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turnedpalefromlackofsun · 5 months ago

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i wrote a fanfic

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butteredfrogs · 8 months ago

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#so i posted earlier saying i wish i could ask people what makes me so dislikable #and i was referring to a situation which happened to me in the past #and how i wish i could say to these people like what about me is so dislikable that you had to react the way you did #(i would like to clarify i was not in the wrong in this situation i have asked multiple people #and they agree i wasnt in the wrong so im not just saying it)#and an anon decides to send me an ask saying #ngl its the desperation for validation but i think youre cool #and it made me so upset because its such a fucking back handed compliment #because like i am aware of the fact im a people pleaser and i want to be liked by people #like i know its a huge flaw and i am trying to do better and not worry about what other people think about me #but its not something that is going to happen overnight #and so to point that out when im already aware of it and then follow it up with a backhanded compliment #is honestly really hurtful and just kinda really upset me #also saying that i'm desperate for validation like is just so #idk it just was so unnecessary for them to say that and phrase it that way #anyway im sure no one is gonna read this and if they do it probably makes no sense or it just sounds like #im being a whiny bitch and probably more anons are gonna come call me attention seeking or #say im looking for validation #but i just wanted to rant about it bc like there's ways to say things nicely to people and that was not one of them #esp when its a flaw im already aware of and would like to work on more #but again its not gonna disappear overnight!#butter’s thoughts

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usertoxicyaoi · 2 years ago

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anyway another thing i love about mpw upon the endless list of things i love about this show is that there is so very clearly a d/s vibe/relationship going on between segasaki and yoh, and its so clearly explicitly in your face there staring at you, and yet its also so subtle at the same time in the way its shown, in the dialogues used, in the way segasaki and yoh act. like it'll come out full force for a moment, and then in the next, it'll just soften away. its just done in a really really sexy tasteful way.

#its #yeah. its done in such a classy way.#faiza talks #my personal weatherman #it helps in how they show segasaki as not this Perfect Done Up Dom. he has flaws. gets nervous! isnt afraid to show that he DOES get hurt!#and yoh is a BRAT. and wont SAY what he wants but USES HIS BODY to show what he wants. he isnt obedient all the time and talks back.#even tho there IS this innocence to him he IS NOT innocent.#the characterisations are just. done SOOOO well man.

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