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feral-radfem · 2 years ago

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Yeah, a LOT of bi women claimed to be a lesbian while she is dating a woman, dating a man identifying as a woman, or is single nowadays. I'm tired of having to sit here and bear it under the guise of allowing others to explore their sexuality. I really wish people would understand that heterosexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality are all innate. No one has to try the other side to see if they like it and most people who experiment with their sexuality were bi the first place. That's where the desire to see what it's like usually comes from.

Between the redefining of lesbian, the 'sexuality is fluid' bullshit, and the fake ass lesbian Master docs I'm surprised anytime I find an actual lesbian wandering about. They want to be a lesbian (usually in name alone {fetishization}) so bad it makes them sick.

I can't believe I've been using this website so long that I got to experience tumblr's entire "LUG" arc in real time. There is currently a post going around with thousands of notes and most of the replies/tags are comprised of women talking about how they thought they were lesbian until they met the right man (even if dressed up in gender/"queer" lingo that's what most of them boil down to). One that stood out to me was a girl saying she "was a lesbian four 4-5 years" and, assuming she's not five years old, I wonder what she was before that? More people really need to read up on the concept of a bi-cycle and stop claiming they're "ex gay" at age twenty-one. You were always just bi.

#lily responds #it is such a homophobic narrative but I'm supposed to allow it because people need to explore their innate #I'm sorry but that's bi bullshit and it's usually the same line of logic that she used to coerce lesbians into vulnerable situations w/ men #honestly the amount of y'all who act like you have to try it before you know whether or not you like it is kind of f****** sickening #like yk that's a very basic homophobic line of thought but if you get it be claimed to be gay for the fun years of your life who cares #honestly if you're exploring your sexuality or it's been only a few years since your last heterosexual partner maybe hold off #on assuming you're a homosexual because as a bisexual you can like women too. or quit lying about being a lesbian because you think #there's clout in it and no one can prove you wrong when you're not actively dating a man #I hope anyone who calls themselves an x gay or ex-lesbian literally kills themselves. you homophobic pieces of shit. die die die #you were never gay you were just an oppressor taking over a space that didn't belong to you and now destroying it on your way out #and yes I'm including the people who are bisexual in that #don't even get me started on comphet #the number of radfems I see still using that term despite knowing where it comes from pisses me off #especially the ones who tried to act like they are no longer using it and it's original context and have created a new context but #it means the same exact thing but with more flowery language and to be honest guilt tripping language thrown in there #if you think that your psyche was convinced to like men through social pressure you're not gay and believe in conversion therapy #you're a bisexual oppressor talking over actual homosexuals because you can't stand the fact that you're attracted to the opposite sex #cope or die I don't care which

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