#incelish

[junipercastor]

sexyy red and sza need to make rich baby daddy pt2 without the rich baby daddy drake cuz he ruined the song idgaf what the hell was that long ass monologue at the end like.. drake is like that one old man whose like washed up and reminiscing and pleading with his former lover to Please Please Notice Him except he's not even that old and his lover probably has him blocked on all social medias. and he's been doing this most of his career. his entire career is basically him just crying into his drink over women

[mrsamsasshowerthoughts]

My type in men is gay and sightly transphobic Lana del Rey fans, while my type in women is Pearl from Steven Universe.

Oh Freud you would have loved me.

[twinvictim]

I need everyone to shut up about Nishiki forever actually

[rouecentric]

i just read an incel-ish yandere deuce fic on ao3 im Crying so muc

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[thxrunaways]

That picrew honestly looks so much like you!

Hehehe I tried ! 💕💕💕

[clowntainment]

I wanna hugggggg *crawls into my burrow*

[alphabetcompletionist]

ok 1. joyce did come up with it afaik 2. it's called 'villanelle of the temptress' 3. y'all might not know it so here it is

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Are you not weary of ardent ways,

Lure of the fallen seraphim?

Tell no more of enchanted days.

Your eyes have set man’s heart ablaze

And you have had your will of him.

Are you not weary of ardent ways?

Above the flame the smoke of praise

Goes up from ocean rim to rim.

Tell no more of enchanted days.

Our broken cries and mournful lays

Rise in one eucharistic hymn.

Are you not weary of ardent ways?

While sacrificing hands upraise

The chalice flowing to the brim,

Tell no more of enchanted days.

And still you hold our longing gaze

With languorous look and lavish limb!

Are you not weary of ardent ways?

Tell no more of enchanted days.

ABCDEFGHI KLMNOP RSTUVW YZ

23/26

my favorite poems are ozymandias (mm sexy) and that villanelle from a portrait of the artist as a young man, but i don't quite know if joyce came up with that one or if it's named something else

ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ

26/26

[velvetvexations]

Just read that t4t masc4fem (?) kind of article everyone is speaking of, and sure... Being a trans man in the nonbinary lesbian kind of way myself, I kind of understand gnc or queer transfem ppl feeling repulsed since it just feels like too much gender roles...

I can't deal with cis nor trans men who'd approach me like this, not because I see it as predatory but because it's just not my cup of tea. It's not hurting me to get flowers. Or if a femme person is interested in a way that expects an overtly 'manly' role of me etc., again I am not harmed by them expressing such interest.

Initiation isn't coercion, it's where you can either give or not give consent. That's how people find people to date or flirt with. No shit.

Also... There are trans people into those dynamics described in the article. Trans people who wish they could just go on a kind of a stereotypical straight people date. Even a bit old-fashioned flowers and stuff. I think people forget how magical that can be to trans people who, by default, are not expected to be able to experience it.

I'll respect trans folk who find this type of thing gender-affirming. I've seen t4t straight or masc/fem couples like these, as well as butch/femme lesbian couples like this. This is normal trans and/or queer people stuff.

The way people read into the article as inherently rapey or predatory or incelish seem wild to me. Have they ever read anything written by an actual incel...? Because I'll tell you. Incels describe everything a woman says as manipulation. Incels view every interaction with women as a power game. Incels encourage deception, emotional abuse, manipulation and coercion.

None of the above is implied in the article. It's cheesily written for sure, but says something about society how cishets can have their cheesy romantic straight people things but when trans people do, it's gross and bad...?

Trans people are... * checks notes * attracted to or interested in relationships with literally ANYONE and are inherently seen as predators. That's fucked up. I feel like this could even be internalized shame in some of these transfems esp. if terfs have demonized transfem lesbians a lot so it's like. Seeing a trans guy into fem people be masculine and cheesily romantic feels like a taboo, I guess? Could that be it?

Ughh. Also. The part about "exploring sexuality unconventionally" or whatever, being equated to cis guys' tgirl fetishes... Like. People commenting this stuff do not know anything about trans men's sexualities or complex relationships to our bodies. To me that immediately read as;

"Another trans person will understand that the sexual roles or acts we may prefer may not be stereotypical to what people automatically assume about our anatomies."

Allocishet people have an infamously poor grasp of the idea. Trans people on the other hand... May be a liiiiittle better about taking dysphoria to account and not reducing people to specific sexual roles based on their anatomy.

Also they really have decided to view trans men as these hypersexual predatory monsters who can't even be attracted to someone without being a fucking predator. Idk that hurts to read. I wonder if it's again some internalized stuff from how TERFs predatorjacket and shame transfeminine people's sexualities. So they feel instinctively angry, because of shame, when seeing anoter trans person be a sexual being.

Also I wish more people understood not everything other people are into sexually or romantically is about them, nor has to be their cup of tea.

Yeah, it is like, at worst kinna retrograde humor but even on that level it's...not a big deal, and the outrage is especially galling because this is right in the midst of egg drama where it is vitally important we still be allowed to stereotype trans girls.

I wish I had more to add to what you've said here anon but you really laid it out.

[lemontartyellow]

Benefits of Season 1 Ed: Autism friend with something wrong with him

Down sides to Season 1 Ed: Can rarely ever call him a loser. Also he comes with a side salad of incelish behavior.

[mrsamsasshowerthoughts]

Not me trying to flirt with the cute gay boy by showing him my obscure shitty japanese goth hymns after he made me listen to Lana del Rey only to be replied with a dry ass answer and left to wonder how didn't he find me interesting

[sasukeless]

incelish geto stans that blame yuki for him going cuckoo bananas gotta be the most annoying crowd. my girl thought she was in a safe space sharing thoughts how was she supposed to know he was at the edge

[ladylingua]

So just fyi, you know when you see those incelish reports on how some celebrity or other wealthy person is being forced to pay their ex wife $15,000 of child support every month and we’re all supposed to be shocked and horrified about the unfairness of that and how you don’t need that much for the bare minimum food and clothes for a child and so therefore that’s an unfair amount and the ex must be scamming and isn’t that a shame?

So here’s the fact, straight from my lawyer mom: when courts allocate child support, they actually try to ensure the two households are comparable and that is part of the calculation of how much money the wealthier parent needs to pay. It’s not a mistake, it’s not a scam, it’s a recognition that it’s not good for the child to spend time in two wildly disparate homes. Child support helps ensure the less wealthy parent isn’t alienated from their child solely through having less money to provide them comforts, and also helps ensure they can still live in the child’s current school district.

This is fun fact for you to hold onto, unfortunately you will find this useful to know over and over again because this talking point about “unfair child support” comes up all the time with the most ignorant people driving it

[this-should-do]

i think clint stardew needs to join a club, like i know its hot to bully him for having a unhealthy relationship with women as a concept and being incelish but like, i dont think hes doomed, i just think he needs to talk to people more, becuz genuinely i think hes chronically lonely after having been forced into a career that he never really wanted to be in by his father and naturally being a introverted gjy with social anxiety,

like i get it, the way he talks about women and obsessed over emily is not great ! i agree! but i think that type of behavior is a symptom of loneliness and feeling like a relationshio will make you unlonely which creates obsessive tendencies when you do nothing with your life except you job, even if youve grown to appreciate it,

like clint makes me sad, i wish that the farmer coumd like, help in a different way than simply encouraging him to continue to go after emily and when that doesnt work let him wallow and co sider the worst path foe a guy like him, internet dating, like i want to take that man to a reading club or betrer yet, a blacksmith convention to expand his social horizons and experiences with people (and especially women acclimatize him to women existing not as an kbject of desire) in a place where he knows what hes talking abkut and can feel confident enough to speak because of it

like im no clint defender, but i do think rehabilitation is possible, thanks for clming to my tedtalk

[therealtsk]

Only on tumblr.com can I be accused of homophobia for my stance on kaiju thirstposting

Ultimately it’s not even about the monsterfucking it’s the fact that straight men (SB) got there first and like with most things made it weird

i wish i lived in the parahumans universe so i could fuck all the dallons and get killed by leviathan

[butchdykekondraki]

sorry kanaya is So important to me you dont even understand. i love u clockable transbian vampire girl who is so cringefail bad at sarcasm and who loves her friends and who kills weird vaguely incelish men

[imeverywoman420]

i think part (but not all) of the female predator thing is that they don't think of themselves as capable of a predatory act because we dont ever cast women in the 'creep' role as often. they are less likely to think of their actions as wrong or creepy but rather as loving and misunderstood

HONESTLY completely unrelated to pedophilia but i had a moment myself a year ago where i learned empathy and realized that so many of my behaviors towards men might come across as creepy, threatening, nice guy/incelish. And i never realized it bc “im a Woman any guy would be lucky to have me im a pretty princess” like the thinking hes below you but wanting his approval and attention. I couldnt see that is an incredibly creepy and ill intentioned way of interacting witb people. I was like im just misunderstoooooddddd im so loving. And i wasnt Loving i was fucking CREEPY

i think that whole thing is interesting like women not viewing themselves as human beings like men it takes training to be able to take the gender goggles off and view your behaviors through an objective lens.