#if not for t*rfs and the ch*rch i would never have bothered but now that you've brought it to my attention | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

gideonisms · 2 years ago

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how do y'all typically handle being asked for pronouns in a meeting/server/whatever if like. you want to indicate that no pronouns used for you will feel particularly bad or offensive but most people go with she/her and that is genuinely fine; I'm not hiding any negative feelings about it. but being asked to choose she/her myself *does* feel weird. I'm not like attached to this lol. We'll see how I feel in 10 years, you know? maybe they'll have updated gender and I'll see a new model I really like. Now how to put all that into a canned phrase I can deploy

#well and *then* you have to detangle how much of your annoyance with the whole thing is just spite #because people want me to be feminine reward me for etc then i'm like. well now i am not doing it!!!#i was neutral on this before but now that you've made it a thing maybe i will dress 'like a man' whatever that even means!#i could have lived my whole life happily wearing dresses but other people started assigning me other random characteristics based on them #now i'm not doing it!!!!#i actually don't care if i'm a woman but now that you've specifically made a point of how u think i should be one maybe i will question it!#if not for t*rfs and the ch*rch i would never have bothered but now that you've brought it to my attention

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