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#im horribly unprepared for living as an independent adult so i just have to cross my fingers and hope i get it figured out before im 18
fabulouslygaybean
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hearing my mom talk abt my cousins and how she thinks it's sad how the oldest ones still live w their parents is worrying bc like. i have a sinking feeling she'll want me outta the house the second i turn 18 and idk if im ready for that
#ive still got time but like. god it makes me anxious
#also to clarify. i say my cousins but i specifically mean this one household which has like 7 of my cousins
#technically 6 of them are my first cousins once removed but thats stupid as hell so they're all my cousins
#anyways. it just seems weird how bothered my mom is about it.
#my cousins have always been a very tight knit family and theres been no pressure for anyone to leave earlier than they want to
#3/6 of the kids are legally adults now and a 4th one is gonna turn 18 this year iirc
#they all still live at home with their parents and its not seen as a big deal bc they have the space to house them so they're not worried -
#- abt everyone moving out
#but i hear my mom talking about how its a tragedy that they're still living with their parents and it just feels weird
#the most anyone has ever done to try and push someone out of the house was when the family was encouraging the oldest to enroll in -
#- college and maybe try out dorm living if that's something they'd be able to deal with
#everyone emphasized that the family would still welcome them back into the house if dorm living didn't work out
#just. idk. it seems so much healthier than whatever my moms got going on
#she didn't live with her parents past the age of 14 because she went from boarding school straight to college so maybe thats why
#she's so used to the idea of ditching ur family as soon as possible that i guess its hard to grasp the fact that some families don't mind -
#- living together even after the kids turn 18?
#idk. its just worrying for me. i don't know if ill be able to be on my feet and ready to leave home the moment i turn 18. ive only just -
#- started to scratch the surface of independence bc i was never ALLOWED to be majorly independent before mid 2020
#im horribly unprepared for living as an independent adult so i just have to cross my fingers and hope i get it figured out before im 18
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