do aNYTHING physical that gets your heart rate up by one bpm.
(big thanks to @nomeimporta32 for getting me through my own bouts of burnout)
8. Take Meaningful Breaks
Leave the room, change positions, something to tell your brain that you're shifting gears and not to think about schoolwork. Just switching tabs on your computer and not moving only makes your breaks feel like they're part of the to-do list.
9. Give Yourself A Stopping Point
Even people working a full-time job leave at some point. Studentship is a full-time job. "I am going to do x-thing-that-makes-me-happy for one hour before going to bed and no one is going to stop me".
10. Be Patient.
Your emotions aren't logical, but they hold power over what you can do. Feeling burned out doesn't make you any less hardworking.
#mental health#mental health tag#school#university#academic burnout#burnout#burnout tips#university burnout#midterm season#exam season#exams#student life#student#something important for me to add is that yeah it's going to suck for a little while#sometimes you hate it and thrash around in a blind rage while you do it#but once you're done you dID IT.
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