#if i unfollow and you want to be mutuals again just lmk

[estarion]

i'm going to be doing a lil unfollow spree soon because my dash is moving too fast and, as much as i'd like to, i cannot do everything with everyone. i'm sure many of you feel the same way. feel free to get a head start on me if you want ♥

[dunmertitty]

okay i just did a purge on inactive accounts im following bc i was over the limit (5000) so now i can follow more ppl again. lmk if i accidentally unfollowed you, a sideblog/alt/horny blog, or if you want to be mutuals in general

[bittcnneck]

Honestly the soft block thing is so relatable! If a person has changed their mind and decides they don’t wanna rp with you they can just unfollow! Then we aren’t mutuals anymore and the site will tell us that! They don’t have to go out of their way to soft block cause that’s like a slap to the face. “I don’t want to perceive you so I’m going to make you not perceive me.” Just straight hard block me or send me messages on anon to test the waters before pushing me out the door.

Exactly!! Like even in that case, just unfollow me. When people soft block me I'm like.. is that a glitch or did they do it? Should I follow back? Will they get annoyed? That's why I have it in my rules asking please lmk if you soft block me. Because I don't want to annoy you. But then again, just because you don't want to RP with me doesn't mean I don't want to see your content! You can break the mutuals and that's ok. I'll still like your posts and read your interactions. But obviously I can't tell ppl what to do so 🧍🏻‍♀️. It's just not cool I think.

[thelegendofclarke]

Ajfkskshskjcklddhdklah

I have the fucking glitch A G A I N!

[olreid]

[Transcript: The same thesis was expanded by Gowers, who portrayed migraine, faints, vagal attacks, vertigo, sleep-disorders, etc. as related to each other and to epilepsy -- all such nerve-storms being mutually if mysteriously transformable amongst themselves. End transcript]

hello friends, here to talk about tagging for migraine & epilepsy triggers again since some people have started doing that (ty!!) but lots haven't. essentially, for people who may not know, migraine and epilepsy are related - though separate - disorders in which triggers, including specific visual stimuli, produce extreme physical and neurological reactions that come on suddenly + can last for days and put you completely out of commission. for lots of people with migraine and/or epilepsy, day-to-day symptom management becomes a case of trying whenever possible to avoid specific triggers and therefore avoid the painful and scary symptoms they cause. those triggers vary from person to person, but some are more common than others, and in an online context most of the common ones have to do with high contrast content and moving images. more specifically, triggers might include flashing and flickering gifs, bright/neon colors, trippy patterns, and more. this post has some really good examples of what might be considered triggering in this context, altho obv don't click on it if that kind of thing is triggering for you.

i asked a while ago for mutuals to tag flashing gifs and eye strain, but then realized that i might not have given the best explanation of what that looks like, so hopefully this is a bit more helpful ! obviously if i don't follow you i guess this doesn't specifically apply but if you want to do a little thing that might make your content more accessible for ppl this could be big <3 also if you want to use other tags for this like migraine warning or epilepsy warning or something that works as well, just lmk whatever tag you're using so i can blacklist. a final note is that i understand that some people feel overwhelmed by trying to tag for lots of things or have focus/memory issues and know for whatever reason that they won't be able to tag for this consistently, which is totally fine -- in that case i'd prefer people just lmk so i can unfollow <3

i think that's all ! thx for reading, happy to answer questions about this or give more examples of triggering content if anyone needs.

[nako-doodles]

check in tag 😌

tagged by the cutest babes @jaehyukkies @gimbapchefs @taesjpg @joenns @honsool @taehyungq @himbojin @jiminswn & @kimtaegis  mwah! ✨✨

1. Why did you choose your url?

namjoon bought a duck mold, ventured out into a snowy day in winter, and gave me the greatest tweet i have ever seen

2. Any sideblogs? If you have them name them and why you have them

the day i gain the ability to wrangle more than one blog ill let yall know

3. How long have you’ve been on tumblr?

*starts calculating time furiously and almost burns out her single braincell* ive been here since like freshman year high school.....so............2010? 2011? ive deleted and restarted like 3 times tho so.........also you can calculate my exact age now (as if I dont have my age on my carrd aiowgjiorajgo)

4. Do you have a queue tag?

no we dont tag we just chaos in this house *finger guns*

5. Why did you start your blog in the first place?

i took a break from tumblr and kpop and then decided I wanted to make a bts blog out of the blue

6. Why did you choose your icon?

i drew all these tiny snow ducks i might as well capitalize on them yknow? really embrace my duck persona (Kim Namjoon witness the person you have made me)

7. Why did you choose your header?

honestly my entire blog brand at this point can be narrowed down to the hour ish (probably) joon spent wrangling snow into duck molds, placing them together for the twt, and captioning them ducktan sonyeondan (im on the look out for new ideas im ready for a change lmk if you have ideas 🥰)

8. What’s your post with the most notes?

i think its this post?? of the babies on rollerblades from that one iconic dynamite stage. and on that note tumblr should be able to let me filter based on note count instead of forcing me to rely one my shoddy terrible no good math skills. asking me to compare numbers bigger than 0? despicable. 

9. How many mutuals do you have?

absolutely no fucking clue 🥰🥰🥰 i do love them to the moon (Kim Seokjin) and back tho!!!!

10. How many followers do you have?

ngl its still wild for me that even one of yall follow me thank you 🥺🥺🥺 its a great honor that you have bestowed upon me

11. How many people do you follow?

303 bc I like it when numbers are palindromes and also bc im bad at checking new blogs

12. Have you ever made a shitpost?

would like you to direct you to my #shirley you cant be serious.txt tag

13. How often do you use tumblr each day?

i try my best to “clean out” my blog (reply to my dms/askbbox, check out my mentions, scroll for new content i may have missed etc.) in the mornings and evenings when i have the time. ive been kinda bad at this lately bc its been hectic here in shirley headquarters but ill get to everyone soon I promise!! (this sounds like bad. its not!!! its just that leaving things stresses me out? like how i like replying to texts as soon as i see them or reply emails as fast as i can. ‘unresolved’ correspondence feels rude.)

14. Did you have a fight/argument with another blog once? Who won?

no im the type to unfollow/block/ignore if someone did or said something i dont agree with without a word

15. How do you feel about “you need to reblog this” posts?

i get the need for those signal boost posts and promulgating important information but (and this is going to sound selfish) tumblr is my destress zone. i go here when the world is being overwhelming and terrible. i certainly read and educate myself as much as my mental health will let me, and i try my best to promote information and donate whenever i can, but i feel like social media has caused some people here to be too into canceling, managing, and being performative in their ‘wokeness.’ like you HAVE to have a blackout pic on instagram and you HAVE to reblog all these posts and you HAVE to immediately cancel everyone who has ever made a mistake EVER with no nuance or context (or dare i say......humanity). like fighting for human rights and speaking up again racism and bringing attention to societal problems is just a checklist to go down instead of being things you should understand and try to improve? like being ‘unproblematic’ starts and ends with mindlessly reblogging ‘woke’ content. idk sorry for going on a rant. going back to your regularly scheduled lighthearted content in 3...2...1

16. Do you like tag games?

ABSOLUTELY TAG ME IN EVERYTHING PLS AND THANK MWAH

17. Do you like ask games?

ofc!!! i used to do a lot of ask games back in the day but work and the pixel art ive been working on has been eating up all my extra time (and i always feel bad if I leave asks unanswered for too long see: q. 13) i do have that clover moots post saved for when my mental health is up and i have the time to tho!!!! 

18. Which of your mutuals do you think is tumblr famous?

ngl the idea of being tumblr famous is hilarious to me bc it usually just the same 10 moots who share a braincell bouncing posts back and forth each other, but i do think all my moots are superstars that even class o super giants millions of millions of miles away are turning green w envy 🥰🥰🥰

19. Do I have a crush on a mutual?

i have a confession i have to make........i have a big phat standing crush on all my moots........its really embarassing............thats its bigger than even tae’s tush or joon’s tits..................pls let me down gently if you dont feel the same................

tagging: @cafejoon @stargazingjin @yoobijin @jinbestboy @jintae @jinv @taemaknae @butterful & anyone who wants to ✨✨

[theodoredimas]

Hey, I’ve noticed with your personal posts and the subtext of other posts that you’ve reblogged recently, that are might not be in a good place mentally. I think you relate heavily to characters that are always continuously processing their trauma( Will, Malcolm, Bucky...). Right now you seem to be enjoying TFATWS and in particular Bucky and maybe even relate to him. I just wanted to say that I hope you are enjoying Bucky’s journey and his working through his trauma and that it doesn’t trigger anything for you. I don’t mean that to be condescending, I just mean that I hope it really is cathartic and fun for you. I hope you are doing well and everything is going okay. And you know, if you ever need a stranger’s perspective or just someone that you don’t ever have to see or speak to again to talk to or rant to, I’ll gladly be that person. We aren’t mutuals, but I really enjoy your blog and connect with a lot of what you talk about.

I hope you don’t feel judged or insulted or that I’m crossing a line. If you do, I sincerely apologize and promise that I’m coming from a good place, but I know you might not think that way. And obviously feel free to ignore this or delete and tell me to fuck off. I understand if you want to or if you want me to unfollow you or something and stay off your blog, I will. But I do mean it, sometimes talking to a faceless stranger you don’t have to ever communicate with again is easier, so if you ever need that or want to try it, I will listen to you without judgement. I could try to give advice or just listen silently. Again, I sincerely apologize if this is crossing way too many boundaries. Please just tell me to fuck off if I am out of line.

And I hope my English is okay. I’m American, but English is not my first language and sometimes when I write a lot, it gets poor.

Please don’t apologize for your thoughts and concern. I truly appreciate it and I’m touched by your words! I am definitely drawn to a certain character type and thankfully Bucky’s storyline, while very personal to me, isn’t at all like my own past traumas. So I can definitely watch his journey without much fear of being triggered. (That’s the main reason I couldn’t watch Jessica Jones because I knew that that would definitely trigger me). And I’m super touched by your offer. I’m always happy to talk about my PTSD and my own journey. The only thing off the table rn is my ED/BDD. That’s still too triggering for me to really talk about without my thoughts spiraling quickly. Again I just want to thank you for your kind words and I want you to know that you’re forever now in my thoughts on my top fave followers. And if you ever want to become mutuals lmk! As long as you have a tagging system I’ll be happy to follow. You seem like an awesome friend to have in my corner. 😊

[frotbot]

hey uuuhh so for some reason tumblr randomly made me unfollow people?? i’ve found like 3 people i followed and for some reason don’t anymore so like if we’re mutuals and you want me to follow you again just lmk

[godandanime-m]

byf/dfi for mobile

don’t start political discourse with me, it makes me stressed. i’m always scared i have the wrong opinion. islamic discourse/beliefs questions are okay though!

i personally think irl shipping is nasty (i used to be a dan and phil blogger ooF) and i know a lot of my followers do ship irl people but if you ship irl people in a really awful way (harassment, etc.) when it has been made clear that those people Don’t Want You To Do It, i will ask you to unfollow.

transphobes aren’t welcome here

don’t ask me about ace discourse i fucking Hate it.

i talk a lot about my interests here, it’s not really a ‘themed’ blog, but there’s a 80% chance you’ll find a funny meme

don’t follow if you’re islamophobic (click here for islamophobia faq, may only work on browser)

i don’t block people

don’t reblog asks or personal posts that make zero sense to rb. if you do i’ll ask you why and probably ask you to delete.

i don’t tag posts with ok to rb/dont rb because if it’s not meant to rb it’ll be obvious by subject matter of the post

if we’re mutuals and you unfollow, lmk so i know not to accidentally call you my mutual again

people who support cringe culture aren’t welcome. i completely understand calling people out for their harmful behaviour/support of franchises that are bad but if you’re going to just hate people because they like something don’t follow. this is mostly a personal thing bc like… my interests are nintendo, pink floyd and queen,,, i’m not exactly on the side where cringe culture doesn’t touch me

i’d prefer adults didn’t talk to me but eh

you probably shouldn’t follow if you hate thomas sanders. i don’t reblog him anymore but i still have a lot of thomas fan accounts following me etc.

i don’t have any triggers, but i’d prefer that if i follow you, you tagged moxiety and the death penalty. catch all is #ndliat (stands for ‘noor don’t look it’s a trigger’ because some people don’t like catchalls being added on their posts)

once you’ve read this, send me a ☁ or like this post! it’s super important! but if you can’t, no stress.

[diss0nant-a]

welcome!!

glad you’re here.

i’m cody, i’m 22, i live in the uk and i’m a big ol’ mess.

    { this blog is strictly 18+ }

my activity*** is spotty cause of work and personal life & this is a multi-muse blog as i can not control myself. oops. fandom muses are divergent and hc based

i will not write smut unless the chemistry is right, even then i might not ( basically if it needs to go under a readmore, i might close the curtains or just go from afterwards. mssg me if you’re unsure about it )

this blog isn’t perfect but it’s loved, it’d be a pleasure to write with you. thanks for checking it out <3

guidelines / navigation / icon credits / muse requests / behind the muses

google docs; character directory / dean winchester verses

mobile; navigation / muse page / supernatural verse navi / killing eve verse navi

*** due to stress it’s caused in the past i refuse to force myself to write. if i disappear it might be for a while but i will always come back. i’ve loved writing since i was in primary school and it’s not going away any time soon. this blog is for fun and learning.

this also applies to ims, i do have mental health issues and sometimes my mind simply will not socialise. this will never be something personal against you; this is just how my brain works. i won’t force myself, i promise to get to you eventually.

( also if we used to be mutuals when this blog was ‘holt-it’ and i've unfollowed you, it's because of inactivity; nothing personal at all, if you want to remain mutuals just lmk i'll be happy to follow again )

just popping this link here for me & anyone who wants to be nosey ;) / to do list

[ophliea]

rules .     ––––––––

i .    this is a private, mutuals - only blog for ophelia of shak/espeare/s ham/let. this blog is gonna be mostly play - based and heavy with personal headcanons! currently i’m not planning much canon divergence but it may veer in that direction at one point. we’ll see. >:-] my name is rosebug, she / they, 22, my main blog is @screwcool, so if i’m not here i may be there! however, my activity is very scattered. incredibly scarce. i got things 2 do!

i’m gonna be dash only for a while bc i cant find a good theme n i just wanna get 2 plotting thank u

ii .    because of the elements of the play, this blog has a big potential to be triggering. everything will be tagged accordingly, but suicide and depression and other topics of that nature will absolutely be brought up from time to time and i understand if anyone needs to unfollow for their own comfort. if i ever miss a tag lmk! i’ll fix it right up.

as for me, if you could try to tag car accidents and head trauma, that would be really helpful and i’d appreciate it! in both text and visual forms.

iii .  i will be practicing exclusivity and mains on this blog bc i like 2 develop dynamics w friends n go into detail on them! i’ll only do this after discussion ofc! i’ll list those dynamics here eventually.

iv .  i don’t write sm/ut nor do i really like plotting that stuff out tbh! but other nsfw content such as gore, violence, death, body horror, etc. may be discussed here. again, always tagged!

v .    i’ll be keeping this blog and my dash chill and small. i really wanna dive into ophelia’s character and develop her w people and i wanna be comfy and not feel overwhelmed everytime i log on! so pls respect the mutuals only rule! i also may take a lil while to follow back bc im slow and lazy. but anw if i’m following u i wanna talk to u and even if im slow to reply pls kno i Want to write w u and ur always welcome to hand me an ask or a starter or an im.

[gardenstateofmind]

alright there's been a lot of discourse bc of pride month so i want to clarify i fully support asexual and aromantic people as inherently queer. tumblr is an escape for me, and i do not want to see any discourse. if you disagree with this sentiment please unfollow. if we are mutuals please block me or lmk ur unfollowing so i can also unfollow. i have no hard feelings, this is simply for my own health because this has a significant impact on my emotions. again, i am NOT looking for fights. please just block and move on

[maggieisalarrie]

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[bitchsexuality]

oh dude shit i just realized i accidentally unfollowed one of my mutuals... what do i do... how do you follow a mutual back again w/o it being awkward

(w/c brings me to another point that im not gonna make another text post about but like, if were mutuals and you notice i unfollowed lmk because i didnt mean to, like if i want to break mutuals normally i just softblock or s/t)

(which might not be the best thing but if you fucked up enough that i dont want to be mutuals anymore i also dont want you following me ya feel)

[tardisthunder]

i have been tagged ☀️

THANK YOU FOR TAGGING ME @didthedevilturnup 💜💜💜

why did you choose your url?

because i was obsessed with doctor who at some point and i particularly loved the tardis. of course, i always loved the doctor and the companions, but i also love the tardis, being the stubborn lil time-machine she is.

truthfully, i had other names before, but i dont remember them.

any side-blogs? (if you have them, name them and why you have them)

yeah i have two side-blogs. i am not gonna name them though. one is basically a blog where i save longer text posts/resources to look up/read more about later. the other blog is empty anyway, it was a blog where i could basically … blog lmao. i have always loved having a blog, i loved writing about things, choosing pictures etc about my daily life. the last time i had a serious blog, none of my friends was reading it though so, you know, what’s the point. but that second blog was originally meant for that and i cant bring myself to delete it.

how long have you been on tumblr?

since, idk 2008/2009. i was on here pretty early but i deleted all my posts back in … oh god, i dont wanna go look but i wanna say 2014? and then i started posting with a queue and tags, which i have since abandoned again lmao. it’s such a hassle to add tags on mobile, so most of the time, i am too lazy to do it.

do you have a queue tag?

yes, it was #stardust queue. i used it when i was taking tumblr a lot more serious and tagged everything lmao. i spent so much time on tumblr a couple years ago, it was everything for me and i was upset when i went a day without being on it because i didnt want to miss out on anything. it was a weird time in my life.

now i am just here whenever i have time and when i want to. but i dont have the urge to be on here every day.

why did you start your blog in the first place?

i wanted to connect with people who have the same interest as me. didnt really work.

why did you choose your icon/pfp?

i used to switch them quite a lot, depending on what i was obsessed with at the time. i think now it’s gonna be jenna for forever. i admired her a lot in doctor who, i still keep track of what other series/movies she appears in and i have gotten used to her as my icon, so she’s gonna stay.

why did you choose your header?

my header on mobile is mountains with a pink sky. i wanted something rather neutral that fits with the icon, but something non-fandom.

what’s your post with the most notes?

i dont know, i dont do posts a lot. i cant make gifs or anything so i dont upload a lot of stuff.

how many people do you follow?

i just checked and i follow over 1594 blogs, which uuuuhhhhhh … is a lot. truthfully, there is a couple of blog-names i remember having followed eons ago and i do like to check up on them, not in like a creepy way but in a “hope you’re alright”-way. so i would not unfollow them, couple irl-friends on here who i am not gonna unfollow either.

and i just dont really care that much anymore? i used to go through my blogs quite regularly to sort out inactive ones and unfollow the ones where i am not that interested in the fandom anymore, but now the blogs i follow are an accumulation of everything i have ever loved and i dont mind.

i will only unfollow if you annoy me for some reason and i remember your name, which is rare.

have you ever made a shitpost?

no.

how often do you use tumblr?

every 2nd or third day when i am bored while i am watching tv, i dont know.

did you have a fight/argument with a blog once? who won?

i dont think so.

how do you feel about ‘you need to reblog this post’?

i scroll over them, i hate being guilt-tripped into needing to reblog something.

do you like tag games?

i LOVE tag games so please tag me in everything. i love doing these!!!
 so please tag me, it might take me a day or two to do it though but i will!!

which of your mutuals do you think is tumblr famous?

i dont know. if you are though, yay!!

do you have a crush on a mutual?

i dont think so.

last song i listened to

bts - friends.

my phone bg and lockscreen

lockscreen is a beautiful pic of yoongi and my phone bg is a pic of hobi peeking in from the side saying “i’m proud of you”. if i put them in here, they're huge, so i am not gonna do that. maybe i will add them later, idk.

tagging:

DO YOU LIKE TAGGAMES??? lmk and i will tag you!

[bibillyhillsbaby]

💕 check-in tag 💕

tagged by my loves, my life: @blueandtaes @emojihobi @rosebowl @artsyjoons and @butterkookies (thank you all - it was fun to read your answers 🥰)

rambling below be warned

1. why did you choose your url? aha i feel like it doesn’t really need explanation lol joon + telepathy + i am baby = my url (i think i changed it the day of the telepathy performance? and was only gonna keep it for a day but then it just stuck i love the sound of it and again, i’m baby) 

2. any sideblogs? if you have them name them and why you have them? i have.... 4 sideblogs? to be fair, 1) one was meant to be a bts sideblog until it took over my life and thus my main, 2) an aesthetic/ art blog that again, i now just post that on main... 3) a blog for books which.... i post on main (do you see a pattern??) and finally 4) my personal travel blog that i haven’t used because uhh no traveling but i use it as a diary basically of when i lived abroad 

3. how long have you been on tumblr? i think the odd little memories creature said i made my blog in 2013?? so many years lol

4. do you have a queue tag? noooo and i keep thinking maybe i should make one but then i like the mystery it creates like... am i here? (which the answer is, yes, probably i am) 

5. why did you start your blog in the first place? honestly i think it was after a post about my history teacher went “viral” (aka was included in a buzzfeed article lmao) and it started on here so i checked it out to look at, of all things, posts about the AP Euro exam (aklamd;asdksand) ; i stayed because it’s my comfort site and where else could i freak out over these men™ with amazing people who ilsm 🥺

6. why did you choose your icon? bi joon!!! happy pride!!! 

7. why did you choose your header? LOL i wanted something that represented all of my biases and also fit my aesthetic aka “did a kindergartener make this?” aka pink, hearts, love, etc. 

8. what’s your post with the most notes? definitely my hobi / my neighbor totoro set which is the set im most proud of because i think i got a better grasp of coloring and how sets should be structured and also like, HE’S SO CUTE!!! 

9. how many mutuals do you have? i echo everyone else and say idk how to calculate that?? but i love and cherish all of you so much 🥺

10. how many followers do you have? enough so that i am perceived, but not too perceived if you get me lmao 😘

11. how many people do you follow? i recently tried to unfollow some inactive blogs so i’m at 353 currently but i follow people at the drop of the hat so it will soon increase lol

12. have you ever made a shitpost? i completely agree with t, like i don’t really believe in the concept of a shitpost, and to quote sharika, “We Are All Just Online” (that being said i am known to make very niche memes about capybaras) 

13. how often do you use tumblr each day? way too much lmao (i say, as i am currently typing this before i leave for work, where i will continue to use tumblr throughout the day because like... idc about work) 

14. did you have a fight/argument with another blog once? who won? lol no and i never will, the only person i argue with is my brother and usually i cry 🥲

15. how do you feel about “you need to reblog this” posts? Specifically posts with that phrasing i dont like because you dont need to do anything, it‘s your blog do what you want - but i do try to reblog things that i think are important and can help people

16. do you like tag games? I love them, i am always behind on them, if you have ever tagged me in something i am in love with you, and if i never responded it is probably still in my likes and i am sorry

17. do you like ask games? Yes! Again, i am very slow ( i am still getting through the ♣️ asks but if you sent me one i will do it!! And if you wrote one about me i will respond !!! It‘s so much easier to write them than receive them but ily)

18. which of your mutuals do you think is tumblr famous? Echoing everyone else again to say what does this mean we are all just on here lmao

19. do you have a crush on a mutual? I am a pisces so yes i am in love with all of you - as namjoon once said „i live so i love“ and as hozier once said „i fall in love just a little old little bit every day with someone new“ and as fleabag‘s dad once said „I think you know how to love better than any of us. That's why you find it all so painful“ - in sum i am made up of love and it‘s everything and all that i am 💕

20. tags? Is this asking whether i like tags or who im tagging? I love tags and i love people who scream in the tags aaaaand im tagging: @hazeltae @fakelovedotmp3 @yoongisbengaliwife @stardustyoongi @pjmsdior @jinsmin @dis-easehobi @yoongibuttcheeks @kithtaehyung @trustingofwinds (tagged some newer moots so if you dont want to be tagged in these lmk! as always only if you want to, and if you have already tag me so i can see! 💕)