#ik people probably won’t see this and won’t care and i’m essentially jjust throwing this out into the void but who cares it’s my blog :)

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i haven’t really talked on here before about being a butch and any related topics to tht but i wanted to for a bit cause of some convos i had with my gf so here we go (we had this convo after some discourse on twitter a while back about hdhdgdhdhfhdh)

i kept seeing people (very specifically white cis femmes) talk about how butch lesbian sexuality is misogynistic because of some tweet a butch made about wanting her femme to suck her strap. butch lesbian sexuality is ALWAYS seen as misogynistic by outsiders because they view us as men so anything we do is equivalent to a man doing it, despite the obvious fact that butch lesbians receive hate for their masculinity and cannot hold the same position as men due to not being men. butches also specifically threaten the regime of cishetpatriarchy because specifically divorce themselves from manhood while being masculine.

ik this convo isn’t really new or groundbreaking, i jst really needed to get my thoughts out on this topic and hopefully it resonates with some people. also, since i’m somewhat new to id’ing as butch (3 months 🥳) it would kinda be nice if some people could list out some useful stuff to read about butchfemme history cause i know the general basics but i’d love to know more so thank you hghghgghgg