#im not okay ladies gents and non binary friends

[sky-is-the-limit]

I'm a Gazhoe, Gazslut, Gazwhore.

Gaz nation ain't enough anymore, I need to be put down permanently. Or be his personal sperm bank idk.

(2nd is art by @ave661)

[everytaylorswiftsongisaboutcats]

Taylor Swift Eras Tour Swift Streams w Me Miami Night 3

Ladies, Gents, and Non-Binary friends, we have arrived:

Live updates as we go; red for highlighting announcements & new, old theories disproven will be crossed out, italics for side thoughts & or shrunken.

I will do my best to get photos as we go; tags may be tstourtips, Twitter/X, Swift Streams, & Instagram screenshots. I will also be playing Mastermind (so thanks Swift alert). Normal sets currently include: NO Archer, Nothing New, Long Live, Tis the Damn Season, No Body No Crime, Tolerate It, Last Great American Dynasty, the 1, Invisible String, Debut set.

MAJOR SHOUTOUT TO @tstourtips on Instagram for photos & updates assistance tonight (go check the page it’s incredible😍🫶)

Heart stamp for closed set: 🩷💛❤️💜🖤🩶🤎🩵🤍💙

Lover:

Bodysuit: Purple

Jacket: Purple

Speech: Normal

Setlist:🩷

Fearless:

Dress: Tiger Stripes

Setlist:💛

Red:

Tee: I bet you think about me

ATW Speech: Normal

Setlist: ❤️

Speak Now:

Dress: Purple Princess Cupcake Ruffle

Setlist: 💜

Reputation:

Suit: Gold

Setlist: Normal

Clowning? — 0 (but she is Mother Nature)

folkmore/everlore:

Dress: Yellow

Betty Speech: Rain Show✨

Champagne Problems Speech: Normal

Setlist: 🩶 🤎

1989:

Top: Blue (points for me)

Skirt: Purple (full Swiftbowl/Mastermind)

Setlist: 🩵

TTPD:

Dress: WAOLOM (who’s afraid of little old me?)

Gloves: White lace

Florida? — YES!!! w Florence ;-)

Two-Piece & Jacket: White & White/Black; Silver? (Idk the name lol)

Setlist: 🤍

Surprise Songs:

Dress: NEW!!! (pink orange yellow tie-dye; I’m thinking a name like that)

— OKAY IM SAYING: MARIPOSA dress (Barbie Tie-Dye Butterfly Mariposa… some sorta combo… sunset lol?) OOO GOT IT SUNRISE BLV or Blood Moon remix … lol they really said take the dresses and blend it beauty

Guitar: Out of The Woods x All You Had To Do Was Stay (with a new tune vibe… cool mix)

Piano: mirrorball x Guilty As Sin

Midnights:

Tee Dress: Dark purple (yes I write colors in the color they are my brain likes it😂)

Bodysuit: Moonstone

— a photo cause it’s gorgeous😅😂 Mommy?

Karma Jacket: Multicolor

“Karma is the guy on the chiefs”

Setlist: 💙

Overall a very golden glowing night😊 See you next show!

[cryingovernarry]

i realized i never actually never share anything about me on this website, like, i never really write about stuff thats happened/is happening in my life or about stuff i like and whatever. and like. im the type who’s great at oversharing (shitposting) lmao but apparently never on tumblr i guess?? its not important but yeah i just realized it. ive had this account since april 2012 i think? never made any friends on here tbh i just exist in the background quietly liking or reblogging stuff, and never do anymore than that. and no one will actually care or read this so MIGHT AS WELL am i right ladies and gents and non-binary friends. so heres some good and shitty stuff thats happened in my life

2017 was a good concert year for me i think (please bear with me ive got bad memory) (thx depression) i finally saw ed sheeran (one of the best concerts ive been to even if the people next to us kept talking throughout the whole concert) then i saw shawn mendes (hes baby) i went and saw little mix all by myself (snatched that barricade too!!) it was incredible and i miss them. i was lucky enough to see niall and harry too on their tours and ill never get over that. oh, and niall retweeted one of my tweets so thats something. (im trying to play it cool bc its been over two years it Should Not make me Feel Like This anymore right) i also went to germany in 2016 on december 31st to celebrate new years with my friend who i met through the internet (thanks internet) and i stayed there for a week (shouldve known itd go all downhill after that)

so, while concert-life was on top, my personal life was at bottom and it would only get worse in 2018. 

early 2017 my mom started to feel...sick. her body was hurting all the time. she was in so much pain without knowing why. apparently she had some kind of rare blood disease. it all went so...fast. suddenly she was in and out of hospitals, she got worse, the pain even more worse. some days she could barely walk and all she could do was cry. it’s horrible seeing your own mom like that. knowing there was nothing you could do. i did my best though, i moved back home to help her with my siblings becuase their father is a piece of shit who never helped my mom even if she was sick. she was at her lowest and he didnt care and he only made her worse. but i took on the responsibility of taking care of my younger siblings, and mom. as much as i could. while my older sister came home almost every weekend so she could help too. our grandma did her best too. we all tried so much to help mom. 

in september my mom called from the hospital. she told me her disease has turned into leukemia. this was the first time i cried with my mom. 

she did all kinds of chemo, got isolated at the hospital. wasn’t allowed to go out or sometimes even see her own kids. my sister and i took turns staying with her at the hospital though. i think the longest i stayed with her at the hospital was two weeks straight. 

when the results of her last chemo came back the doctor said the cancer hadnt gone down as much as they had hoped. they said my mom could do one last chemo but that was it, if the cancer wasnt gone after that there would be nothing more they could do to help my mom. because her body wouldnt be able to handle anymore. my mom was a fucking fighter, she had no hesitation about it. 

she was allowed to come home for christmas and the new years. no one knew it would be our last one with her. 

it turned into 2018 and she handled her last chemo pretty well. didnt affect her as much as the others had. she was allowed to come home for the weekend in february. she was so happy to see her kids again. she felt good. but she wasn’t. she really wasn’t. i think that weekend was the worst in my life. 

on march 20th, 2018. after a month of being in a coma, she passed away in her sleep. my wonderful mom, who fought to get better for her kids, who had been suffering for a year, finally got to rest. she wasn’t in pain anymore. 

seeing your mom taking her last breath really fucks you up in some type of way. 

she left six kids behind her. 

my mom always supported me going to concerts. she’s a big music fan herself and she knew how much going to concerts meant to me. always got excited when i told her about them, always listened to me. always listened when i played her new songs or albums. two days before her passing i saw harry styles in concert, tickets bought months before. i wasn’t sure i was even going, but i knew mom would’ve wanted to so i did. i wasn’t at my best during that concert, sat down for most of it but i cannot explain how much seeing harry meant to me. he really helped me feeling better for some hours, made me laugh and smile. i’ll always be grateful for that.  a month after my moms passing i had tickets for another concert, that was for niall horan. i really didn’t think i would be able to handle it, but i did it for mom. knew she would’ve wanted me to go. my friend was a great distraction, and we also met some lovely people in the line and i was so grateful. i will always be thankful for niall, even if he made me cry during flicker. he really helped me too, without knowing. saw 5sos too after three years at the end of the year, with my childhood best friend who i hadn’t seen in over a year. concerts really is the best medicine. at least for me.

i felt so lost without my mom, i still feel that way. some days i have a hard time believing she’s actually gone. your mom isn’t supposed to die when your’re twenty one. she’s supposed to be there next to you while you’re trying to figure out your life. 

i’m gonna be honest with you, i don’t really remember most of 2018. and i don’t think i actually want to remember either. 

2019 has been slightly better so far. saw disney on ice (incredible). in april we finally went to london. something my mom had always wanted too, so i took the necklace i got her years ago and brought it with me to london so at least a piece of her would be there too with us. 

on the first day my older sister and i saw shawn (hes still baby). we also went to madame tussauds (finally met one direction yall), went on london eye, walked to the buckingham palace. took a bus to warner bros studio tour of harry potter. that was fucking incredible. drank disgusting butterbeer. london felt like a dream. 

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i still don’t know what to do with my life, i don’t really have any dreams. im currently living with my grandma and she really doesnt want me to move out lmao. and i feel bad for leaving her

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so that’s it i guess. hi everyone who hopefully didn’t read any of this. my names amanda and my lifes a mess and all tangled up but that’s okay. thats what everyone says. gotta focus on the good things happening in your life. and don’t take your family and friends for granted. please. 

also heres my face ft. my harrys tour tshirt. be nice please. okay bye.