#im just matching energy after all 🤷🏻‍♀️

[banditsregina]

15 questions and 15 mutuals

thank you for the tags 🥹 @gilliandersons @sophiedevreaux

were you named after anyone?

nope! my parents just liked the name. was almost a lauren until they changed their mind at the last minute

when was the last time you cried?

i'm a crier so its very easy for me to cry lol most recently was probably over my cat but give me anything sort of sad and those tears are flowing

do you have kids?

mo

do you use sarcasm a lot?

sometimes, usually only when joking around with people i'm close to.

what's the first thing you notice about people?

eyes and teeth/smile. i find myself staring at people's mouths a lot when i talk to them 😬 not in a 'i want to kiss you' way but in a 'neurodivergent it helps me hear' way so that's generally what im drawn to first.

what's your eye color?

brown or as my friend once said 'hey your eyes match the whiskey bottles!'

scary movies or happy endings?

happy endings forever and ever

any special talents?

i...dont know if i really have any. i consider myself a very good listener for people where they feel its easy to talk about anything with and a good sounding board for them to bounce ideas off of. 🤷🏻‍♀️

where were you born?

wisconsin. midwest baby!

what are your hobbies?

oh man.. reading, watching tv, doing a puzzle, playing games. if i have the time and energy, making costumes/dressing up for things like ren faire!

have any pets?

my cat, dottie, the queen of my household

what sports do you play/have you played?

does marching band count... or tennis for fun lol

how tall are you?

5'2''

favorite subject in school?

i loved school so most of them! but english, music, french class the most. but science and math were fun too! i loved my environmental science class a lot a lot.

dream job?

i've never really had a 'dream job' exactly but im drawn to entertainment in any form. theatre, music, film. so something in that industry would be great to get back to!

tagging: i feel like i've seen this all over my dash already so if you havent done it yet, consider this your tag!

[icysab]

Hello ! I was wondering if I could get a enha match up please !

I think I’m auite pale, dark brown eyes and dyed hair, I think i look like jelly ( im the duff of my friend group 🙏 ) and I’m 168cm. I also wear glasses bc your girl is blind.

I’m a Libra , my mbti is isfj. I’m shy around new people but literally insnae around my friends. I also get very awkward easily HAHA I also stone and space out a lot

I LOVE LOVE LOVEEE music , photography and books. I’m a hopeless romantic HEHE. I’m not a gamer at all and the only games I play are like candy crush etc 💀. I love the grandma lifestyle ( like sleeping early). I LOVE TEA !! ( like both gossip and actual tea ). I also loveeee makeup hehehehe

I also like to think that my music taste is top tier because I listent to a range of music , I love chill pop or like just vibey songs like if and/or when by Ruel, or last call by will linely ( IVE BEEN VERY INTO THEM LIKE RN ). I’m not sure if you realise but it’s all about the vibes for me 🙏

For my dress style i don’t really have a fixed one ?! Because I like a spectrum of Aestethics that I like and my wardrobe reflects that a lot, some days I just don’t care how I dress, other days I dress really nicely. It really depends on my mood 🤷🏻‍♀️🧌. I also like neutrals a lot tho and IM A PROUD SILVER GIRLY !!! I think ?!🙏😨

For my ideal type I told my friends about my ideal type and they all said I’m crazy bc I have crazy high standards ( honestly I don’t think my standards are high, the bar is just in hell💀🧌). My type is basically bare minimum, tall, someone who I can have banters with and just have good vibes with me in general. ( I also like the get teased?! Like as a joke ygwim)

For my ideal date there’s nothing that come to mind but more of having good vibes, getting to know each other more in depth or just bonding a lot and both parties just enjoying the date.

I think for my green flags I don’t really hold grudges?? Like if it’s nothing big then I’ll just forgive and forget you know, I’m also a very un-dry texter ( I’m that someone who just replies very fast , unless I’m studying ) , I think im very patient towards my friends, I also think I’m unintentionally funny? I’m also very aware of my mistakes ( but in the event that I don’t realise, when someone tells me I’m not afraid to own up to them ) I also am someone who always seeks improvement for myself and I usually adapt to situations fast

My beige flags are that I’m a very out of pocket person ( I would say the randomest things ever, obviously not inappropriately but some people may find me annoying), I can get unintentionally too loud at times when I get excited, I just get very loud and I don’t realise it , I’m also crazy delusional like genuinely I’m super delusional ( could be a green , beige or red flag 🤷🏻‍♀️ it really depends )

My red flags are probably my anger issues , I get irritated very easily( depends but sometimes it’s at people and at situations), when I get angry I usually calm down fast , I don’t think I actually felt so angry in my life that I needed to go beat someone up ( i also get violent thoughts like how I wanna slap someone when I’m irritated or angry , but I usually just calm down after that and I’m over it ), I’m a perfectionist ( I think this trait really depends ) but like I hate it when things don’t go perfectly or how I want it to and i just get frustrated. I also switch off very fast when my energy isn’t being reciprocated. I’m actually very insercure and I just don’t show it , I also have a low self esteem. Lastly I think I just do things without thinking ( I’m more of an act first then think later person).

My love languages are physical touch and quality time( that’s like a lot but HAHAHA). I’m not afraid to hug someone after I’m comfortable with them. I also really like the idea of just spending time in someone’s presence. ( but I’m a sucker for words of affirmation like 🤭🤭🧎‍♀️🧎‍♀️🧎‍♀️)

Also I’ve never dated , never been confessed to, never had a crush and have been the designated single friend 😨

OKAY I THINK THATS ALL !! I’m so sorry for making it so long but I hope it wasn’t too long for you to read 💀 TYSM FOR READING THIS 🤍🤍🤍 I hope things go smoothly for you in boarding school !!!

SUNGHOOON !!!! 💗💗 you guys match each other sooo well and i think he’s def your type. i also think your red, beige, and green flags match very well and i could see a super stable relationship. he’s definitely delusional as hell also (he’s so the type to kick his feet over a girl) so the chase before you guys start dating would be SOOO fun since you’re both crazy (i say this affectionately).

also thank you! it definitely wasn’t too long to read :) i didn’t know i put on this blog that i do boarding school?? but i guess so lol

[brattata]

Hi I was looking for an 18+ matchup for hxh

F W and J fluff alphabet

My zodiac is Aquarius sun and scorpio moon I’m kinda moody but I have a peppy style im short and chubby but I am also adorable. I’m chronically ill but still have high energy just not really enough physical energy. I prefer villains because they are fun. Please and thank you :)

Alright, more HxH! And a villain request too, hehe 😈

This one has some yandere-ish themes, but nothing heavy or graphic. I hope that’s okay.

I wasn’t sure if you wanted a particular gender of partner, but regardless, I think you match nicely with a guy named…

Shalnark! If you’re after a fun villain, look no further. Idk, reading your description just really gave me Shal vibes. He’s also energetic, but not physically bouncing off the walls, so I think he’d easily respect your needs and preferences there. He’s very go-with-the flow, so I don’t think you’d have to worry about hurting or offending him if you’re being moody. And it’s not that important, but I think you’d also look cute together, aesthetically.

F is for Fight:

So, you might argue with Shalnark from time to time, but I don’t think it’s possible to really “fight” with him. The man just doesn’t get angry. On the positive side, when you two disagree about something, you can talk it out with him rationally and he’s totally willing and able to change his mind if you make a good argument. On the negative side, if you’re in a bad mood and pissed at him and you’re just trying to get a rise out of him, you won’t have that satisfaction.

J is for Jealousy:

Shalnark is jealous in the old-fashioned sense of the word. He low-key feels like you belong to him, and he’s not going to let some stranger mess with his stuff. If people to him are like toys and puppets, you’re basically a prize collector’s item, never removed from box. He trusts the other Spiders not to break you, so it’s fine if you’re close to any of them - as long as you’re not getting in anyone’s way or asking questions you shouldn’t. However, once you start getting serious with Shal, you might notice a lot of your friends and family calling you out of the blue to say they don’t want to see you anymore, or even straight-up ghosting you. It sucks, but people just grow apart I guess. 🤷🏻‍♀️

W is for Wild Card:

When you’re spending time together, I could see Shalnark wanting you to sit in his lap. It keeps you close, and it just feels really good to hold you since you’re so cute and soft. He might be annoying about it sometimes - like, tickle you if you look like you’re concentrating hard, or start reading your book aloud over your shoulder. It’s all in good fun though! If you’re really mad, he’ll stop (buuuut he’s probably not sorry, fwiw).

Thanks for participating (and following me), and I hope you enjoyed your matchup! 🥰