#im a straight cis Christian woman

[theautumnaldemon]

welp

[kyuala]

SOOOOOO hard to go through everyday life trying to ignore the never-ending feeling that im just irreparably fucked up and therefore should just give up on everything

[masquerade-of-time]

I never post things like this, but I am genuinely pissed about it. Im not usually a political person (I post rwby and x-men art, of course im not), but holy fuck i gotta get this out here.

If you voted for Trump in this election, ive lost any and all respect for you. Youve failed women. Youve failed LGBTQ+ people. Youve failed people of color.

Youve failed your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, the people who care about you. I would call them the people you care about aswell but you clearly dont.

Youve decided to assist in putting innocent lives in the hands of a man who wants nothing more than for them to die. And for what? Because "prices for things will be lowered?" You thought that a literal felon - a man with 34 felony charges - is able to run a country? You put your life, your family's life, in the hands of a fucking felon? What is genuinely wrong with you?

Your puting a rapist in office because you dont want a woman in office. How pathetic is that, honestly.

Im not saying Kamala is some saint. She isnt. But shes far better than Trump will ever be. Shes not going to strip the rights away from someone just because they arnt a straight, cis, white, Christian, man.

[apokalyptiskgengangare]

Subjective Experience is a Bitch. It's fucking tiring to feel like you're unique in your Experience. Like the current Feeling ive got is just a general overprevalance of Men everywhere. I used to know alot of lesbians/sapphics whatever but ive either lost contact or theyve become bi or straight. And being the only lesbian you know and ontop of that being trans aint a good combo. Really feels like youre just a straight man. When everyone around you is so big on men and talk about how wonderful men are and you just feel like youve somehow made yourself worse by identifying as a woman. And also i hate hearing about peoples sexuality changing as they go on hormones. So much of my gender identity is encoiled with sexuality and god the though of that changing and me starting to like men sickens me and makes me want to hurl. also it feels really bifobic thinking like this but also idc rn. its probably inadvicable but i gotta get it out of my system, yes i kinda hate men and i try to work on that but also sometimes i feel like i need to find all my representation through stuff that others like and like no i want representation for me but its almost always dumb bullshit that doesnt apply to me. Im a Trans Lesbian who: actually have made efforts to think ideologically and doesnt just spew a haphazard socialjustiselibertarianism that has no grounding. i dont think NV is the best game ever its mearly good i dont like kink stuff like im fine with it but i dont want to engage im not actually that weird in my sexuality im a lesbian bc i like other women trans-cis and also fem presenting nonbinary ppl ig. Im shit at programing im shit at music I dont have a prefrance for anime or manga Im shit at hoi4 and only play it when im drunk enough that the hours i wasted on it dont feel bad im halfway competent at painting miniatures and an ok at sketching idk sometimes it feels like im just delusional and like people just go along with stuff

doesnt help that i cant find similar people when i dislike like a solid 3/4 of the transwomen i meet and idk why or whats wrong with me but it just happens i know like 2-3 transwomen i like and have liked since i met them. the rest i dont despise or anything but it doesnt make it better to be around them and i dont feel like i share something with them always like sometimes it feels like we're worlds apart just bc i dont think animes good and i dont think christianity is fundamentally evil

this post reminds me i need to take some fucking magnesium dubois ass behaviour

[bukatra]

To my cis, het, white, male, or christian ally friends.

Want to know how to be an ally?

The best thing you can ever do is be willing to risk losing or upsetting your loved ones if that is what it takes to support and defend lgbt. Does your father-in-law spout anti-gay shit? Be willing to risk upsetting him to say "hey frank. Thats enough. If you are going to be that hateful, im not inviting you to thanksgiving this year.". Tell your mother "sorry mom. I cant let you be around your grandkids if your going to tell them their lesbien friend is going to hell. Either shut your mouth or you cant see them. We arent raising them to be hateful." Its hearing your friends from the book club mention a man in a dress and say "margaret, im ashamed of you. How dare you be so nasty to that poor woman." Its speaking up when you see a transmans id getting denied in the grocery check out line. Getting nosey and saying "excuse me, just last week i paid with a check and you didnt even ask for my id. Why are you giving this guy a hard time?"

Basically, throw your white, cis, het weight around as much as you can. Be willing to step on toes. Be willing to upset people. Your whiteness, straightness, and cisness is a shield. It has protected you all your life. Its time to use it to shield us. Because we dont have that shield.

[wysteriadelights]

proud to announce that i am no longer mentally ill. the voices are gone. the demons scattered. i will never draw a man in lacey underwear ever again. them pregnant? a thing of the past. i clearly now only like perfectly mentally well men ONLY as i am now straight. all inquiries can reach me at the church where i shall become a nun to make up for all of my sins. also im fully bleaching my hair blonde and wearing only blue eye contacts so the world knows i am a born again regular cis christian woman. amen.

[emptym0rgue]

Okey so my mother is a straight, cis, white, christian, woman, how do i explain to her that even if a minority group calls themself a slur, she still cant call them that.

She watched a video where a lesbian called themself a d word and she then said for me to “watch this d***”.

I tried to explain to her that she cant call jewish people the j word because some of them consider it offensive. She then said “but they call themselves that all the time !”

She once quoted a movie where a guy was antisemitic and she quoted the part where the guy called the other guy “fucking k***”

I have a patch on one of my pants that says fag and she not only calls them my fag pants but she also says its an ugly word that i should never use. I try to tell her im literally a gay guy and she says “but you still shouldnt say it”

Heres the thing though, with the n word she says no one should use it including black people. And with queer, which isnt a slur anymore, she gets so offended when she hears it because for her growing up in the 90s, “it was the worst thing you could be called”

And dont even get me started on the g word used against the roma, or the e word used against the inuit, i told her those are slurs and she just doesnt believe me/doesnt care.

[chatoninette]

lol this qualifies as the vent blog again due to having the fewest followers. im so fucking annoyed by this goddamn hellsite.

'sexuality can be fluid!!' (example of a ""lesbian"" falling in love with a cis straight man) 'everyone who identifies as some form of queer should be cool with changing identities and falling in love with anyone!'

i mean this as kindly as i can. my republican, evangelical christian mom who, yes, hopes i don't ultimately marry a woman... still somehow has more respect for my identity than some of you dipshits. because at least she she still acknowledges i don't date men.

i still use lesbian and not sapphic or wlw because lesbian means boundary. lesbian means not just that i like other women -- that i only like other women. lesbian means i don't fucking date men. and it's my supposed community that wants to erode that boundary?

y'all never talk about gay men marrying women like it's a positive. only lesbians dating or marrying men. unpack that for yourselves.

[yuribalisms]

My mom: for some reason you think we want nothing to do with you but that’s not true

Me: oh no you have this completely backwards, I am fully aware that you want me around constantly, it’s that I want nothing to do with any of you

[mischief-and-tea-by-the-sea]

Tarot and Rune Readings

Let me preface this by saying that the job hunt is a lousy and stressful thing, leading to many sleepless nights and nauseated and crying mornings. I put out at least 10-15 applications a day, and with a BA in English and MFA in Creative Writing, I should've had non-scam bites by employers by now. This has been going on for months. I wanted to move to NC this year and get the hell out of Texas, which is becoming more and more dangerous to live in by the day. I never know when I leave my house if I'm going to be shot for being bisexual, genderfluid, pagan, a uterus owner, wearing a mask in a world that isn't done with the pandemic yet (despite what anyone says), or just for existing in a space that a cis white straight conservative Christian man (or woman) is in where they just don't like my face that day. The lack of a job and incoming funds has made my sister, with whom I live and hoped to move to NC with before the end of the year, hesitant to move because it will be expensive to move across country, find a place, and live without it, but the jobs are just not coming, and I'm not ashamed to admit that I'm terrified of what will happen if we stay here.

I've got 30 years experience in reading Tarot and probably roughly 20 reading runes. I also have 22 years using psychometry, which comes in the form of symbols and ideas that mean something to the owner of the object. I've been doing dream interpretation even back into my teens (I'm almost 50 now, if that helps). I've worked dozens of psychic fairs when I still lived in South Texas and there was a shop there that held them four or five times a year. I'm good at what I do, and I'm prompt at getting back to someone who requests and pays for a reading. Only if I'm away from my computer on errands am I just not available at that moment but will make myself available as soon as I can.

I'm not going to lie. I need to get some financial security under me so that I can pay my bills, help cover rent, groceries, and to push for the move out of the rapidly growing more dangerous state that I live in. I'm willing to work for the money, and I'm not going to give half-assed replies to questions. I've got PayPal and Venmo and a selection of Tarot and Divination Cards to choose from as well as runes. If you're interested, I sure would like to talk and pull cards for you - in helping you, you'd be helping me, and it would be a great cycle of exchanged energy that would make things positive for the both of us.

My prices are:

$30 for 3-5 tarot cards

$50 for a full spread, 30 minute reading

$75 for for full spread, 1 hour readings

$25 Dream Interpretation

$35 Rune reading

Readings done online over IM chat (I have FB Messenger and Discord and can be persuaded to get back on Skype if preferred). I'm still learning Zoom but can probably work that out as well. I will provide a write up and photo of the reading, with the exception of Dream Interpretation, which will just have a write-up. Payment up front and readings to follow immediately.

I have also set up a secondary Tumblr for tarot/dreams where I may compile interesting topics from time to time as life permits. Please feel free to follow this blog, too, and messaging me there will also message me on my main Tumblr.

Mimir's Well.

Message me on Tumblr for further communication.

Thank you!

[ateezaligned]

i think its important that my new followers are aware of my political views even if i usually dont use this sideblog with that purpose:

im a latinoamerican bi woman, im anti-imperialist and align myself with anarcho feminism and latinoamerican leftist ideas. i think capitalism is inherently evil, cops are bastards and that you cant oppress white, straight, christian, cis and able-bodied neurotypical ppl (and being a minority in one of those areas doesnt take away your privilege on the other ones).

i wont engage with discourse surrounding this, so please if youre gonna cry over heterophobia or bs like that in my tags, stay away from this blog and just block me <3

[ghosttotheparty]

heres a rant bc im mad

cw: the election, tr*ump, racism, homophobia, etc

i keep seeing those posts about ‘trump isnt gonna be there to help when this is over but your neighbours are’ and whatnot and its annoying the hell out of me and heres why  first of all im getting big ‘love thy neighbour’ energy from it which bothers me bc ppl pulling religion into politics bothers me bc im not christian and neither are so many other ppl who are effected by politics  and second of all, ‘love thy neighbour’ does not mean vote against your neighbours human rights and get your feelings hurt when they dont like you. it means actually give a shit about them, and obviously if youre voting for someone who could very likely take away their rights, you never gave a shit about them in the first place. stop trying to make yourself the victim when you come out on top no matter what happens.  most of the ppl ive seen posting this have been people making posts about ‘so many of my friends dropped me after i said i voted for trump :(’ and like,, you dont care about them enough to care about their rights and freedom, and ultimately their lives, but youre hurt bc they unfollowed you on instagram? how fucking self centred can you be? someone i followed literally said ‘if you cant accept me AND who i support and what i believe in, that’s fine. you do you. i dont need that kind of relationship in my life. on that note yall stay safe, #trump2020′  lexi. you are posting that you support a racist, homophobic, transphobic, misogynistic, ableist pedophile, and you expect me to respect that?   why would i support your ‘opinion’ when its a huge, blatant FUCK YOU to my existence and the existences of so many other people in the world?  i also saw someone say ‘if you actually believe that if biden wins, people are going to start murdering poc and lgbt you genuinely need help.’ ryan. if you dont think thats already happening, you either dont care or youre not paying attention. and if you havent seen the videos of supremacists threatening to start a civil war, youre really not paying attention. the problem is that people dont care bc it doesnt affect them. higher class, white, straight, cis, able-bodied, neurotypicals never get to see what the same picture looks like from a different angle.  heres what it looks like from an angle that isnt yours: its scary  its scary bc this world was built for you to succeed and it was built to push us down. it was built on your standards and it was built to emphasize our disadvantages.  it should not be scary to exist.  it should not be ‘brave’ of me to hold my girlfriends hand. it should not be ‘brave’ for a black man to wear a hoodie or for a woman to walk by herself or a disabled person to manage on their own.  existence shouldnt be brave.

[just-gay-thingz]

So I decided to write a text about homophobia at midnight and i decided to publish it here. Feel free to add your own thoughts in the notes or reblog it :) 

also im in no way homophobic. im gay myself and those are jsut the way i think about this topic.

I’m sorry for eventual grammar mistakes or spelling errors. English isnt my first language

Homophobia

There are a lot of people out there who are homophobic. Their reasons are it’s not normal or not natural, the bible says its wrong or just because they don’t like it when people don’t condone to the heteronormativity of society.

 Let’s start of with the argument, that homosexuality is not normal or natural. Homosexuality is common in in over 1.500 species and homosexual animals are very important in their communities. For example, if a straight couple isn’t able to take care of their child anymore because let’s say they died. No other straight couple will be able to take care of that child because they are to busy caring for their own children. This is where the gay animals come in. As it is not possible for them to get their own children, they are able to take in the orphaned child and take care of it. When it comes to homophobia though, it only exists in one species. In the Homosapiens. Humans have been oppressing homosexual people for hundreds of years. In most countries “conversion therapy” is still legal. “Conversion therapy” is when you send homosexual people, mostly teens who were sent by their parents, to camps where people, so called “therapists” even though they are many things but a therapist, torture them into being straight. Some methods for that are: making them watch straight porn, hit them/make them feel pain while they have to watch gay porn, so that they will associate that kind of porn with the trauma in the future. Another method is to give them medicine that makes them feel aroused (e.g. Viagra) and force them into having sex with someone from the opposite gender. They also try to pray away the gay, which I think gets explained by itself.

You often hear homophobic people say, “the bible says Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve” or “the bible says homosexuality is wrong” or “Homosexuality is a sin and you will go to hell for it.”. But I don’t think those people always act as it is written in the bible, because if you can’t just take one part of the bible and ignore the rest. As Jesus said: “the one without sin throw the first stone”. I don’t think those people even commit to the ten commandments. They probably already used “Jesus fu****g Christ” or “Jesus no” or other slurs including the name of God, when the second commandment is “you should not miss use the name of God”. Another example would be “You should keep the day of God holy” but I’m pretty sure not all of those Christians who use the bible as an excuse for homophobia go to church every Sunday or do nothing all Sunday long. “You should honor your mother and father” is another one of the commandments but I don’t think none of those people spent their whole live without ever speaking ill of their parents. The sixth commandment says “You should not break your marriage” but still 50% of the marriages end in divorce. Only about 77% of the world population are not Christian and obviously not all of them are married but it’s still unlikely that all those divorces are all from non-Christian people. “You shall not lie” or “You shall not steal” are commandments too and I don’t think there is a person out there who has never lied or stole something even if it was just a pen from a classmate or something like that. “You shall not desire someone else’s wife” but people still cheat and just because you are Christian doesn’t automatically make you a faithful person. “You shall not desire someone else’s stuff” but people still are jealous of others for having a better phone/car/house/etc. You have to remember those statements are only the ten commandments but if you say homosexuality is wrong because it is written in the bible. Then this means you support everything in the bible. This means you support that Babies are getting killed and women are getting raped. "See, the day of the Lord is coming — a cruel day, with wrath and fierce anger. . . . I will put an end to the arrogance of the haughty. . . . Their infants will be dashed to pieces before their eyes; their houses will be looted and their wives violated." (Isaiah 13:9–16 NIV). This means you think it’s okay, that daughters are burned as an acceptable sacrifice for God, "And Jephthah made a vow to the Lord: 'If you give the Ammonites into my hands, whatever comes out of the door of my house to meet me when I return in triumph from the Ammonites will be the Lord's, and I will sacrifice it as a burnt offering.' . . . When Jephthah returned to his home in Mizpah, who should come out to meet him but his daughter, dancing to the sound of timbrels! . . . After the two months, she returned to her father, and he did to her as he had vowed." (Judges 11:30–39 NIV). This means you share everything you have with the people who don’t have that much, Anyone who has two shirts should share with the one who has none, and anyone who has food should do the same. Luke 3:11 NIV. As you can see Christians often just pick the verses of the bible if they help them back up an inappropriate or offensive argument.

Good responses to homophobic sayings by Christians:

“Its Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve”-“It’s Homosapiens not Heterosapiens”

For the Bisexuals: If they tell you to just pick a side, tell them, Its Adam AND Eve not Adam OR Eve

“You will turn my children gay”-“No, I don’t think so. I Mean your Heterosexuality didn’t make me straight either”

Feel free to add your own statement in the comments.

 So I think that was enough with the Christians. Let’s get to Heteronormativity!

We all grow up thinking we are straight because society tells us there isn’t something else. That’s because of the almost nonexistent representation of LGBTQ+ people in the media and because it’s “normal” for a man and a woman to be together. It’s “normal” for a child to have a mum or dad. But if you don’t stick to these stereotypes, people will see you as a rebel and we always get told rebels aren’t good people and that we should always listen to our parents. But sometimes rebels are just what we need. Sometimes we just need to see that it’s okay to be different. That it’s okay for a boy to dress feminine. That it’s okay for someone to not want have sex. That it’s okay for someone to not feel comfortable with their Cis gender. That it’s okay for girls to like girls or for boys to like boys. And nobody should be able to tell you otherwise

  hope you enjoyed reading this and im sorry if it was shit, these are just my late night thoughts

[kob131]

What do you feel about the post about Vic mignogna by ultraericthered

https://ultraericthered.tumblr.com/post/183990672385/im-sick-of-the-rangers-spamming-vics-tag-with

Let’s break this down.

Vic is absolutely guilty of inappropriate behavior, misconduct, sexual harassment, and possibly (just possibly) sexual assault towards others. This has been established by his pattern of behavior for years. Monica and the others are being entirely honest in their stories and the allegations are very likely honest as well. How this is even in question, I have no idea, but it upsets and disturbs me that there are so many who are quick to jump to Vic’s defense while simultaneously vilifying his opponents and accusers (and possibly victims).

A, He hasn’t been proven guilty of exual harassment OR assault and inapporiate behavior means nothing.

And B. yeah, no. Monica has been lying via omission for months now, refusing to give ANY details on any incidents DESPITE the fact that those details are REQUIRED to convict him. And before you say she’s scared: she’s openly threatened vic supporters with legal action. Over asking her for info. That is not the behavior of an innocent person.

Oh and C. NOTHING came to light about Vic for MONTHS. The ProJared shit started and ended in the same month.

What gives credibility to the side of Monica Rial, Jamie Marchi, Jamie McGonnigal, Marzgurl, etc. is that not only do their words and allegations line up with accounts of Vic’s skeevy behavior towards fans and women that have been going around the internet for YEARS (It’s honestly astonishing just how far back some of this goes), but how many other VAs, people actually in the industry who might’ve worked alongside Vic and would be there to witness his actions, have come out in Vic’s defense? Can’t really think of much. Meanwhile, how many have been coming out in support of the alleged victims? Quite a handful, even J. Michael Tatum, himself a victim of sexual assault in the past. Apparently, Vic being a primadona and a skeevy womanizing creeper has been an open secret in the VA industry since forever.

And of these guys:

Monica has evaded legal action and refused to give details NECESSARY to convict him

Marzgurl has sactively ENOCURAGE VIOLENCE

And Jamie has been proven to bully people into dropping Vic from cons.

As for the ‘accounts”: they’re eitehr anonyomous accounts, too old to prove...or taken out of context of the people involed.

And by the way. how many famous people probably came out and said ‘that guy’s a commie’ back during the Red Scare? People coming out to help doesn’t MEAN anything without proof. People in the wrong can still come out in droves. And if that doesn’t convince: does that mean rape victims who don’t have public support while their rapists DO are the ones in the wrong then? Same logic of ‘One party has more public support than the other, therefore they’re right.’

What’s damning on Vic’s side of things? Well not only was a thorough investigation into the sexual harassment allegations conducted during the time of the Broly movie’s production prior to Funimation’s decision to lay Vic off (something his fans don’t even seem to realize happened) -

You mean the one where they didn’t give any info and was probably a ‘cut off the controversial figure for profit’ decision?

- but Vic’s response to the whole situation has…just not been how I think an absolutely innocent man getting his career and livelihood threatened by accusation of things he absolutely never did and would never do would respond. Vic’s been pretty sincere and professional throughout this and I give him props for that, but his “defenses” against the allegations have always been along the lines of “I remember things differently” or “I didn’t realize she felt that way - I thought that thing we had was consensual and mutual.” Of course he’s not going to recall those incidents as being ones where he committed sex offenses because he did not see his actions as being such when he committed them. He fails to recognize how and why his behavior is so wrong. He doesn’t knowingly think of himself as a sex fiend and harasser when he acts that way - he really thinks he’s being nice (backed up by the allegation where he repeatedly asked his victim to “let me be sweet to you.”). But those moments were not consensual. The girls and women he touched or romanced were not comfortable with it.-

And Monica has threatened legal action and Marzgurl thretaened PHYSICAL VIOLENCE.

You wanna judge this based on public reaction? Show me where Vic threatens anyone who questions him.

What his intentions were at the time don’t matter when put next against how his victims internalized his actions and how they were made to feel -

No, intentions DO matter. That’s why ‘self defense’ and ‘murder’ are different concepts.

And on top of that, look at how Monica Rial worded her own account:

This, by contrast, is Vic’s wording of his side of things. He “got lazy.” He’s “a work in progress like everyone else.” And my personal favorite: “Voice actors are no different from you: we’re bozos. We’re all dumb humans just trying to do our best.” The emotions are sincere, but the words are unrefined and a bit try-hard in trying to paint a sympathetic image of himself.

And Monica, by your own standards, is trying to appeal to basic human empathy to trick people into believing her. Thing is, Vic is consistent in his actions. Monica has acted contradictory MANY times.

And what’s damning on the side of Vic’s fans and defenders? Well, I could not help but notice that they can be found all over Youtube, hive of the Far Right that it’s become-

Strike 1.

I also could not help but notice that whenever I clicked a video made for supporting Vic and tearing down his opposition and accusers (who, again, could very well be his victims), it was literally ALWAYS a dude speaking.

Strike 2.

It was always some man speaking in defense of this other man who he probably doesn’t even personally know in a situation he wasn’t there to experience and knows next to shit about, and demonizing “waamen” that he also doesn’t personally know. And in all of this, I have not once seen any valid reasoning for why Vic absolutely must be innocent of the allegations made against him other than “he’s a super popular, charming, beloved VA” and “he seems like such a nice guy”. It’s frankly quite terrifying that the immediate default for these people is to stand with the popular, prolific, powerful man (and I don’t want to be an SJW here, but that Vic is handsome, white, straight/cis, and Christian might be a huge part of it

Strike 3-

Not only is this gonna EMBOLDEN the assholes on Vic’s side-

But Monica’s defenders (like YOU) have focused on gender and bullshit instead of anything FACTUAL. You act like anyone whose accused of sexual assault is IMMEDIATELY guilty if the accuser is a woman and teh accused is a man. Never mind how most of these accusations come down to simple miscommunication between the parties and nevermind how if a guy tries coming to the police about being raped, it’s likely HE’LL be arrested. Let alone what happens if the woman gets pregnant and can sue for child support...even if she committed STATUTORY RAPE.

Oh, and Vic’s italian and that culture is very touchy feely. So guess what? You’re racist by your own logic.

and denounce the women who come forward to accuse him as being liars because this is exactly why women who are victimized by men of such power and popularity tend to NOT come forward with stories of their victimization immediately after it happens. Yes, anyone is innocent until proven guilty in a court of law, but that doesn’t mean the accusers should be denounced as liars and demonized for daring to mess with the man - they ought to be shown support and respect IF in the case what they say is true and they really were hurt by that man. If they’re proven liars beyond any doubt, THEN they can be given well deserved scorn. But brushing them off beforehand is Not OK. Especially if it’s with conspiracy theories about how this is some big coordinated feminist effort to tear down a great man and destroy his livelihood, or it’s a retaliation from yaoi fangirls who hate that Vic dares to be anti-yaoi and Conservative in regards to gay people.

And yet you condemn Vic before he is proven to be lying.

Sorry, either condemn yourself or be better.

These assclowns have also constantly resorted to the defense of “Oh, hugging other people and kissing them in places not on the lips totes isn’t sexual harassment”. Totally ignoring the little details of the girls getting the hugs typically being total strangers to Vic outside of being fans of his work who are thus underage girls being touched by a grown man who has absolutely no relation to them, that he might have done the same with female co-workers behind the scenes, and that he has done these things on a whim, without the recipient’s consent and without paying any mind to how it might make them feel.

Also ignoring if they give consent like that time someone tried portraying Vic touching a supposedly underage girl only to BACKFIRE as the womana spoke out in defense of the man.

This has been a consistent pattern of behavior with him,

Consistently unproven.

and allegedly, he’s justified it with saying “silence gives consent.” Like a girl or woman absolutely has to verbally say “no” or tell him outright that he’s making them feel uncomfortable for it to be considered wrong and unwarranted. Basically “a lack of a No makes it a Yes.” I can’t begin to describe how gross that is.

So Vic has to be a fucking MINDREADER or else.

Great to know, especially considering how my own condition would make this shit damn near impossible to see.

The worst part is how these IStandWithVic cultists demonize Monica Rial. A woman who, by her own admission, was a victim of rape as a teenager.

Says the man who demonizes Vic.

A woman who has shown nothing but emotional and intellectual honesty and kindness on social media, who has acknowledged that even Vic and his fans don’t deserve to be harassed and hurt, to the point of stating this:

https://twitter.com/Rialisms/status/1095156641543192576

Funny how she says this TWO DAYS LATER than your picture.

But she’s both painted as a vicious liar who’s out to destroy a good, innocent man’s life and career, and is ALWAYS being written off by these dudes as just “the VA for Bulma.” As though she’s had no other notable roles in her long career of voice acting aside from that one character (as opposed to the oh-so talented, versatile and legendary star that is Vic). As though that character has had only one English VA. As though Monica just plain doesn’t matter when put next to a fellow VA in the industry who happens to be a handsome white, straight/cis, Christian male.

Keep being a bigoted douchebag, I can hear the alt RIght cumming.

And as though Monica had any feasible reason to lie about her experiences with Vic and assassinate his character on social media.

*points at you and your blind defense of her*

the pro-Vic crowd seems to think she’s greedy or jealous or just resentful towards Vic as a person, and is out to get him so that she can get money or respect or more roles or petty revenge or whatever.

Literally change ‘vic’ to ‘monica and that’d describe you.

But if that were really the case, how does that account for the friends and family who support her claims? How does it account for the fellow VAs (Jamie Marchi, Jamie McGonnigal, J. Micahel Tatum, Josh Grelle, Justin Briner, Daman Mills) who’ve all supported her claims and have said “Yeah, Vic’s been like that forever.

‘Get social brownie points’

How does it account for the fans and congoers who have been sharing their stories of uncomfortable experiences and encounters they’ve had with Vic FOR YEARS?

‘Stories’ are not truth.

The deck is NOT stacked in Vic’s favor here, so “he’s successful, popular, funny, friendly, charming, talented and a classic VA who’s so well loved in the anime community” is NOT going to cut it as an assumption of his innocence or a defense for his character.

No, that’s the legal system that says ‘innocent until proven guilty.’

He needs to be held accountable for his misdemeanors against people who gave no consent to being touched, hugged, kissed, stalked, romanced, or squicked out by him.

And yet Monica threatening legal action and Marzgurl making THREATS OF VIOLENCE? A-Ok.

It’s a Michael Jackson type of situation - even if he’s NOT done the things he’s being accused of, that does NOT make his creepy behavior towards underage fangirls excusable or alright.

Funny thing about Micheal Jackson-

The accusations, when you actually pay attention, are complete bullshit. Events don’t line up, accounts vary wildly, facts contradict stories. And yet he STILL suffered until the day he died and BEYOND. So thanks for remindidng why, as much as I hate Yellow Flash, Hero Hei and Nick Riekta-

You idiots are the worse evil.

Tl;dr: I shall from now on be referring to this VA as “Vic Cosby Mignogna.” ‘Cause even if he’s not guilty of the heinous shit that Bill Cosby is guilty of, his case is still all too eerily similar.

#IStandWithMonica

So does that mean if I call Monica ‘Monikkka’- She’s a KKK member now?

Oh wait, you wouldn’t give two shits if the places were reversed would you? For your cry of ‘I’m not an SJW!’- You sure do sound like the fucking strawman it represents.

[transinclusionary]

None of that means they can't be/aren't secretly terfs. It's easy af to pretend not to be

no im sorry not me. I am definitely a good judge of character. No one is perfect and I don't always make correct assumptions about my compatibility with friends, but I talk about my attitudes towards life way too much to not weed out terfs. My best friend is a trans woman, and my partner has trans family. My parents also are trans competent, otherwise I would no longer speak to them.

But seriously it kinda sounds like y'all silently go about life being afraid to voice your opinions when they're not online. It's probably because deep down you know that no one would accept your reasoning. Not trans people, not conservatives, not mainstream feminism, and most certainly not the lgbT community.

In my time lurking on those awful tags I've learned two things about terfs: 1) you all are some of the most miserable, hateful people on the planet. The average terf rhetoric is so beyond disrespectful. Before you say "but "TRAS" 🙄 also say hateful things to us!!" Probably, but one is a political group and the other is a demographic. Thus they are not equal in terms of the discrimination you get for both. Trans people can be bad just as much as cis people, same with straight, gay, black, white, etc. But terf is an mindset, which you can absolutely control, thus it is not discrimination. It's similar to the concept that black lives are real but blue lives are not. You cannot make the same generalizations about trans people that I can make about terfs, because it is not an identity that you were born with. You do not have to have these opinions. You do this to yourself with asinine assertions that if you identify as trans you're INHERENTLY a certain way. That's so fucking stupid bruh I can't even lie. It's literally the exact same shit European Americans pulled on African Americans. No one is inherently bad because of their gender. People are bad because bad people are inherent to humanity. Sometimes a group can be emboldened by societal messages of superiority. But that still does not mean that cishet white men are inherently bad people, they just have a lot of societal conditioning to unravel. And guess what, same with cis people. The messages we receive in a Christian influenced society (no sun ever rested in the British empire) influences the way we perceive the actions of minorities we don't have much contact with. But people in your demographic of course get to be individuals. Bad radfems don't speak for you but every trans criminal speaks for all trans people right? That sounds stupid doesn't it? That's because it is.

The second thing I have learned is 2) terfs will wait a really long time to reveal their beliefs because you know how isolating your believes are outside of Tumblr and Twitter (maybe even irl but I doubt y'all go outside besides going to work). It is not for your safety, it is because no one likes you. And you not being liked is no one's problem but your own. I am a very polarizing person (as evident from this blog) but there have been people in my life now and in my past who adored me/who I adored. I have never struggled in life to find at least one friend. Can you say the same? Your hatred makes you lonely, and I'm sorry to say but I can sense hatred in a person from a mile away. I am training to be a therapist and if you really pay attention to the people around you, a lot of them wear that shit on their sleeves.

So basically, y'all carry that antisocial energy everywhere you go. Most people will subconsciously avoid you and never put the time into you. People like me sniff out your bullshit from an anon. That leaves the other hateful members of your little clique. Do you think your Tumblr radfem compatriots will ever be a true friend to you? Will they be at your wedding, birthdays, or funeral? Or will they ditch you the second you say something too dodgey for the hate group.

If you read this whole thing and STILL don't understand I'll spell it out: if they make fun of others, they will absolutely do it to you eventually, without fail. Bad actions do not lead to good people in life. So next time you're miserable, think about this post and know you were told exactly what's wrong with you by a random internet stranger who you sent an anonymous message to. Couldn't be me ✌🏾

[bukatra]

To my cis, het, white, male, or christian ally friends.

Want to know how to be an ally?

The best thing you can ever do is be willing to risk losing or upsetting your loved ones if that is what it takes to support and defend lgbt. Does your father-in-law spout anti-gay shit? Be willing to risk upsetting him to say "hey frank. Thats enough. If you are going to be that hateful, im not inviting you to thanksgiving this year.". Tell your mother "sorry mom. I cant let you be around your grandkids if your going to tell them their lesbien friend is going to hell. Either shut your mouth or you cant see them. We arent raising them to be hateful." Its hearing your friends from the book club mention a man in a dress and say "margaret, im ashamed of you. How dare you be so nasty to that poor woman." Its speaking up when you see a transmans id getting denied in the grocery check out line. Getting nosey and saying "excuse me, just last week i paid with a check and you didnt even ask for my id. Why are you giving this guy a hard time?"

Basically, throw your white, cis, het weight around as much as you can. Be willing to step on toes. Be willing to upset people. Your whiteness, straightness, and cisness is a shield. It has protected you all your life. Its time to use it to shield us. Because we dont have that shield.