#im mentally ill bro so mentally ill and it feels like a pit in my chest
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thanatoseyes · 7 months ago
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Don't mind me just sitting here angrily staring at Taylor Swift's new album that's being shoved through my throat like a hot knife.
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puppet-purgatory · 2 years ago
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you won't post 1 headcanon for every puppet. you wont
i WILL. AND i'll do it in chronological order from appearance (more or less). but it will be under a readmore after the first season so i dont interrupt anyones scrollin
The Professor: i think in addition to growing a bit from Dino DNA(tm) he also has feathers now. just some feathers in there with his fur. maybe even molts and is miserable about it
Death: he plays guitar And piano, but just as a hobby. he's like a salaryman who had a garage band as a teenager and never fully gave up on the dream
Propeller: propeller SADSTUCK: i think he legitimately had to go to therapy for the britannica shit that happened. PH feels like it would be that realistic about mental health tbh
Big Pile of Diamonds: his mustache is fake. his greatest secret. his greatest shame.
God: he actually really likes to dance! unfortunately next 2 no one will do it since... The Incident
Train: does he not have a better name... maybe put a mr. in front of there... anyway he feels betrayed by the U.S. since they gave up the train model for highways/interstates and the motorcar industry. gets REALLY heated about it
Mt. Vesuvius: has a bunch of speeches given by famous latin authors and orators memorized, but sometimes he mashes them up without realizing/misattributes which one was written by whom. old man moments
Hatshepsut's Goose: can't remember what their gender was in life. that's fine, they love being a nonbinary icon. AMAB (Assigned Mummy at (em)Balming)
Clipped Coin: dodges the spool's wrath by being unflappable and so down to earth despite his apparent success. truly the king of staying in his own lane
Olympic Torch: hes a cranky piece of shit and only really enjoys sporting competition. he was complaining about being in the group puzzle photo so god just picked him up and he went ffffffffffine. okay. ill smile for 2 seconds
Gay Oars: i think they Also went to therapy, mostly relationship counseling, and now they are back and better than Ever. unbreakable bond. im abt to pen a whole ass comic series about them getting married in purgatory
Policarpa's Spool: still thinks of himself as a spy type, but there's only so much spying he can do in... purgatory. of course, his primary nemesis is the treasure chest.
Lake Donner Snowman: idk if this counts as a headcanon per se but in my very short list where i recast the puppets as famous singers, he is ABSOLUTELY voiced by Weird Al Yankovic.
St. Nick's Wet Bones: sort of taking the whole purgatory thing in stride. he kinda feels like he's in retirement! now he's a minor agent of chaos who's looked after by his darling Pickle Boys
Beast of Gevaudan: i was so sad when the infinitiger wasn't real, i wanted them to have a cooking show together so badly and destroy the horse's self-esteem. i love him. hes so abominably french
Stool of Gold: well-traveled, well-read, literally just as sensible as the Book or the Oars, but finds the chaos entertaining to spectate.
Ziryab's Oud: I think that the puppets have divvied up the whole Wondrium Arena and all have designated Living Areas, and he has a whole dressing room filled with shitty costumes he can't even wear. every time someone knocks he answers like hes on MTV's Cribs.
Bye Bye Brothers: they live in the orchestral pit and treat it like a secret lair. only other Murderer Puppets are allowed in. EXCLUSIVE club
Flower Boat: GNC Icon. this is a flower boat stan account. jenuinely a wholesome, emotional vessel doing their best to pitch in.
Molasses Horse: you can wash him as much as you want, that shit always just comes back somehow. the book theorizes it's psychosomatic at this point, since they're technically only souls at this point.
Tiny Piece of Wheat: bro i bet they went through SUCH phases after finding out about the professor's death. like all five stages of grief and then four more that have not yet been discovered by humans. dw kiddo, u got Grandparents incoming
Emu: the type of guy to fistfight you and then help you up. laid back but ready to throw down at a MOMENT'S notice. has no beef with the Wheat, but generally avoids them to keep from any Upsets.
Treasure Chest: has a little list of get-rick-quick schemes he wants to test, but has no way to in purgatory. he has one braincell bouncing around in his head like the DVD logo
Scabs & Pus: they get to hang out with the Bye Bye Brothers in their little club :) they're gross dudes to look at and be around. but they are ultimately harmless and friendly and just happy to be included.
Book: i love da book. I think he lives in the music library backstage and finds librettos for stageplays/musicals to pitch to the group to put on, as well as produces their little TV shows.
Birch Trees: since they share a root system, they have a telepathic link and communicate without even speaking, which is fucking creepy as hell when one or both of them just start laughing out of nowhere. they probably enjoy acting sinister
Asmodeus: he worked HARD on his song for the show!!!!! i think he's a bit of a ham sometimes when he gets the chance. also his goat head bites literally anything that comes close on reflex.
The Devil: while everything he does is to get souls, it also feels like he wants for positive and is less an Enemy of God and more an Irritating Coworker. in my brain they have a whole Tom and Jerry thing going on.
I don't have anything for the Fake Puppets the Substitute impersonated, but im planning on drawing some infinitiger soon bc he was my fave for sure
The Substitute: this is PURELY crack but i think it would be hilarious if he had voice commands like some tech does. i want him to climb back in the window and ryan just yells XBOX TURN OFF and he vanishes.
Dino Dad/Dinosir: i think even after he gets to the present and learns about all kinds of rocks and gems and crystals he Still just loves a big old rock he can lay on and sun himself with. like a dad and his armchair. doesnt gotta be fancy, just has to be comfy.
Dino Mom/Dinosara: i think she would be REALLY into the fake tv shows the puppets in the Wondrium Arena make. and they'd probably Love to have her as a fan. i think both the professor's parents are Hella popular.
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muttfangs · 6 months ago
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I already ranted to myself about this to process my thoughts while I was milling about my apartment getting ready for work, but i'm gonna kvetch about it here too so ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ ~boy problemz~
i'm not really sure what 'aura' or 'impression' I give off to the boys these days, but like… I keep attracting men who definitely see me as a 'caretaker' or 'father' role and it's like… no, dude. I'm BARELY recovered (and oftentimes still recovering!!) from major lifelong trauma and mental illness. I CANNOT emotionally nurse you back to health. that's a job for a licensed professional, not a scruff hook up / fling. and I know I'm hot, confident, and kind, but I have boundaries. my last ex (who I briefly mentioned here in a barking post, I'm sure) was incredibly mentally / emotionally manipulative. they would lovebomb me and then make me fret and hem and haww over them because they'd text or say things to me that were super worrisome or suicidal. I know they struggle with mental health. I do too. but they would drag me down and guilt me into an emotional tar pit with them against my will multiple times a week, and it fucked me up really badly. meanwhile, the entire time I was emotionally and energetically burnt to a crisp while trying to 'save' this person I cared about. this entire time, they used me. they saw me as a cute emotional punching bag. and when I finally set my foot down and told them "no, I'm uncomfortable with a 50 year old cis man fucking you when you don't show any sexual desire for me", they immediately twisted the situation to make me out like the bad guy.
"you can't get mad at me for this when we're in an open relationship to begin with and my friends agree with me"
FUCK you. I'm justified in my anger. you don't know how emasculating and invalidating it feels TO ME when you want to get railed by some random 50 year old cis man… but you wont touch me, your trans masc partner, because you're very obviously repulsed by my anatomy. I'm not stupid, I picked up on your consistent repulsion and avoidance when I'd ask you about sex. you're a terrible liar. and why THE FUCK do you have to ask your friends for validation during a conflict that is about YOU and ME?
fuck this. FUCK YOU. bitch.
...so, this leads me into a different cis gay who I hooked up with… literally once… He seems like a normal enough guy (literally saved as 'normal david' in my phone… lol ╮(╯_╰)╭). I don't usually vibe with normies, they're. you know. boring to me. but he's fine for a hook up! the sex was decent, at the very least it was cathartic and I got some excess horny energy expelled.
anyways. the evening after we hooked up, he drunk texted me around midnight. it wasn't anything super strange just sorta like "I'm drunk and idk why I'm up this late. Lol" which is like, you know, innocuous enough. but he drunk texted me a couple times after that and it sorta just. makes me go 'hmmmmMM' I bring this up because, one of the drunk text conversations we had was him feeling really lonely and disappointed in himself. which is like, word yeah. I understand and empathize with that. I offered for him to hang out with me and my bros sometime, and as a heads up (for allergen reasons), I let him know like. we do smoke weed when we hang out! and you can feel free to not partake, but thats absolutely something we do. … and he immediately snubbed me by condescending to me about how weed is gross, it smells bad, it's a drug, etcetc. like. ya. I know. and thats a personal preference. JUST LIKE I PREFER TO NOT DRINK BUT I WILL SOCIALLY. I let him know we can smoke on the porch so he doesn't have to smell it, and he went on a mini tangent about why he hates weed and I just.
BRO. IM TRYING TO BE KIND AND OFFER YOU QUEER COMMUNITY. why on earth!! are you patronizing to me about recreational smoke sessions right now!!
and you know. I'm trying to be kind and empathetic so I explain to him like, alright. The offer is still there if you ever want it! but simultaneously, please don't condescend to me about the fact that me and my friends smoke weed. It's unnecessary and it's your preference, just as recreationally smoking is ours. and drinking is yours.
he drunk texted me… again… last night at 1am and like.
IM SENSING A PATTERN HERE. OF MESSED UP QUEER MEN WHO WANT ME TO CARE FOR THEM AND ONLY CARE FOR THEM WITHOUT ME RECEIVING ANY SORT OF RECIPROCAL EFFORT OR CARE PUT INTO THE SITUATION. HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
god fuck my life. I talked about this w/ my therapist and like… I realize this isn't my fault. because my recent ex is a fully sentient, conscious human being who chose to make these decisions to exploit me and knew. same with normal david (to a lesser extent… bc I'm cutting this off today before it festers into yet another 'one-way fatherly situationship that I do not want and is also emotionally violating / burning me'). ...but it still sucks. I did get really, severely freaked out about my ex because I fell into this pattern that I've fallen into with previous people I've dated. where I see someone with 'potential', and I empathize with their mental illness and struggles as a queer person greatly and I want to help! genuinely! … and then it just turns into them being an emotional black hole and deflecting / ignoring the tangible, real ways I can help them so they can sink further and further into themselves while I desperately try to fish them out of the void they created. I'm convinced this was part of my ex's like… 'thing'. it was validating to them for me to panic over them when they'd text me shit like 'I need to disappear' because it meant I actually gave a shit about them. I hate people who view my confidence and genuine goodwill as something they can take for granted whenever the need arises. and I hate people who view me as "yeah you're good enough for now while I finda REAL MAN to date because youre KINDA LIKE A MAN". I'm tired of people seeing me as a stepping stone to 'something better', and treating me as disposable once they've bled me dry. This has been the situation with the past…. four or so of my exes.
Fuck them. I deserve better. I'm a good person. I'm kind. I'm growing. I'm putting the work in to deconstruct and heal my traumas. and I deserve affection, understanding, communication, kindness, respect, and love.
I will not settle for any less.
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taylornock · 5 years ago
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how cell phones made our lives better while simultaneously ruining them
hi fam!! it’s me, again. are you tired of hearing from me? me too. that’s why I’m here to rant about social media / phone / technology. bc i hate it… but in a loving way???
everyone remembers when they got their first iPhone. seriously. why is that such a monumental moment in our lives? i can hardly remember what i felt like freshman year of high school but can pinpoint the feeling of sheer glee unwrapping my iPhone 6 in eighth grade. i have this thing that is attached to me 24/7 - when I go anywhere (even downstairs) without my phone i feel weird. that is f***ing SAD! PATHETIC. i hate feeling that dependent on what is essentially a pocket robot.
for what it’s worth - phones have done INCREDIBLE things for the world as we know it. for example, this quarantine shit has been testing all of us; and our phones are helping us get through it in so many ways. our phones let us see the faces of those loved ones we are missing, our phones provide us with stupid tik tok content to keep everything light hearted, and our phones let us check in on each other. all amazing things! when we are at school, we have instant access to our lives at home . being able to call my mom whenever i want is something i definitely abuse. “mom, I’m on my way home from Thompson right now and i think i have a brain aneurysm but my bio final is at 11am tomorrow will i make it” … an actual conversation i had with my mom at the end of freshman year. needless to say i was medicated shortly after THAT meltdown. I am such a brat that i don’t know what i would do if i couldn’t text my dad and have him immediately get me the password again to our Uverse account…… god forbid i miss an episode of the bachelor. i have this phone, and that’s what i do with it? abuse its powers to ask my parents for medical advice or a password i forgot? have we lost sight of everything here?
throughout life and especially throughout quarantine… my phone is the definition of a possession that is a blessing and a curse. I’m so grateful to have the ability to bother my friends - whenever i want! the options are endless! i love keeping in touch with people i thought id never hear from again, and being able to talk to so many people in my life and make my heart swell. now, when a conversation with someone other than my two roommates (shoutout parents) is so rare ⎯ that phone is my weapon and i use it to help flatten the curve: flatten the curve of covid19 and flatten the curve of my mental illness 🙃 [humor is a coping mechanism okay let me live] but like, i KNOW i’m not the only one that looks at my screen time and immediately wants to die. how can i honestly be looking at my phone for that long? picking it up THAT many times?????? my phone is the best distraction and also the most toxic - it makes me feel better but has a tendency to bring up all my issues and blast them into the reflection of my blue light glasses...... its called fashion look it up.
to give some examples - let’s open up my most used app: snapchat. I go on snapchat with the best of intentions - to see a memory from a year ago that makes me smile. to respond to my friends and see what their mood today is based on the look on their face. to creep on snap stories and see what everyone’s cooking and doing with their lives. somehow, tho, after spending a few minutes on the app.. i end up with a pit in my stomach most of the time. the person i want to respond hasn’t responded in 4 hours. oh god lets overthink this- they don’t like me anymore and are no longer interested in speaking to me and only respond every once in a while out of pity or because they are uncomfortable. everyone hates you. oh and GOD FORBID someone leaves me on open??! I am not funny nor interesting nor worth a reply - suddenly, i have equated my value to receiving or not receiving a photo of someone’s blank stare. this is extreme, and this is dramatic. but trust me —— this is the hamster wheel always turning in my head. I’m not even going to touch on snap maps; that feature is pandoras box and someone better fucking shut it.
second most used app is instagram. i scroll for hours, i have time limits set for the app acting like i’m actually going to listen to them and get off. lmaooooooooo. i love looking at aesthetic stuff and dogs and food and recipes and my friends’ beautiful faces. but you know what i don’t like? constant nudges to compare myself to others. oh look at her having a party with all of her friends even though we aren’t supposed to be. am i a loser for trying to be safe? oh look at her washboard abs, i’m never going to look like that and will never live up to the standard of beauty society has set for me. look at all of these people in their happy relationships. why can’t i have that? it goes over and over and over. its not like i sit there and think of these things just like that, its a precedent in my mind when i stare at everybody else that i am going to size my own life up against theirs. for years i followed every single elite model / VS angel on instagram to motivate me to do better - to start being psycho about what i did to my body so i could be as gorgeous as them. what kind of fucked up mindset is that? i would literally watch their footage of them eating rice and vegetables once a day and try to copy it. i would watch their runway walks obsessively trying to recreate them in heels alone in my house - like that was all i could imagine doing with my life. did i ever stop for a second to look at that photoshoot of gigi hadid and wonder if she was happy? wonder if the constant pictures she saw of herself ever made her insecure? what was i doing? the day i unfollowed those girls was a monumental day in my journey to a better self image. i didn’t realize the people i thought were my “motivators” were actually my triggers. i have grown to a point in life now that i would much rather eat a stack of chocolate chip pancakes that make me dance in my chair like an infant than practice my runway walk and shame my body in the mirror. and i am so freakin happy! 
i could go app by app for hours. but moving on to the next thing i hate about cell phones - how they have destroyed our biological methods of communication. you hear about those psychos who think the world is destroyed by technology and we are going to be overrun by robots. but hey, I’m with the psychos on this one. i have this amazing friend, Trevor Wright, who without fail at EVERY dinner announces “phones off friends on” and collects our phones into the center of the table. yes, we are 20 year old adults. yes, we hand our phones over to Trevor and let him yell at us for trying to see if ~that person~ snap chatted us back. i have so much respect for him because of this. there is nothing worse than staring at your phones when you could be having a good conversation about life, about love, about laughter + memories, about “do you think hellen keller is real?” anything, bro, anything. anything but snapchat messaging your hoe of the week or mindlessly playing tetris to twiddle your thumbs. we all need to start loving a little harder, and the first step to doing that is to communicate better. communicate smarter. I’m guilty of alllll of the above, don’t get me wrong. and I am ADD asf and constantly playing mindless games just to stimulate my brain. but i need to stop that! even writing this is taking some time away from the dumb shit on my phone - and encouraging me to communicate how i     r e a l l y   feel to my homies that will read this. communication - especially body language - is fascinating. I’ve studied it in  psych, I’ve learned the neurological bases of behavior and why we do what we do. I’ve learned how much our life experience impacts who we are as a whole...and it! is! fascinating! i also think that’s why i love film so much. because it can capture the raw moments of your friends just being your friends, of you just being the person you are, and the world around you just existing as it exists. i love the raw moments; and not just because indy blue posted one youtube video of her slow mo laughing and now thats the only footage i find myself shooting. 😚
im not quite sure what this post is, lol. but - just a rant on technology. so listen to me:
take advantage of technology + social media! it CAN BE GREAT. for so many reasons. but, don’t let technology + social media TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU. stay true to you - know how to communicate with yourself and your loved ones without the use of a robot. remember that feeling when you setup up your first iPhone? imagine if you could feel that again, with your phone nowhere in sight. if you don’t know how to communicate with yourself yet, start by journaling. WRITE! TYPE! SPEAK! do what you want. getting your thoughts down even without an audience is so crucial to understanding yourself and others. if you don’t like to write, reflect. breathe. meditate. make art. do what makes you feel at peace, and do whatever makes you feel like the world makes a little bit more sense than it does. 
IF YOU ARE READING DOWN TO HERE, I LOVE YOU. I LOVE YOU, SAY IT BACK! LIFE IS A FUCKING HIGHWAY. AND IM SO GLAD YOU’RE ON MY INTERSTATE. <3
xoxoxoxo
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thelifetimechannel · 6 years ago
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The Dave and Dirk log, for obvious reasons, was something I wanted to try very hard to get right. That meant although we drafted it together via msparp, as was our custom, I ended up overhauling it way more than any of our other combo walkaround logs. A few chunks did survive the transfer, though.
In other news, we’ve made a solemn pact to finish TLC over winter break, which is good because I’m running out of bonus content. Hopefully we’ll have some assets to show off soon. I’ve already seen a few; they’re very nice.  
DIRK: Hey, dude. You did pretty well out there. DIRK: Didn't even die once. DAVE: twice in a day is my max im satisfied with keeping that record DAVE: even if getting machinegunned is rapidly becoming my "thing" DIRK: Seems we each have our respective "signature deaths". DIRK: Or at least it ain't a party until I get decapitated. That sure was something we needed to do again. DIRK: Just once, for old time's sake. DAVE: well that puts the nail in the meme coffin DAVE: any time you panic someones gonna tell you to keep your head on DAVE: like keeping your hair on except you know that shit aint going anywhere its probably shellaced DIRK: That shit is bolted to the floor. Did you know I walked around with a girly-ass pink tiara on my head this whole day and had no idea? DIRK: I had no idea. Couldn't feel a thing. DIRK: And people let me do that. DIRK: Can't fuckin' believe it. DAVE: oh DAVE: i figured you knew DIRK: I am less than pleased with my Skaia-ordained divine color scheme. DIRK: But I guess I have to live with it. It's part of the team aesthetic. DAVE: you could always change DIRK: Nah, with the tiara and tights ditched I have at least mitigated the enforced flamboyance. It's bearable. DIRK: I can't be the one dude out of uniform. Couldn't bear the shame. DAVE: my outfit is pretty sick ngl DAVE: sburb knows everyones secret desire is to have a cape DIRK: Unfortunately, mine isn't long enough to also make for a good tactical maneuver. DIRK: Not gonna lie, that was pretty funny. DAVE: if nothing else my attempts at combat can provide a source of humor in our lives DAVE: but honestly id be fine if my fighting days were over DAVE: i was never into it DAVE: rose on the other hand was obviously itching to beat people up DAVE: one of those 12 year olds who wants to get jumped in an alley to work out her suppressed anger DIRK: Maybe Skaia did make a few miscalculations in dumping your asses with your respective guardians. I think you'd get along well with Roxy and her cats, make her budget her time away from the alcohol. DIRK: ...in theory. DIRK: Rose can go a few rounds with me if she wants, we still need to sort out who has the rights to document our legendary journies. DAVE: ill plan your funeral DAVE: what kind of flowers do you want DIRK: ...there's different kinds? DAVE: damn thats right you grew up in waterworld DAVE: these choices matter DAVE: allegedly theres a thing called "flower language" DAVE: whether you can actually send someone a boquet telling them to meet you in the pit i dont know DIRK: Like, I get that, in theory, different kinds of flowers exist. But I fully anticipate any attempt on my part to conjugate in the language of said plants would end in my coffin declaring my hovercraft was indeed full of eels. DIRK: Maybe it'll have thorns on it. Or it'll be like the sixteen millions tons of green bullshit covering my land and making my nose itch. DAVE: probably DIRK: Worst case scenario, I'll pick out something orange and present to a prospective love interest and it'll mean something like "my brotherly passion for you knows no boundaries, and also no homo". DAVE: my bro wouldnt go for flower arranging DAVE: or pink tiaras DAVE: he was pretty uptight about the whole rah rah macho act DAVE: probably subscribed to alpha males weekly DAVE: which is weird considering DAVE: well DAVE: youre gay right DIRK: Uh. DIRK: Well. DIRK: My symbolic quest land is not covered in green bullshit, but I. DIRK: Happen to like watching birds, if you know what I mean. DIRK: Fuck, you probably don't know what that means. Jake and his goddamn thousand euphemisms. DAVE: cant say i do no DIRK: Nobody knows what it means but Jake. It's an old time epithet for being into dudes. DIRK: He knows all the old epithets, including some I suspect he made up. DAVE: so DAVE: thats a yes DAVE: in a roundabout way that includes birds DIRK: I've never denied it. DIRK: I'm just. DIRK: Not a huge fan of the word. Why, in this world post-society, do we need to confine ourselves to labels like "gay"? Such constraints were washed away from my world with the rest of the human race. DAVE: holy shit that was such a pretentious dodge DAVE: dont let rose hear you say that DIRK: Rose can hear all she likes. DAVE: but anyway DAVE: i wasnt asking to get up all in your business like SOME PEOPLE DAVE: who are so into getting into other peoples businesses theyre basically the fucking mafia or the irs DAVE: but DAVE: it explains some stuff DAVE: but on the other hand it doesnt DAVE: the way you raised me was kinda aggressively mainstream masculine enough that it wasnt something that ever seemed to come up as an option DAVE: [describe that type of culture and mindset better later, I KNOW what i mean but im tired rn lmao] DAVE: and anything outside of that id just brush off because it couldnt apply to me DAVE: and that went for pretty much everything that went against what you wanted for me DAVE: including that DIRK: And yet, here the man was, subconsciously shrieking his desire for floppy felt dong through, DIRK: What I guess you could call his art, for want of any other applicable word at all. God, the mental images are crawling up the insides of my skull like the Exorcist child, do I want to know? DAVE: probably not DAVE: guess trying to act peak male has its drawbacks DAVE: weirdly enough troll culture is obsessively hyperviolent but doesnt give a shit about sexuality DAVE: they dont see the difference most of the time i guess DAVE: and so like DAVE: maybe it rubs off on you because in some ways that kind of makes sense DAVE: but after so long its hard to know what i feel and what it means because i spent so long ignoring it DAVE: so i guess i was wondering DAVE: if you had anything that might help with that DAVE: or if youre also trapped in this whirling screaming maelstrom of bullshit DAVE: while kinsey sits in the eye of the storm laughing DIRK: Wait, wait, wait. DIRK: You're coming to me. DIRK: For advice. DIRK: Do you know what a laughable hurricane of disaster my interpersonal life has been? DIRK: Like, in a weird way, I'm kind of honored, especially since about five hours ago you were scared shitless to be around me, but. DIRK: I'm standing here and waving my credentials in the air just to display how I don't fucking have any. My degree is a sham and my hands are empty except for a crudely scribbled on piece of construction paper. DAVE: are you suggesting theres a gay university DAVE: where you study bird watching DIRK: Do I look like a man who's been to college? DAVE: fair DAVE: but like DAVE: your friends know DAVE: how did you broach the subject there DIRK: I might as well have been dating a Yoko Ono for the devastation it wreaked on our friend group, so yeah, it was a little hard to ignore. DIRK: Compounded by the fact some smartass from Gay University was using my social circle for romance geometry homework. DIRK: It wasn't even a love triangle so much as a love roundabout. DAVE: ok but thats just because you were a dipshit not a gay dipshit DAVE: they were chill about the first part right DIRK: Thanks. DIRK: I mean... Roxy always seemed disappointed. DAVE: luckily i dont think anyones waiting in line for me DAVE: i guess im blowing it out of proportion DAVE: i dont think anyone will MIND DAVE: no one did about rose and kanaya DAVE: didnt even question the vampire bit which goes to show what our lives are like these days DAVE: like ok our outfit has vampires now DAVE: thats a thing that we have DAVE: if i say oh hey i might be bisexual theyll just say sure pull up a chair at the acronym table DAVE: the only one who might be weird about it is john DAVE: but hed be just as weird if i told him id changed my favorite color hes just like that DAVE: the only person its really a big deal for is me DIRK: Jane was a little bit like that. I'm pretty sure the only reason she had to object was because she found out the day I made a move on her crush. DIRK: It might just be growing up in a household where you're not regularly fighting for your life, and thus what genders are kissing whom has the space to be higher on your priority list. DAVE: that aint anyones priority these days DAVE: im prepared to acknowledge the concept that hey maybe everyone elses lives dont revolve around me and my personal drama or self revelations might have some merit at least as a hypothesis DAVE: when i met kid english he kept going on about how i was the most important person and everyone else was side characters DAVE: and maybe ive acted like that sometimes DIRK: Yeah, like you alone are the one responsible for everyone around you. DAVE: and maybe ive acted like i think that way too sometimes DAVE: ive been wrong about people DAVE: people i care about people i shouldve known better DAVE: i was wrong because i wanted to believe things that matched how i wanted the world to be DAVE: things that made it easier for the story i was telling myself DAVE: i dont think kid english meant to call me on it but damn DIRK: Reality is, after all, something we construct for ourselves. DIRK: I think maybe I knew that all along when I surfaced for air inbetween shoving my head as far up my ass as it would go. DIRK: Or maybe that's just what I try to tell myself in hindsight. DAVE: well if it takes a hyperactive 12 year old version of the final bosss creepy hero worship of me to make a point i guess thats not the least subtle way the universe has sent me a message lately DIRK: You want unsubtle? Let me tell you about my damn planet quest. DAVE: haha DAVE: i didnt have to do much of my quest because im invisible DAVE: thanks mom DIRK: My denizen practically sat me down like it was my life coach and growled in my ear about improving my communication skills with a guy I told to go fuck himself not eighteen hours prior. DIRK: So while I'm glad SBURB has a vested interest in me repairing my friendships, playing electroshock death DDR with him was a little on the nose. DAVE: maybe getting shot again wasnt that bad DAVE: so weve all learned our life lessons good job team DIRK: Exactly. Can we wrap this up now? Can we please go rest? DIRK: I'm so exhausted I haven't even noticed I'm still hungover. DAVE: sure thing DAVE: but if i need tips on leaping out of a closet to intimidate passerby i might text you DIRK: I mean, I can try. As long as you don't ask me for dating tips. That, I definitely shouldn't be helping you with. DIRK: Go talk to your sister for that. DIRK: ...wouldn't she, by the transitive property of siblings, also be my sister? DAVE: yeah i guess DAVE: but theres no way in hell im asking rose for dating advice DAVE: on her first date which she refused to admit was romantically oriented she got wasted in anticipation forgot to show up and then fell down the stairs DIRK: Oh my god. DAVE: she tries to look like shes got her shit together but its a lie DAVE: if you find my corpse floating on lolar in the next few hours dont let the truth die with me DIRK: Why are we like this? DIRK: Is there actually something hardwired into our DNA that predisposes us to being disasters? DIRK: But, that aside. DIRK: I won't object if it's me you come to talk to. DAVE: ill hold you to it DAVE: and if you ever want to publicly you admit you DAVE: "enjoy birdwatching" DAVE: in less vague and evasive terms DAVE: ill have your back DIRK: Thanks.
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someone i love said very hurtful things about me today and ... idk how to deal... i'm not mad.. it just hurts you know? like you really think that about me? especially because its been so rough lately. i dont want to victimize myself but the past three years of my life have been one mental illness pit of darkness of hell bro. monstrous. and idk how someone i love can watch me go thru that and..get angry? judge me for it? because i'm an adult. who should be taking accountability. ok..... as if thats not what every god damn adult has said to me. but does anyone offer advice? help? no. i wasn't raised RIGHT. i don't have any idea what i'm doing. and people just think i should. how does that help? i'm trying my best every single day and its not enough for anyone. im trying to find compassion for myself and care about myself but its so hard and everyone has something to say about it. i know i'm doing what i can. i'm trying. i'll try more tomorrow, but for ME. i want to feel better and feel alive and i can work on that. i never thought this person would upset me like this... i'm beyond hurt. i don't know. it's temporary right? we'll both get over it. i don't need to let it dig into me so much. i accept how it feels how i feel but it wasn't meant to hurt. i have no idea how to process emotions
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dangerousdragonflies · 6 years ago
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The Harmoninomicon
Book 1 : WATER
Chapter I Cognitive Dissonance
 Part I
The entire world shook, the sky was red. A mighty wash of roiling water struck the boat. Several people were attempting to swim back to the log raft, a second and third raft was just barely visible through the chaos. A man bellowed calling out to the ocean, the words were lost beneath the waves. A wall of water that touched the sky came roaring overhead. Hold on everyone! The man yelled. The massive glowing object in the sky loomed over like a promise, two of the boats had now gone under the waves. No! You can’t! The man screamed at the ocean. Something glowing and red like a wall of liquid fire was bubbling up through the waves, the sound was hideous like a red hot sword slowly cutting though butter. The last of the log rafts splintered apart when the wall of water and the glowing bubbling horror met. A figure woke with a scream, are you ok Hun? A woman said in the dark. It was just a bad dream, go back to sleep I’ll be fine.
 We have an old saying on the island, If the island does not like you it will spit you out. What does that even mean exactly Jules questioned? Well you know its probably all the movies I’ve been watching and I haven’t been getting enough sleep, it just seems like the universe doesn’t want me to feel rested. Well maybe you should try something a little more esoteric man, like a Ouija board (it was pronounced Wee Gee Board) or tarot cards! Jules had his thumbs up in the air like some sort of 80’s car dealership commercial. Dude I had a weird dream and that’s it, there’s no such thing as ghosts or demons and don’t get me started on the whole heaven or hell thing that makes less sense than those flat earth guys. Come on Will we don’t just rot in the ground and that’s it once we die man there’s so much we don’t know but we are proving a lot of the occult things are real! Real? How can we prove anything about that, you said it best yourself we don’t know and there is more evidence that leads us to think this is it. But Science is proving it and Science is fact! No Jules Science is fiction, you are living in a fantasy land and I am sorry to be the one to tell you Santa Clause isn’t real, its time to wake up and see the world for what it is. With a heavy sigh Jules punched will in the shoulder. Fine, I see there’s little I can say to convince you Will. I have to get back to work here in a few minutes I really think you should look in to these things and see if it helps any. I know you don’t believe in any of that but whats the worse that could happen, I’ll send you some links. Laughing and with a smile “Sure, try to have a good day dude ill text you later”.  
The Rain poured like a blanket drenching the land to the bones. Thunder crackled and off in the distance a bright flash of light lit up by its after effects on the human vision. Something in the shape of a Dog was cowering and shaking, trying to hide under the two people. Margret I told you it was just a dream, I am ok! No you aren’t you’ve been up the last week having these nightmares and now im worried for you, Honey if you aren’t sleeping neither am I, You are to heavy to sit there Cassie; The Dog was trying to sit on the woman’s lap. Doctor Sanchez said one session with him and we will be able to tell whats going on with these dreams. Wills Sigh was exasperated, Ok if it means this much to you then ill go do this thing, Jules was trying to convince me to use; and I will use his words “A WEE GEE board” they both laughed. Well his heart is in the right place Will maybe a Ouija board isn’t what we need but I have some old tarot cards, How about we break them out? They guided my life pretty well until we met honey. I don’t know Margret I don’t think those cards will help me. William Edwards! I am sorry you had a few bad experiences with this sort of thing but im only trying to help. Where are those cards at? I think I have them upstairs in one of the closets. Ill go grab ‘em, the Dog nearly tripping the woman as she went up the stairs made a yipe, Fuh! Damn it dog! Go to daddy!
  Sit right there, Margret pointed at the carpet right outside the closet. Right here? Will said grinning. Yes right here! Come on Love lets see what the Spirits have to tell you!! As the rain came down like great buckets from the gods the couple sat pouring over the cards. What do the spirits say for Gemini? The words echoed off the walls. Both people yelled at the same time, Cassie! The dog had walked over the cards laid out on the ground. Picking up one card Will handed it to the young woman sitting across from him. It’s backwards, what does this card mean? Oh Hun, The four of cups in reverse reminds us to see all the good things being offered to us in the present. Thinking too far ahead, or dwelling on things long past can rob you of the now. What are you dwelling on love? Is everything alright? I don’t know Margret, I’ve been stressed due to lack of sleep but I don’t think there’s anything I’m dwelling on I mean I can’t think of anything I might be stuck on.
 Alright Mr. Edwards this is a safe place where no judgement happens just make yourself at home and try to relax. Honestly Doc I’m not sure about all this. Will looked around the room, I don’t know if this is the right thing for my insomnia plus I don’t think i can be hypnotized I mean I have a hard time even convincing myself to go to work some days. The clock was ticking so loud Will thought he would go insane if he had to sit here for too much longer. You would be surprised as to how many of my clients say similar statements, Mr. Edwards I assure you my practice is proven and sound. You are in good hands. Now one of our policies is we collect some information from our clients do you mind if I ask you a few questions pertaining to your physical and mental health? I guess, what kind of questions are we talking about? Our first question is would you say you’re a generally happy man? Happy? Y-yes I suppose, I have a great job a wonderful wife and a Pit-bull. My life has never been better, what does this have to do with my dreams Doc? My list has specially been designed to help for this circumstance Mr. Edwards I assure you, Alright Question two. Do you have any history with psychotropic drugs? Would a Antidepressant count as psychotropic? In most cases yes, don’t worry we don’t report any findings to any authority. Question three. How often would you say you brush your teeth? Will looked puzzled, Excuse me? Please Mr. Edwards these questions are important, Answer them as best you can. Alright I brush before bed every day. An eye brow raised a little bit, Doctor Sanchez adjusted himself in his seat. And how much Fluoride would you say you and your wife…? I assume, are in taking daily? The Doctor peered over his clipboard waiting for a reply. Margret’s allergic to fluoride so we found a place with a well and as for our teeth we use fluoride free toothpaste. The Doctor straightened, I think I’m beginning to have an understanding of the situation Mr. Edwards. These are a sedative for those who have a harder time going under the pendulum so to speak. The Doctor was standing there smiling but to Will it wasn’t a friendly gesture. Um do you think we can do this without the medication first? I’m not a fan of taking pills to be honest. Please Mr. Edwards these are all natural sedatives, they wont fail you on a urine screening and also they are hypoallergenic, anyone can take them even children newly born. Grabbing the little paper cup with the pills in it Will looked at them. I guess its OK, will I be able to drive when I leave here? The Doctor handed Will a glass of water. Here you go please drink the entire glass of water Mr. Edwards and yes you will be fully clear headed and able to drive when you leave from here. Alright Doc Will said with a face as he swallowed the medication, when will this hit me? Just lay back Mr. Edwards you should be feeling the effects almost at once, can you tell me how many fingers I’m holding up? As his vision began to blur Will started panicking, Doc whats going on? I-I cant move! At this time two other men entered the room, as the darkness enfolded around Will he heard the Doctor say tie him down.  
 Wake up. My son, Wake up! Class is about to start so wake up! What? Will sat up and looked around, what? Stop saying what young man and get to school! The woman demanded. Whats going on? Who are you? The woman's stance assumed that iconic stance that all woman get when patience is running thin. I am not playing games and neither are you! Get up! The woman yanked the bed covers from the young man. Hey! What are you…looking down Wills legs had tanned quite a lot since he remembered seeing them last and they were quite a bit smaller. What the!? A million thoughts raced through his head. Arawakan! Don’t make me get your older brother to grab you and drag you to class again and you know he cannot be bothered with this, he is going through Melody training today. Huh? What did you call me? Will was yanked from bed by what looked like a seven foot tall bronze god, help!! Oh there is no help for you today remarked the incredibly tall young man holding Will by the arm pits.
Arawakan your late, why don’t you give us the reason why? The man at the head of the class said with hands on his hips. Um…? I don’t think I should be here will stammered. The giant escorting Will pushed him so hard that he fell hitting his shoulder on the podium at the front of the class. I had to drag him down here out of bed because he thinks sleep is more important said the giant. Standing up Will looked around, why is all of this so familiar? Wills shoulder throbbed. Go sit down little Bro and learn something useful said the tall young man. Will walked down the aisles of seats and sat down, looking around his eyes met with a young man a few rows back. His face said a lot but it was as if he didn’t belong here either. The older man at the head of the class Boomed “We have an old saying on the island, if the island does not like you it will spit you out.” But? But? Exclaimed a girl near the back, then why are there so many people I don’t like!? By then the entire class had erupted into laughter and crude remarks. QUIET!!!! Bellowed Wabeno the teacher of the day and today the kids got the head of the fishing fleet. Alright class I suppose I could share the super-secret reason why Penutia seems to not like anyone. Wabeno says with a grin. Oh! Oh! A young man near the back of the class erupted, hand high in the air waving frantically. Its because she was out after curfew with Athabaskan doing naughty things!!! Please just once can you be serious? No class its because…. Both of you, eyes and ears up front! Penutia and another girl were whispering back and forth snickering. Watching this for as long as she could an older woman in the doorway chuckled to herself, stepping out of the warm noonday rain, Kids! Kids! She lowered her head and waves of thought hit the classroom as soundless as a small field mouse breaking wind and as powerful as a blue whale breaching, Wills head suddenly started to buzz. A presence filled his head and even though there were no words he felt a wash of calmness radiate over him. alright class please inform your parents and guardians there is a village gathering tonight and its wet outside so don’t forget your rain covers! Will was hit with a head ache so bad he almost fell out of his seat, Wills head swam with a flood of memories that weren’t his but felt like they fit. I must be going crazy! With a warm smile and open arms some of the girls ran over and embraced the woman. Alright children this is important, don’t forget about the gathering tonight, you are dismissed! The woman had almost yelled over the almost preteen crowds ramblings. Will was astounded. He remembered getting up this morning, this morning in his home with the Tv and his computer but now he also remembered going to bed last night in his home made from grass and bamboo, he had never been hunting in his life but now he remembered two days ago when him and his older brother successfully hunted down and caught and wild boar with their dads lucky bow. What the hell is going on he thought?
  Part 2
 When I woke up this morning I never would have thought I would be saying this, but I believe we have found him. And what makes you think this? The voice on the other end of the line asked. We have had an eye on this one for quite some time Sir, we have him in custody and right now we are doing several tests to verify this. Doctor Sanchez I am not sure you are aware of how important this is, there is a lot riding on this and you have no idea how much I have personally invested in you and your, The voice on the other end of the line cleared his throat. Methods and if you aren’t correct one hundred percent about this one the ceasing of your funding will be the least of your concerns. Do not let me detain you, the phone beeped marking the end of the call.  The man’s posture relaxed a little. Two men who were mumbling outside the door while he was on the phone knocked and came in the door, Sir we have a situation with subject number seven. As the three men rushed down the hallway the sounds of screaming and banging became louder and louder. Noooo!!! The voice of a young man bellowed. The banging intensified, I need 15 ccs of Benzodiazepine now! The two other men were in the process of tightening the tie downs that held the young man. The figure of a nurse came shuffling in from a side room, hold her down! No! No! No! The young man tried to flail, Nooo!!! He bellowed again but this time the voice rasped. The two men jammed a cloth gag in the young man’s mouth. There we are just breathe Daniel everything will be fine. The young man’s movements became sluggish and his eyes drooped. There we are see? Isn’t it easy to relax now? Get him hooked back up the Doctor demanded, why is the machine disconnected? Get this thing going and crack it to sixty five percent! Doctor he was going into cardiac arrest we had to disconnect him and administer an epinephrine injection, Doctor his nervous system can’t handle this level of stress. Breathe, just breathe. See isn’t it easy to relax now? The man’s voice echoed in Daniel’s head.
 A sound like a yak making its last noises before it died trumpeted right outside his window. Daniels eyes sprang open and he bolted upright. With eyes that were full of globs, he had guessed he had he had been drinking the night before and had a few bad dreams. What the fuck? A rather large pinkish courts crystal started to pulse when he looked at it. Am I still drunk? He said out loud. Holy shit! Looking around his eyes started focusing on objects in the room. He was really confused by this point, well whatever I did last night ill try to make it up to whoever lives here and I hope they will forgive me for using some of these clothes till I can find mine. A mirror made from what appeared to be like hammered and polished copper looked back at him, what did I drink last night?? He almost screamed. The face looking back at him was so young maybe twelve or so with a tan that almost matched the copper mirror, what the hell!! What is going on? The level of panic was at a whole new level and Daniel stopped cold. His head was starting to clear now. Walking over to the crystal he reached out and the pulsing intensified. The urge to touch the crystal was demanding him forward. The crystal flashed, the light was blinding. A second set of memories faded in to his thoughts. Sitting down on the bed he rested his head in his hands, his thoughts revolved around getting another drink or at least a drink if those weren’t dreams. It felt to Daniel like he was receiving a data download to his memories. I was born here he said to himself with tears in his eyes, this is my room. Well, I had better get to class I guess Daniel said with a grunt getting up. I miss pizza already.
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airoasis · 5 years ago
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My philosophy for a happy life | Sam Berns | TEDxMidAtlantic
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My philosophy for a happy life | Sam Berns | TEDxMidAtlantic
Translator: Bob Prottas Reviewer: Ariana Bleau Lugo howdy every person. I am Sam, and that i just turned 17. A couple of years ago, before my freshman year in high school, I wanted to play snare drum in the Foxboro excessive tuition Marching Band, and it used to be a dream that I simply had to accomplish. However every snare drum and harness weighed about 40 kilos every, and i’ve a ailment called Progeria. So simply to offer you an concept, I weigh best about 50 pounds. So, logistically, I fairly could not elevate a standard sized snare drum, and considering of this the band director assigned me to play pit percussion during the halftime exhibit. Now pit percussion was fun. It concerned some rather cool auxiliary percussion devices, like the bongos, timpani, and timbales, and cowbell. So it used to be enjoyable, nevertheless it concerned no marching, and that i used to be in order that devastated. Nevertheless, nothing used to be going to discontinue me from taking part in snare drum with the marching band within the halftime exhibit. So my loved ones and i worked with an engineer to design a snare drum harness that would be lighter, and simpler for me to hold. So after continuous work, we made a snare drum apparatus that weighs best about 6 kilos.(Applause) I just want to offer you some extra know-how about Progeria. It impacts most effective about 350 children at present, worldwide. So it’s pretty rare, and the consequences of Progeria comprise: tight epidermis, lack of weight acquire, stunted development, and heart disease. Final year my mom and her crew of scientists published the primary triumphant Progeria cure learn, and in view that of this I used to be interviewed on NPR, and John Hamilton asked me the question: "what’s the essential thing that folks must know about you?" And my reply was with ease that i’ve an awfully joyful lifestyles. (Applause) So although there are a lot of boundaries in my life, with a number of them being created by using Progeria, I don’t want persons to consider bad for me. I don’t feel about these limitations all the time, and i’m ready to beat most of them anyway. So Im here in these days, to share with you my philosophy for a pleased existence. So, for me, there are 3 aspects to this philosophy. So this is a quote from the famous Ferris Bueller. The primary facet to my philosophy is that Im ok with what I eventually cant do when you consider that there may be so much i will do.Now men and women oftentimes inquire from me questions like, "Isnt it hard residing with Progeria?" or "What daily challenges of Progeria do you face?" And id like to say that, despite the fact that i’ve Progeria, most of my time is spent serious about things that have nothing to do with Progeria at all. Now this doesnt imply that I ignore the poor facets of these obstacles. After I cant do something like run an extended distance, or go on an extreme curler coaster, i know what Im lacking out on.But instead, I pick to focus on the movements that i will be able to do via matters that Im captivated with, like scouting, or track, or comic books, or any of my favorite Boston sporting activities groups. Yeah, so — (Laughter) nonetheless, many times I must in finding a different technique to do some thing by way of making adjustments, and i want to put those matters in the "can do" category. Style of like you noticed with the drum prior.So heres a clip with me enjoying Spider-Man with the Foxboro high university Marching Band at halftime a few years ago. (Video) Spider-Man theme music (Applause) thank you. All right, all correct, so — That used to be lovely cool, and so I was capable to achieve my dream of taking part in snare drum with the marching band, as I think i can do for all of my goals.So with a bit of luck, which you can accomplish your desires as well, with this outlook. The subsequent side to my philosophy is that I encompass myself with folks I need to be with, men and women of high high-quality. Im particularly fortunate to have an mighty family, who have continually supported me for the period of my complete lifestyles. And Im also particularly lucky to have a particularly shut group of buddies at college. Now had been type of goofy, various us are band geeks, however we particularly experience every others manufacturer, and we aid each and every other out once we have to. We see each and every different for who we are on the inside. So this is us goofing off just a little bit. So have been juniors in excessive college now, and we will now mentor younger band participants, as a single collective unit. What i love about being in a bunch like the band, is that the track that we make together, is true, is exact, and it supersedes Progeria. So I dont ought to fear about that once Im feeling so just right about making tune.However even having made a documentary, occurring television a few times, I believe like Im at my best point when Im with the people that encompass me everyday. They provide the true constructive influences in my lifestyles, as i am hoping i can provide a optimistic influence in theirs as good. (Applause) thank you. So the bottom line here, is that i’m hoping you recognize and love your household, love your acquaintances, for you guys, love you Bros and acknowledge your mentors, and your group, considering the fact that they are an extraordinarily real side of daily life, they are able to make a real giant, confident affect.The 1/3 aspect to the philosophy is, preserve relocating ahead. Heres a quote via a person you may also be aware of, named Walt Disney, and its one in all my favorite prices. I perpetually attempt to have whatever to look ahead to. Something to try for to make my lifestyles richer. It doesnt need to be big. It could be some thing from looking ahead to the next comic ebook to come out, or going on a gigantic household vacation, or placing out with my friends, to going to the next excessive tuition football sport. Nonetheless, all of these matters preserve me centered, and understand that theres a shiny future ahead, and could get me by way of some problematic instances that I is also having.Now this mentality entails staying in a forward pondering state of mind. I try difficult to not waste vigour feeling badly for myself, considering that when I do, I get caught in a paradox, the place theres no room for any happiness or any other emotion. Now, its now not that I ignore when Im feeling badly, I variety of take delivery of it, I let it in, so that i will be able to renowned it, and do what I need to do to maneuver past it.Once I used to be younger, I desired to be an engineer. I desired to be an inventor, who would catapult the world into a greater future. Might be this got here from my love of Legos, and the freedom of expression that I felt when I used to be constructing with them. And this was once also derived from my family and my mentors, who at all times make me think whole, and good about myself. Now today my ambitions have transformed a bit of bit, id like to go into the field of Biology, probably telephone biology, or genetics, or biochemistry, or fairly some thing. It is a friend of mine, who I appear as much as, Francis Collins, the director of the NIH, and this is us at TEDMED final yr, chatting away. I suppose that it doesn’t matter what I choose to become, I suppose that i can alternate the world.And as Im striving to vary the arena, I will likely be blissful. About 4 years ago, HBO commenced to film a documentary about my loved ones and me called life in step with Sam. That was a horny pleasant experience, nevertheless it was once also 4 years in the past. And like anybody, my views on many things have changed, and optimistically matured, like my abilities profession option. However, some matters have stayed the equal during that point. Like my mentality, and philosophy toward lifestyles. So I want to show you a clip of my more youthful self from the movie, that I believe embodies that philosophy.(Video) i do know extra about it genetically. So its less of an embodiment now. It used to be like this factor that forestalls me from doing all these things, that causes other youngsters to die, that explanations everybody to be careworn, and now its a protein that’s irregular, that weakens the structure of cells. So, and it takes a burden off of me considering that now I dont have to feel about Progeria as an entity. Okay, lovely good, huh? (Applause) thanks. So, as you will find Ive been thinking this fashion for many years. But id never fairly had to practice all of those elements of my philosophy to the scan at one time, unless final January. I used to be pretty ill, I had a chest bloodless, and that i used to be within the medical institution for a couple of days, and that i used to be secluded from the entire elements of my life that I felt made me, me, that sort of gave me my identification.But realizing that I was going to get better, and looking forward to a time that i would consider good again, helped me to maintain relocating ahead. And many times I needed to be courageous, and it wasnt constantly effortless. Repeatedly I faltered, I had bad days, but i spotted that being courageous isnt presupposed to be easy. And for me, I consider its the important thing way to maintain moving forward. So, all in all, I dont waste vigour feeling unhealthy for myself. I encompass myself with humans that I want to be with, and that i preserve relocating forward. So with this philosophy, i am hoping that every one of you, regardless of your boundaries, can have an awfully pleased existence as well. Oh, wait, hang on a 2nd, another piece of advice – (Laughter) under no circumstances miss a party if you can help it. My colleges homecoming dance is day after today night, and that i might be there. Thanks very much. (Applause) .
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batterymonster2021 · 5 years ago
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My philosophy for a happy life | Sam Berns | TEDxMidAtlantic
New Post has been published on https://hititem.kr/my-philosophy-for-a-happy-life-sam-berns-tedxmidatlantic/
My philosophy for a happy life | Sam Berns | TEDxMidAtlantic
Translator: Bob Prottas Reviewer: Ariana Bleau Lugo howdy every person. I am Sam, and that i just turned 17. A couple of years ago, before my freshman year in high school, I wanted to play snare drum in the Foxboro excessive tuition Marching Band, and it used to be a dream that I simply had to accomplish. However every snare drum and harness weighed about 40 kilos every, and i’ve a ailment called Progeria. So simply to offer you an concept, I weigh best about 50 pounds. So, logistically, I fairly could not elevate a standard sized snare drum, and considering of this the band director assigned me to play pit percussion during the halftime exhibit. Now pit percussion was fun. It concerned some rather cool auxiliary percussion devices, like the bongos, timpani, and timbales, and cowbell. So it used to be enjoyable, nevertheless it concerned no marching, and that i used to be in order that devastated. Nevertheless, nothing used to be going to discontinue me from taking part in snare drum with the marching band within the halftime exhibit. So my loved ones and i worked with an engineer to design a snare drum harness that would be lighter, and simpler for me to hold. So after continuous work, we made a snare drum apparatus that weighs best about 6 kilos.(Applause) I just want to offer you some extra know-how about Progeria. It impacts most effective about 350 children at present, worldwide. So it’s pretty rare, and the consequences of Progeria comprise: tight epidermis, lack of weight acquire, stunted development, and heart disease. Final year my mom and her crew of scientists published the primary triumphant Progeria cure learn, and in view that of this I used to be interviewed on NPR, and John Hamilton asked me the question: "what’s the essential thing that folks must know about you?" And my reply was with ease that i’ve an awfully joyful lifestyles. (Applause) So although there are a lot of boundaries in my life, with a number of them being created by using Progeria, I don’t want persons to consider bad for me. I don’t feel about these limitations all the time, and i’m ready to beat most of them anyway. So Im here in these days, to share with you my philosophy for a pleased existence. So, for me, there are 3 aspects to this philosophy. So this is a quote from the famous Ferris Bueller. The primary facet to my philosophy is that Im ok with what I eventually cant do when you consider that there may be so much i will do.Now men and women oftentimes inquire from me questions like, "Isnt it hard residing with Progeria?" or "What daily challenges of Progeria do you face?" And id like to say that, despite the fact that i’ve Progeria, most of my time is spent serious about things that have nothing to do with Progeria at all. Now this doesnt imply that I ignore the poor facets of these obstacles. After I cant do something like run an extended distance, or go on an extreme curler coaster, i know what Im lacking out on.But instead, I pick to focus on the movements that i will be able to do via matters that Im captivated with, like scouting, or track, or comic books, or any of my favorite Boston sporting activities groups. Yeah, so — (Laughter) nonetheless, many times I must in finding a different technique to do some thing by way of making adjustments, and i want to put those matters in the "can do" category. Style of like you noticed with the drum prior.So heres a clip with me enjoying Spider-Man with the Foxboro high university Marching Band at halftime a few years ago. (Video) Spider-Man theme music (Applause) thank you. All right, all correct, so — That used to be lovely cool, and so I was capable to achieve my dream of taking part in snare drum with the marching band, as I think i can do for all of my goals.So with a bit of luck, which you can accomplish your desires as well, with this outlook. The subsequent side to my philosophy is that I encompass myself with folks I need to be with, men and women of high high-quality. Im particularly fortunate to have an mighty family, who have continually supported me for the period of my complete lifestyles. And Im also particularly lucky to have a particularly shut group of buddies at college. Now had been type of goofy, various us are band geeks, however we particularly experience every others manufacturer, and we aid each and every other out once we have to. We see each and every different for who we are on the inside. So this is us goofing off just a little bit. So have been juniors in excessive college now, and we will now mentor younger band participants, as a single collective unit. What i love about being in a bunch like the band, is that the track that we make together, is true, is exact, and it supersedes Progeria. So I dont ought to fear about that once Im feeling so just right about making tune.However even having made a documentary, occurring television a few times, I believe like Im at my best point when Im with the people that encompass me everyday. They provide the true constructive influences in my lifestyles, as i am hoping i can provide a optimistic influence in theirs as good. (Applause) thank you. So the bottom line here, is that i’m hoping you recognize and love your household, love your acquaintances, for you guys, love you Bros and acknowledge your mentors, and your group, considering the fact that they are an extraordinarily real side of daily life, they are able to make a real giant, confident affect.The 1/3 aspect to the philosophy is, preserve relocating ahead. Heres a quote via a person you may also be aware of, named Walt Disney, and its one in all my favorite prices. I perpetually attempt to have whatever to look ahead to. Something to try for to make my lifestyles richer. It doesnt need to be big. It could be some thing from looking ahead to the next comic ebook to come out, or going on a gigantic household vacation, or placing out with my friends, to going to the next excessive tuition football sport. Nonetheless, all of these matters preserve me centered, and understand that theres a shiny future ahead, and could get me by way of some problematic instances that I is also having.Now this mentality entails staying in a forward pondering state of mind. I try difficult to not waste vigour feeling badly for myself, considering that when I do, I get caught in a paradox, the place theres no room for any happiness or any other emotion. Now, its now not that I ignore when Im feeling badly, I variety of take delivery of it, I let it in, so that i will be able to renowned it, and do what I need to do to maneuver past it.Once I used to be younger, I desired to be an engineer. I desired to be an inventor, who would catapult the world into a greater future. Might be this got here from my love of Legos, and the freedom of expression that I felt when I used to be constructing with them. And this was once also derived from my family and my mentors, who at all times make me think whole, and good about myself. Now today my ambitions have transformed a bit of bit, id like to go into the field of Biology, probably telephone biology, or genetics, or biochemistry, or fairly some thing. It is a friend of mine, who I appear as much as, Francis Collins, the director of the NIH, and this is us at TEDMED final yr, chatting away. I suppose that it doesn’t matter what I choose to become, I suppose that i can alternate the world.And as Im striving to vary the arena, I will likely be blissful. About 4 years ago, HBO commenced to film a documentary about my loved ones and me called life in step with Sam. That was a horny pleasant experience, nevertheless it was once also 4 years in the past. And like anybody, my views on many things have changed, and optimistically matured, like my abilities profession option. However, some matters have stayed the equal during that point. Like my mentality, and philosophy toward lifestyles. So I want to show you a clip of my more youthful self from the movie, that I believe embodies that philosophy.(Video) i do know extra about it genetically. So its less of an embodiment now. It used to be like this factor that forestalls me from doing all these things, that causes other youngsters to die, that explanations everybody to be careworn, and now its a protein that’s irregular, that weakens the structure of cells. So, and it takes a burden off of me considering that now I dont have to feel about Progeria as an entity. Okay, lovely good, huh? (Applause) thanks. So, as you will find Ive been thinking this fashion for many years. But id never fairly had to practice all of those elements of my philosophy to the scan at one time, unless final January. I used to be pretty ill, I had a chest bloodless, and that i used to be within the medical institution for a couple of days, and that i used to be secluded from the entire elements of my life that I felt made me, me, that sort of gave me my identification.But realizing that I was going to get better, and looking forward to a time that i would consider good again, helped me to maintain relocating ahead. And many times I needed to be courageous, and it wasnt constantly effortless. Repeatedly I faltered, I had bad days, but i spotted that being courageous isnt presupposed to be easy. And for me, I consider its the important thing way to maintain moving forward. So, all in all, I dont waste vigour feeling unhealthy for myself. I encompass myself with humans that I want to be with, and that i preserve relocating forward. So with this philosophy, i am hoping that every one of you, regardless of your boundaries, can have an awfully pleased existence as well. Oh, wait, hang on a 2nd, another piece of advice – (Laughter) under no circumstances miss a party if you can help it. My colleges homecoming dance is day after today night, and that i might be there. Thanks very much. (Applause) .
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My philosophy for a happy life | Sam Berns | TEDxMidAtlantic
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My philosophy for a happy life | Sam Berns | TEDxMidAtlantic
Translator: Bob Prottas Reviewer: Ariana Bleau Lugo howdy every person. I am Sam, and that i just turned 17. A couple of years ago, before my freshman year in high school, I wanted to play snare drum in the Foxboro excessive tuition Marching Band, and it used to be a dream that I simply had to accomplish. However every snare drum and harness weighed about 40 kilos every, and i’ve a ailment called Progeria. So simply to offer you an concept, I weigh best about 50 pounds. So, logistically, I fairly could not elevate a standard sized snare drum, and considering of this the band director assigned me to play pit percussion during the halftime exhibit. Now pit percussion was fun. It concerned some rather cool auxiliary percussion devices, like the bongos, timpani, and timbales, and cowbell. So it used to be enjoyable, nevertheless it concerned no marching, and that i used to be in order that devastated. Nevertheless, nothing used to be going to discontinue me from taking part in snare drum with the marching band within the halftime exhibit. So my loved ones and i worked with an engineer to design a snare drum harness that would be lighter, and simpler for me to hold. So after continuous work, we made a snare drum apparatus that weighs best about 6 kilos.(Applause) I just want to offer you some extra know-how about Progeria. It impacts most effective about 350 children at present, worldwide. So it’s pretty rare, and the consequences of Progeria comprise: tight epidermis, lack of weight acquire, stunted development, and heart disease. Final year my mom and her crew of scientists published the primary triumphant Progeria cure learn, and in view that of this I used to be interviewed on NPR, and John Hamilton asked me the question: "what’s the essential thing that folks must know about you?" And my reply was with ease that i’ve an awfully joyful lifestyles. (Applause) So although there are a lot of boundaries in my life, with a number of them being created by using Progeria, I don’t want persons to consider bad for me. I don’t feel about these limitations all the time, and i’m ready to beat most of them anyway. So Im here in these days, to share with you my philosophy for a pleased existence. So, for me, there are 3 aspects to this philosophy. So this is a quote from the famous Ferris Bueller. The primary facet to my philosophy is that Im ok with what I eventually cant do when you consider that there may be so much i will do.Now men and women oftentimes inquire from me questions like, "Isnt it hard residing with Progeria?" or "What daily challenges of Progeria do you face?" And id like to say that, despite the fact that i’ve Progeria, most of my time is spent serious about things that have nothing to do with Progeria at all. Now this doesnt imply that I ignore the poor facets of these obstacles. After I cant do something like run an extended distance, or go on an extreme curler coaster, i know what Im lacking out on.But instead, I pick to focus on the movements that i will be able to do via matters that Im captivated with, like scouting, or track, or comic books, or any of my favorite Boston sporting activities groups. Yeah, so — (Laughter) nonetheless, many times I must in finding a different technique to do some thing by way of making adjustments, and i want to put those matters in the "can do" category. Style of like you noticed with the drum prior.So heres a clip with me enjoying Spider-Man with the Foxboro high university Marching Band at halftime a few years ago. (Video) Spider-Man theme music (Applause) thank you. All right, all correct, so — That used to be lovely cool, and so I was capable to achieve my dream of taking part in snare drum with the marching band, as I think i can do for all of my goals.So with a bit of luck, which you can accomplish your desires as well, with this outlook. The subsequent side to my philosophy is that I encompass myself with folks I need to be with, men and women of high high-quality. Im particularly fortunate to have an mighty family, who have continually supported me for the period of my complete lifestyles. And Im also particularly lucky to have a particularly shut group of buddies at college. Now had been type of goofy, various us are band geeks, however we particularly experience every others manufacturer, and we aid each and every other out once we have to. We see each and every different for who we are on the inside. So this is us goofing off just a little bit. So have been juniors in excessive college now, and we will now mentor younger band participants, as a single collective unit. What i love about being in a bunch like the band, is that the track that we make together, is true, is exact, and it supersedes Progeria. So I dont ought to fear about that once Im feeling so just right about making tune.However even having made a documentary, occurring television a few times, I believe like Im at my best point when Im with the people that encompass me everyday. They provide the true constructive influences in my lifestyles, as i am hoping i can provide a optimistic influence in theirs as good. (Applause) thank you. So the bottom line here, is that i’m hoping you recognize and love your household, love your acquaintances, for you guys, love you Bros and acknowledge your mentors, and your group, considering the fact that they are an extraordinarily real side of daily life, they are able to make a real giant, confident affect.The 1/3 aspect to the philosophy is, preserve relocating ahead. Heres a quote via a person you may also be aware of, named Walt Disney, and its one in all my favorite prices. I perpetually attempt to have whatever to look ahead to. Something to try for to make my lifestyles richer. It doesnt need to be big. It could be some thing from looking ahead to the next comic ebook to come out, or going on a gigantic household vacation, or placing out with my friends, to going to the next excessive tuition football sport. Nonetheless, all of these matters preserve me centered, and understand that theres a shiny future ahead, and could get me by way of some problematic instances that I is also having.Now this mentality entails staying in a forward pondering state of mind. I try difficult to not waste vigour feeling badly for myself, considering that when I do, I get caught in a paradox, the place theres no room for any happiness or any other emotion. Now, its now not that I ignore when Im feeling badly, I variety of take delivery of it, I let it in, so that i will be able to renowned it, and do what I need to do to maneuver past it.Once I used to be younger, I desired to be an engineer. I desired to be an inventor, who would catapult the world into a greater future. Might be this got here from my love of Legos, and the freedom of expression that I felt when I used to be constructing with them. And this was once also derived from my family and my mentors, who at all times make me think whole, and good about myself. Now today my ambitions have transformed a bit of bit, id like to go into the field of Biology, probably telephone biology, or genetics, or biochemistry, or fairly some thing. It is a friend of mine, who I appear as much as, Francis Collins, the director of the NIH, and this is us at TEDMED final yr, chatting away. I suppose that it doesn’t matter what I choose to become, I suppose that i can alternate the world.And as Im striving to vary the arena, I will likely be blissful. About 4 years ago, HBO commenced to film a documentary about my loved ones and me called life in step with Sam. That was a horny pleasant experience, nevertheless it was once also 4 years in the past. And like anybody, my views on many things have changed, and optimistically matured, like my abilities profession option. However, some matters have stayed the equal during that point. Like my mentality, and philosophy toward lifestyles. So I want to show you a clip of my more youthful self from the movie, that I believe embodies that philosophy.(Video) i do know extra about it genetically. So its less of an embodiment now. It used to be like this factor that forestalls me from doing all these things, that causes other youngsters to die, that explanations everybody to be careworn, and now its a protein that’s irregular, that weakens the structure of cells. So, and it takes a burden off of me considering that now I dont have to feel about Progeria as an entity. Okay, lovely good, huh? (Applause) thanks. So, as you will find Ive been thinking this fashion for many years. But id never fairly had to practice all of those elements of my philosophy to the scan at one time, unless final January. I used to be pretty ill, I had a chest bloodless, and that i used to be within the medical institution for a couple of days, and that i used to be secluded from the entire elements of my life that I felt made me, me, that sort of gave me my identification.But realizing that I was going to get better, and looking forward to a time that i would consider good again, helped me to maintain relocating ahead. And many times I needed to be courageous, and it wasnt constantly effortless. Repeatedly I faltered, I had bad days, but i spotted that being courageous isnt presupposed to be easy. And for me, I consider its the important thing way to maintain moving forward. So, all in all, I dont waste vigour feeling unhealthy for myself. I encompass myself with humans that I want to be with, and that i preserve relocating forward. So with this philosophy, i am hoping that every one of you, regardless of your boundaries, can have an awfully pleased existence as well. Oh, wait, hang on a 2nd, another piece of advice – (Laughter) under no circumstances miss a party if you can help it. My colleges homecoming dance is day after today night, and that i might be there. Thanks very much. (Applause) .
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My philosophy for a happy life | Sam Berns | TEDxMidAtlantic
New Post has been published on https://hititem.kr/my-philosophy-for-a-happy-life-sam-berns-tedxmidatlantic/
My philosophy for a happy life | Sam Berns | TEDxMidAtlantic
Translator: Bob Prottas Reviewer: Ariana Bleau Lugo howdy every person. I am Sam, and that i just turned 17. A couple of years ago, before my freshman year in high school, I wanted to play snare drum in the Foxboro excessive tuition Marching Band, and it used to be a dream that I simply had to accomplish. However every snare drum and harness weighed about 40 kilos every, and i’ve a ailment called Progeria. So simply to offer you an concept, I weigh best about 50 pounds. So, logistically, I fairly could not elevate a standard sized snare drum, and considering of this the band director assigned me to play pit percussion during the halftime exhibit. Now pit percussion was fun. It concerned some rather cool auxiliary percussion devices, like the bongos, timpani, and timbales, and cowbell. So it used to be enjoyable, nevertheless it concerned no marching, and that i used to be in order that devastated. Nevertheless, nothing used to be going to discontinue me from taking part in snare drum with the marching band within the halftime exhibit. So my loved ones and i worked with an engineer to design a snare drum harness that would be lighter, and simpler for me to hold. So after continuous work, we made a snare drum apparatus that weighs best about 6 kilos.(Applause) I just want to offer you some extra know-how about Progeria. It impacts most effective about 350 children at present, worldwide. So it’s pretty rare, and the consequences of Progeria comprise: tight epidermis, lack of weight acquire, stunted development, and heart disease. Final year my mom and her crew of scientists published the primary triumphant Progeria cure learn, and in view that of this I used to be interviewed on NPR, and John Hamilton asked me the question: "what’s the essential thing that folks must know about you?" And my reply was with ease that i’ve an awfully joyful lifestyles. (Applause) So although there are a lot of boundaries in my life, with a number of them being created by using Progeria, I don’t want persons to consider bad for me. I don’t feel about these limitations all the time, and i’m ready to beat most of them anyway. So Im here in these days, to share with you my philosophy for a pleased existence. So, for me, there are 3 aspects to this philosophy. So this is a quote from the famous Ferris Bueller. The primary facet to my philosophy is that Im ok with what I eventually cant do when you consider that there may be so much i will do.Now men and women oftentimes inquire from me questions like, "Isnt it hard residing with Progeria?" or "What daily challenges of Progeria do you face?" And id like to say that, despite the fact that i’ve Progeria, most of my time is spent serious about things that have nothing to do with Progeria at all. Now this doesnt imply that I ignore the poor facets of these obstacles. After I cant do something like run an extended distance, or go on an extreme curler coaster, i know what Im lacking out on.But instead, I pick to focus on the movements that i will be able to do via matters that Im captivated with, like scouting, or track, or comic books, or any of my favorite Boston sporting activities groups. Yeah, so — (Laughter) nonetheless, many times I must in finding a different technique to do some thing by way of making adjustments, and i want to put those matters in the "can do" category. Style of like you noticed with the drum prior.So heres a clip with me enjoying Spider-Man with the Foxboro high university Marching Band at halftime a few years ago. (Video) Spider-Man theme music (Applause) thank you. All right, all correct, so — That used to be lovely cool, and so I was capable to achieve my dream of taking part in snare drum with the marching band, as I think i can do for all of my goals.So with a bit of luck, which you can accomplish your desires as well, with this outlook. The subsequent side to my philosophy is that I encompass myself with folks I need to be with, men and women of high high-quality. Im particularly fortunate to have an mighty family, who have continually supported me for the period of my complete lifestyles. And Im also particularly lucky to have a particularly shut group of buddies at college. Now had been type of goofy, various us are band geeks, however we particularly experience every others manufacturer, and we aid each and every other out once we have to. We see each and every different for who we are on the inside. So this is us goofing off just a little bit. So have been juniors in excessive college now, and we will now mentor younger band participants, as a single collective unit. What i love about being in a bunch like the band, is that the track that we make together, is true, is exact, and it supersedes Progeria. So I dont ought to fear about that once Im feeling so just right about making tune.However even having made a documentary, occurring television a few times, I believe like Im at my best point when Im with the people that encompass me everyday. They provide the true constructive influences in my lifestyles, as i am hoping i can provide a optimistic influence in theirs as good. (Applause) thank you. So the bottom line here, is that i’m hoping you recognize and love your household, love your acquaintances, for you guys, love you Bros and acknowledge your mentors, and your group, considering the fact that they are an extraordinarily real side of daily life, they are able to make a real giant, confident affect.The 1/3 aspect to the philosophy is, preserve relocating ahead. Heres a quote via a person you may also be aware of, named Walt Disney, and its one in all my favorite prices. I perpetually attempt to have whatever to look ahead to. Something to try for to make my lifestyles richer. It doesnt need to be big. It could be some thing from looking ahead to the next comic ebook to come out, or going on a gigantic household vacation, or placing out with my friends, to going to the next excessive tuition football sport. Nonetheless, all of these matters preserve me centered, and understand that theres a shiny future ahead, and could get me by way of some problematic instances that I is also having.Now this mentality entails staying in a forward pondering state of mind. I try difficult to not waste vigour feeling badly for myself, considering that when I do, I get caught in a paradox, the place theres no room for any happiness or any other emotion. Now, its now not that I ignore when Im feeling badly, I variety of take delivery of it, I let it in, so that i will be able to renowned it, and do what I need to do to maneuver past it.Once I used to be younger, I desired to be an engineer. I desired to be an inventor, who would catapult the world into a greater future. Might be this got here from my love of Legos, and the freedom of expression that I felt when I used to be constructing with them. And this was once also derived from my family and my mentors, who at all times make me think whole, and good about myself. Now today my ambitions have transformed a bit of bit, id like to go into the field of Biology, probably telephone biology, or genetics, or biochemistry, or fairly some thing. It is a friend of mine, who I appear as much as, Francis Collins, the director of the NIH, and this is us at TEDMED final yr, chatting away. I suppose that it doesn’t matter what I choose to become, I suppose that i can alternate the world.And as Im striving to vary the arena, I will likely be blissful. About 4 years ago, HBO commenced to film a documentary about my loved ones and me called life in step with Sam. That was a horny pleasant experience, nevertheless it was once also 4 years in the past. And like anybody, my views on many things have changed, and optimistically matured, like my abilities profession option. However, some matters have stayed the equal during that point. Like my mentality, and philosophy toward lifestyles. So I want to show you a clip of my more youthful self from the movie, that I believe embodies that philosophy.(Video) i do know extra about it genetically. So its less of an embodiment now. It used to be like this factor that forestalls me from doing all these things, that causes other youngsters to die, that explanations everybody to be careworn, and now its a protein that’s irregular, that weakens the structure of cells. So, and it takes a burden off of me considering that now I dont have to feel about Progeria as an entity. Okay, lovely good, huh? (Applause) thanks. So, as you will find Ive been thinking this fashion for many years. But id never fairly had to practice all of those elements of my philosophy to the scan at one time, unless final January. I used to be pretty ill, I had a chest bloodless, and that i used to be within the medical institution for a couple of days, and that i used to be secluded from the entire elements of my life that I felt made me, me, that sort of gave me my identification.But realizing that I was going to get better, and looking forward to a time that i would consider good again, helped me to maintain relocating ahead. And many times I needed to be courageous, and it wasnt constantly effortless. Repeatedly I faltered, I had bad days, but i spotted that being courageous isnt presupposed to be easy. And for me, I consider its the important thing way to maintain moving forward. So, all in all, I dont waste vigour feeling unhealthy for myself. I encompass myself with humans that I want to be with, and that i preserve relocating forward. So with this philosophy, i am hoping that every one of you, regardless of your boundaries, can have an awfully pleased existence as well. Oh, wait, hang on a 2nd, another piece of advice – (Laughter) under no circumstances miss a party if you can help it. My colleges homecoming dance is day after today night, and that i might be there. Thanks very much. (Applause) .
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