#im so stressed abd miserable and i just want things to be ok again

[jackednephi]

Hey, Vann, why do you feel like Job sometimes?

Glad you asked, buddy. Our finances have been a hot mess for at least 5 years now. First from the pandemic, then from baby expenses, and the latest issue has been my husband losing his job right after we relocated for it and then falling through a fucking roof! Damn near lost his leg! This is after my grandmother passed, my daughter was kidnapped, and then my father passed all within the span of 8 months

We've been relying on workmans comp to make ends meet but they've been undercutting his rate and it's been a mess trying to fight them for every penny. Thank god for the lawyer at least. Then they sent private investigators to make sure my husband wasn't faking his injury. Like congrats on stalking a man with a cane! And following him as he conducts private and personal affairs!

But now even the undercut comp seems to have stopped completely. This means they're expecting to arbitrate rather than get him in crane school or whatever. Cool because this nightmare is almost over EXCEPT

We have exactly $81 in the bank, the credit card is maxed out from trying to make ends meet, and I don't get paid until Wednesday and then on Friday because I'm still working two jobs to make ends meet. Hell, I'm on day 13 of 19 in a row so I haven't had a single day off in two weeks

So gee! I wonder!