#ill do pr and everything idc

[psiioniicarts]

TMC Discord Interest?

I’d like to preface out the gate that this is NOT me promoting a server! There is no server rn, but I’d like to get some opinions on potentially making a server.

I wanted to get some people's thoughts on making or finding a fan Discord. I know there’s a couple of existing servers floating around out there, but they don’t quite match what I’m looking for. Here’s what I want to prioritize:

REGULAR ACTIVITY. I entered the fanbase after The Big Controversy and I feel like the fan spaces have just dried up. Most fan servers are ghost towns with only sparse activity here and there. I don’t care about how many people are in it, I just really want to have a space to meet some new friends with the same interests as me AND are relatively active.

NO RANT SPACE. I really don’t like the culture of having a “vent channel” in servers especially when it’s mostly a bunch of strangers…personal irl discussion or small gripes like "Aw man my car's tires blew out I'm bummed" is like whatever but I’ve had only negative experiences with vent channels in Discord servers where it's led to more than one person using it to talk badly about themselves, eventually spiraling into threatening suicide if nobody responded to them by saying "nobody cares about me", so I’m really not big on having them out the gate

STRICTNESS ON NEGATIVITY. I personally feel like it’s very easy to become trapped in a cycle of negativity when someone constantly complains or is very negative in a server and ideally I’d like mods that can control that. Even if I’m the only mod, it’s something I want to control.

DISCUSSION. This is related to the activity point, but I’d like to have a space where discussion about theories, themes, alternate universes, and other aspects are encouraged and not limited (within reason). This is my main issue with the activity issue, it’s like speaking in an empty box, and then when someone does show up they kinda just…..ignore your message and start pitching their own thoughts about something else. I feel like this is the fastest way to kill a server and I really want to avoid this.

Ideally, I’d very much like it to be a more adult-oriented space but this isn’t a MUST, I don’t have any specific issues sharing a space with younger people but I’m a little iffy because of the differences in maturity/generational culture gaps (I do think this is the origin of like 60% of issues in some fan servers). The most important thing to me is everybody agrees on the notion that "the internet is an open space and everybody must be responsible for their own experience"

If anyone knows of any servers that meet these requirements let me know (either in replies or you can send me an ask/DM if you prefer), but if not I’d like to know if anybody else would be interested in me making one (I’m looking to pull in at least 5-8 ACTIVE individuals). I’m open to making the server about other common interests too, I just really want a nice space to discuss TMC and make some friends 💕

[uhforfuckssake]

unnecessary rant alert ignore

some of yall don't know that your faves pay the papz to take their pictures and it shows... if the candids look good and are in focus, have good lighting angles 9/10 the celeb themselves or their team payed for it to be taken... this is after seeing "SS candids 🙄 in ny" and every other comments screaming: he needs to be left alone poor baby he can't even go out to eat, yall need to chill 🙄 he knew they were there the shit was planned since he had a new movie come out recently and was singed to CAA (and considering the streets are empty so the papz don't just walk around for no reason hoping to catch someone they're not that stupid and won't waste their time on what ifs...they're called and given a time and location in his case it was far enough from his house so people don't stalk) they have to be called in and staged like everything in showbiz please develop some critical thinking. also doing that in a middle of a pandemic is fucking stupid idc if you needed to up your stonks

there i said it, everyone who's doing it especially rn is a fucking dumbass

here are some examples between fake and real ill let you figure it out

hint: if you see multiple magazines reporting and dedicating entire articles for it it even if something as mundane as buying food it's probably pr

[sckjoldr]

Fuck im so torn on whetevwr i should just give up being friend with this one friend i have or just give up on trying to express my sadness to them and just keep on this sadness cycle because when i want to leave them i have to cut contact with our whole friend group aswell

I cant continue wirh this anymore i feel morw and more resentful eacj time we have a conflict because he just exits the conversation and then comes bacl like nothing happened or when i try to mend this he has a mental breakdown and does something bad to himself and i feel like i was the cause

I feel genuelny horrible all the time so i just bottle up all my fewlings just so he could be comfortable because i know how hard his life is but man i cant do this anymore it seems like his self hatred has circled back into like narcisism?? I havent heard him say thank you or sorry to me in like monhts. When i feel uncomfortable about something he does he spirals and tellls me like lol or skill issue or get over it but god forbid i say something that ticks him off becayse then ihave to apologize and change myself (which is understandable but DAMN id hoped that hed be as undestanding as i am aswell)

Fuck ive had this growing feeling for this whole year i can count things that made me feel bad and theres like 20 dofferent occasions

- when we habged out irl he constantly was pessimistic and angry and hostile towards anything and everything that it got exhausting (talking about how much he hates babies and kids so loudly on a street that everyone heard, when we talked about organizing some things with our friend group he shut me off because it "wont happen pr would be too hard etc"

- i kind pf came out to the gang as nonbinary and he replied with: "huh since when what idc bye" and left the convo (seeing as he is trans k hoped he would be the most supportive so this threw me off so bad

- not only that every time i express my feelings of solitude in our rant chat he either ignores it or answers: how are you lonely ypu have ypur bf

- or he just derails my rant to speak about how he has it harder and then he gets mad when we cant reply to him with anything helpful and exits the convo

- fucking the last one i wanted to draw our firedn group as furries as a cute thing and when i asked him and others what animal they would like to be he answered woth hostiliyy like "no i wil never be a furry" and then when i stsrted jsut drawing and showung it to them he got angry about not being able to choose his species ?? Told him that i was already drawing him i cant change now and he answered "whatever its gonna be dumb anyway"

I got so fickign mad at that that i snapped back at him and then he started spiraling again of course telling me atuff like "whatever im not wanted anyway then ill just kms" and started talking abput all kinds of horrible stuff

I just left our server at that i was so exhausted of his shit im tired man but

Ive never felt lonelyer than now ive been off discord for like 3 days and i feel awful im isolated form my friends ans they dont even seem to care that im missing a d this kid has already forgotten this conflict as alwaya so ill never get the actual fuckigng apology id like

Oeh man i just wish i was treated nicely by the people ive known for 4 years now