#im hyperverbal and that includes text

[polychaeteworm]

I'm not trying to reopen this, as I've blocked the person in question. I just know a lot of people who follow me but not Saira know the person claiming he's vague posting about them and I want y'all to see that Saira isn't talking about that person, since as far as I know, they haven't admitted that they were mistaken. If they did I would be silent right now. I will delete this post if someone informs me that they have. I'm just bothered when I see lies being traded around behind the back of the alter I look after, my friend and lover who has tried so fucking hard to even be able to speak.

After investigating, yeah, the mistaken person made a post with the word "embarrassing" in the cripplepunk tag in a similar time period to when Saira made the vague post about a coworker.

Sorry! Whoops. But also like why am I apologizing for a coincidence?

I think I remember seeing the post in question in passing but we didn't even see the tags on it. It is indeed kind of embarrassing to talk about ventilators to someone on one. My(and Saira's) actual opinion on how that completely separate argument was handled isn't even important because our shared human body is not on a vent. (And tbh I feel like that's the post in question? It's just genuinely not what Saira was griping about so I really don't know.) They really didn't say anything comparable beyond the word "embarrassing".

I'm not screen capping what Saira was talking about because it's long gone now, I'm not digging through the blog of someone I've long blocked, nor do I remember the exact wording/spelling of the tag to search it, but the tag Saira is actually talking about said something like "#having this poor of a reading comprehension must be sooo embarrassing" it was someone we knew IRL who claimed to be for disability rights. He's allowed to be upset about that kind of thing in a tag where people vent, sometimes angrily, about ableism? I thought? (Really sincerely wondering where the "cripples don't have to be nice, don't tone police people" folks are rn)

This other person whom I am not following nor are they following me, popped out of nowhere like 'i wasn't talking about reading comprehension".

Ok. So maybe that's prime evidence that Saira isn't talking about you? Why make an assumption about a stranger without asking first? I'm unsure how polite he needs to be to a stranger making an assumption and a false accusation about him when this is literally a flavor of trauma he's been through and you came out of nowhere.

Like confrontation from strangers bothers him a great deal and surprisingly he was actually more polite than he usually would be. You can see his comments on this post. No name calling, just a little frustration and "please leave me alone" .

This is someone in therapy working on the right way to express emotions. Maybe he was clumsy, but he was far from mean. He mentions he's a traumatized alter to say "I'm trying, I barely believe I exist" I'm still teaching him that people see that as an excuse. He doesn't really know how to say "I feel harassed" or "I don't understand" or "your assumption is triggering me" but it's a process.

I woke up ready to do damage control and apologize yesterday but I was busy trying to find a job for my chronically ill body, and now after having a look I'm not sure that I even need to or should say sorry to this person??(Genuine apologetic confusion)

I'm just blocking because I don't think this person is worth spending the spoons to interact with.

Talking to them will possibly just upset Saira more and I am more concerned about not doing anything to destabilize him during our job search.

if you aren't mutual with me then I ask, kindly, respectfully, please dont interact with this post. It is untagged and purely only so my own followers know what happened if they also know this person. Also if you do know who I'm talking about, please do not bother them about this, I'm sure they also have bigger issues and they would like to move on too.

I love you all have a great day sorry if we did anything at all to offend anyone.

Unfollowed another person who thinks it's just fucking chill to call people not fully communicating their point "embarrassing" in the tags.

[k1tty-f4ngz]

-- arcaneFeline [AF] began pestering you --

hi, hello, salutations! or however you humans greet one another. my name is michael, but i would heavily prefer mike, or maybe even mikey if youre a furrend :33 (you can also call me john or jade) welcome to my hellspace happy little corner of the internet!! yay!!! ˶ᗒᗜᗕ˵

₊˚ʚ ᗢ₊˚✧ ﾟ. about me -

(random facts about me, go go go!!! ˆᗜˆ)

{🍪} im probably the silliest, dorkiest, lamest, most uncool guy you will EVER meet. that is a threat. be scared of me

{🍪} internets favorite hikikomori loserpilled boyfailure yaoimaxxer

{🍪} im homoromantic, bisexual, ceptiwoman, and acespike.

{🍪} im trans, agender, demiboy, boyflux, and boything. but i just see myself as a little guyy :D!! i also use xenogenders. so... many... xenos... *dies*

{🍪} my main set of pronouns are he/they/it, but i also use, ahem...

h?/h!m/h☆s/h♡mself/that/catnip/sparkle/glitter/silly/friendship/hazard/meow/grr/hiss/mrrp/paw/kandi/heart/pixel/doodle/trinket/loser/weird/cringe/nerd/guts/gore/creature/:33/X3/⸸/💥/⭐/🍭. you can use all of them interchangeably or just he/him. whatever you find easiest

{🍪} im a little kitty (cat cladotherian) and a maned wolf and unspecified domestic dog therian. im also a cryptid, creature, void entity, kaimoji, demon, star otherkin, and heart aspect conceptkin. im also also a kyubey (madoka magica) fictionkin, nepeta leijon fictionkin, love strider fictionkin, jade harley fictionflicker, john egbert fictionflicker and consthete, jake english otherhearted, dirk strider otherhearted, and dave strider copinglink

{🍪} i have autism, avoidant personality disorder, social anxiety disorder, maladaptive daydreaming disorder, askinety, selective mutism, auditory processing disorder, hyperverbalism, dyscalculia, dermatophagia, and experiences of derealization and disassociation. yayy

{🍪} i am a MINOR so if youre uncomfortable with that or going to be weird about it then UNFOLLOW!!!

{🍪} i use the labels alderanimatum, anymic, etafreak, loser4loser, weirdo4weirdo, acrirepulsal, and monachoric

{🍪} my homestuck classpect is the SEER of HEART and my quest planet is the land of PONDS and WHIMSY (lopaw)

{🍪} i can fluctuate in and out of typing quirks depending on my mood. so. uh. do with that what you will if you find that important

₊˚ʚ ᗢ₊˚✧ ﾟ. interests -

{🍪} haha sooo neurotypical about homestuck. *i turn around and rub my hands together like a cartoonish villain* hehe they totally bought it >:]

{🍪} magical girl anime (madoka magica, smile precure, etc etc)

{🍪} phsycology and neuroscience

{🍪} typology

{🍪} 2000s-2010s internet culture

{🍪} cartoons!!! (2010 mlp, carebears, ever after high, etc)

{🍪} lucky star

{🍪} warrior cat roleplay

{🍪} probably some other things im forgetting :T

₊˚ʚ ᗢ₊˚✧ ﾟ. DNI -

(in no typical order)

{🍪} queerphobes (yes, this includes individuals who dont support mspec lesbians and gays)

{🍪} racists, abelists, just bigots in general. basic dni criteria!!

{🍪} p3dophiles/m4ps

{🍪} anti-agere/petre

{🍪} factkin/anti-therianthropy or alterhumanity

{🍪} proshippers/darkshippers/comshippers/anything in that variety

{🍪} reality checkers

{🍪} cringe culture supporters (youre a furry you just dont know it yet :])

{🍪} individuals bodily above the age of 18 or under the age of 12 (you CAN interact with my posts, just dont directly dm me pretty please!! ^⩊^)

{🍪} "are u slow?" "is it restarted" "delulu is the solulu!!"- get out

{🍪} anti fun havers >:c

₊˚ʚ ᗢ₊˚✧ ﾟ. tags -

{🍪} #meow.txt ~ text posts

{🍪} #dewdle.jpg ~ art

{🍪} #rb ~ reblogs

{🍪} #xtra ~ anything else

um uh i think thats it!!! sum silly stuffs down here o(^>ω<^)o

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