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kuromi-hoemie · 7 days ago

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my friend asked if i would consider us to be in a qpr like sir... i don't know how u feel about me or us in general, and i asked, and am waiting for a response but now i can't think about anything else until i hear back

#he told me I'm dear to him and he loves me for the first time the other night and i keep thinking about that too..#im over here worrying about being annoying or too assertive and im dear to u?? u love me??#mayhaps i am too harsh on myself... it's the trauma... but hello.........?#when a friend and a lover can be one in the same for u‚ where do u even draw the line between a sweet n loving friendship vs a qpr #i think it's just like.. a certain acknowledgement.. a commitment of sorts.. something more intentional #we could totally be in one if u want....... but what Do u want.... what do u think? these questions are consuming me rn #i did ask though ☝🏾😏 im not a girlie who tries to guess or goes crazy in silence when i can just let u tell me yourself 🙏🏾#it would be great... i think it would remove a lot of hesitation or doubts on my part... i gotta ask where the boundaries r at now #love that boundaries are always a conversation u can revisit if it feels right 🥰#but... imma need the answer to those other questions first... i think if it IS a qpr it's like.. the early stages of one..#what it lacks‚ to me‚ for now‚ is that intentionality. but that can easily change if that's what we want

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