#im bad with rejection in general but i've noticed that i take it much better if i get rejected before i actually do something than during
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people: miranda you shouldnt ask when you go in for a kiss or hug or doing any kind of ‘move’. that’s just weird
me: but what if they don’t want a kiss or a hug? then if i ask them they can actually say no and neither of us will feel bad
#me on any date will ask stuff. is it okay if i come closer/we hug/i kiss you?#my 'normal' friends are all like no thats so awkward and weird....#like im sorry but first of all... i have severe past trauma and of having people finding me ugly/gross/etc so it's easier for me to take#rejection before i do something than during. second.... i'd never want to make anyone feel bad or do something they don't like especially#when we aren't close.... like sorry people who go on dates and can just go in for a hug after the first date or something#but i will ask for consent for such. i dont know them that well and they not me. maybe they are not into touching or maybe they just#arent that into me so yeah.... i will be awkward and weird and ask bc i am crazy like that#im bad with rejection in general but i've noticed that i take it much better if i get rejected before i actually do something than during#bc then i dont get the guilt part of it. i often feel bad guilt if i make dsomeone feel bad so... if i ask before... i wont#have actually done anything and if they say n o then i know and yeah (:#its also i cant read body language and 'vibes' so having verbal confirmation is important to me#miranda talking shit#autism tag#??? probasbly a big autistic thing idek man
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